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Well, let's start with the basics. My name is Anthony Carmelo Taylor and I'm nineteen years young. My favorite color is red, you'll know because of my room. I love to write novels and short stories because I'm very creative. I can be a little conceited in people's eyes, but in mine I just have a high self-esteem. Okay, who am I kidding? I am conceited, and I believe I have every right to be. I have a great personality and a good sense of humor. I'm very sarcastic, so if you can't take a joke, it may be best not to hang out with me. I'm currently dating someone since April 17th, 2009. His name is Dakota Rae and I love him with all my heart. I'm loyal, caring, supportive, sensitive, and sometimes shy, but when I open up I'm the life of the party. Some people may not like me, but that's their own problem. I'm a great friend and anyone who doesn't cherish my friendship is just missing out. I'll help everyone who needs it and I never judge. Everyone has problems. So, that doesn't make anyone better than the next. Whether you're a different race, orientation, or just different, I'll be there to help. That's just who I am. Anyone can talk to me, but, and I can't help stress this enough, if you can't respect the fact that I'm taken, then don't bother. I don't take shit from anyone, so don't attempt to try because you WILL fail.
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When going out to eat with a group of people at a restaurant, is there any other way to pay for yourself besides cash when getting the bill? Can everyone just put in a credit card so they will split the bill for you that way?

Does it depend on the restaurant? (link)
You can use a credit card or when you have to pay the bill just ask the waiter/tress to split the bill and pay what you owe. It's much simpler that way.


Ok...So I saw this on my bestfriends bulletin on myspace...does anyone have a clue what the heck this is? Or means? Or says, if it says anything at all? I asked him and he just laughed and said, figure it out. I've tried but, I have no clue, here take a crack at it, see if you can decode it.
He said it was posted just for me, hmmmm...I have no clue what it says. Help?!




" 3C1ntSt4pTh3nk3ng, Th1tsM62ss52...3W4nd2rW3ll1n64n2B21bl2T4R21dTh3s1nd5nd2rst1nd3t?
3m1t1l4st, 1g5stTw2lv2th...C1ntG2t545t4fM6H21d!!!"

That was what is said.
17 Female (link)
It says:

I can't stop thinking, thats my issue. I wonder will anyone be able to read this and understand it? i'm at a loss, august twelth. can't get you out of my head


my boyfriend and i have ben going out for over a year, were soffmores. just got in a bad fight which we almost broke up we both cried our eyes out. how can i spice it up a bit to make things more new? or any new flirty things to say? or what can i do or bring him to to make him feel extra loved? everythings the same now we either go with friends or to a house or walk somewhere or mall or park, hes all into metal music n sXe (link)
If you want to spice things up, ask him to take you out to eat or do something spontaneous. There are many things out there you could do that would spice things up. Also, find out things he likes that you two could do together and vice versa.


hi im from pakistan
im 18 years girl..
i was in relationship with a boy who was very mean nd insecure about me and tease me a lot . . he alwys black mail me emotionally thus driving me mad...
sumhow we brok up but i m facing lots of problems in my life after it so i need ur help !!!
my problems are :
1) major problems is that i have become lazy nd absent minded
2)i feel like dumbest girl in world
3) i m losing my beauty ,wit, senses nd efficiency
4)i respond to others late bcoz my mind take lot ov time to think an answer
i hv lots of goals nd i need to study nd socialize bt i cant there is no wayi ll call him back so i need ur advice to become better
plz i need long and sincere answers
THANKS IN ADVANCE (link)
To sum it up, you need to forget the boy you were dating and move on. Your mind is still thinking you need him when you really don't. There are many guys out there and I'm sure you'll find someone soon. If the guy was mean to you and black-mailed you, why would you let him get to you? You deserve better and once you think that way, the sooner everything will turn around.


Okay so I'm 16 years old. And for some reason, whenever a guy shows an interest in me..even if I know in my head that I don't like them, I still have feelings as if I do. It's not only like that with guy's my own age, and it's not only a liking feeling. I also have young male teachers, and for some reason (only certain ones) I just get attached to them, some I even THINK I like. It's just the feeling of having someone who's older than yourself liking how you work and everything I guess? I don't know! It's only to certain guys.
I kind of think it may be because the relationship between my father and I is horrible. And I always look for acceptance from him, although..I barely get it. Maybe that's why?
Also, I'm a pretty girl. I'm always told so. So..why do I feel the need to always "make myself prettier" by adding on more and more make-up as time goes on? It's as if I'm trying to impress people, I'm not though.

Please answer my questions and tell me what's wrong with me :( lol. Thankyou! (link)
From what I read, there is nothing wrong with you at all. I feel like the reason you are liking guys that are older is because you are looking for acceptance from them. Your dad isn't giving you the attention you deserve so you look for another mature adult to get the attention from. Also, I don't think you like them, you just like the thought of them.


I know it isn't really sex but I didn't know what else to put it under.
OKay this is mad embarrasing but i figured I'd ask here. I'm 17 years old and I still can't get a friggen tampon to "work". I try to use em but they hurt so friggen bad. I tried the little OB mini ones which kinda work but I'm always afraid i'll bleed through them. It's really embarrassing ... any advice anyone? (link)
Well, as a guy I wouldn't know what that would feel like, but if they continue to hurt then you could always use a pad.


I've been with my boyfriend for almost three weeks, and people keep saying to me 'Awh, you and * look so cute together!' or things along those lines, and I'm not sure how I should respond. I mean, naturally I'm happy, but I'm just not sure what an appropriate response to that would be.
Any suggestions? :) (link)
Well, the best answer would have to be "Thank you." You could do that or just smile.


My friend jacklin said i can use her account. This is her friend Jasmine. Is it wrong for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? I mean i love him really much. I dotn want it to be wrong cause i lvoe him so much. IS it wrong for a 14 year old girl to go with a 17 year old? (link)
Well, no it isn't wrong at all. If you love him and he loves you then there isn't a problem, but you may want to watch out when he turns 18 because it'll become illegal and your parents could press charges on him if they wanted to.


15-F

So this girl text harassed me on Saturday.
She got my number from another girl and started texting me saying I was a
Poser.
Bitch.
Effed up.
Two faced.

I locked every one of her texts and I replied to every one but like three with 'K.'
No today, Tuesday, she was talking to a few people I know and I walked by with a friend, she says to the group of people
"God I want to beat the shit out of her"
Ect, ect. So I have a few witnesses.
Now tomorrow I'm going to my school principal about her.
What kind of trouble could she get in? (link)
Well, with the school, you can get her suspended for a few days, but if you take it to the police they can do more damage. Text harassment is a misdemeanor and can get the other in a lot of trouble. For example, my friend was arrested for text harassment.


best ways to slim body (link)
You should eat healthy and exercise daily. Don't eat too much fatty foods. Don't starve yourself or take any pills because they never work.


My boyfriend's 27th birthday is coming up in a few weeks, and I can't think of anything to get him. He has quite a bit of money, and I'm not sure what to get him that doesn't look bad.

I know he'll love whatever I give him because I gave it to him (Cheesey I know, but that's him to a T. I could hit him with a frying pan and he'd think it was cute.), but I really want to try and get him something he would use.

Any ideas or suggestions are gladly taken, believe me, I could use them. (link)
Well, you could buy him a watch or some sort of jewelry that he would wear all the time. Rings are in, so you should get him something like that.


What is the best place to go in Las Vagus, Nevada? (link)
To be honest, I've never been there yet, but from what I've heard... the best place to go is Treasure Island.


what are some good/cheap ways to decorate for halloween? like my front yard, steps leading upstairs to my home, driveway even inside my home
and perhaps some good ideas for foods incase i have a party? thanks! (link)
Well, if you want to do something creepy for Halloween, you could do a "touch" segment. For example, you could have kids stick their hands in a box and have spaghetti and say it's intestines and use jello for brains. As for decorations, you could use the typical cobwebs on your house or having a ghost hanging somewhere. If you have a mailbox, use a fake hand to hang out of it. The children will get their kicks out of it.


How does one achieve a level of "coolness?" (link)
There is no such thing as a level of "coolness." In High School, it's typically the jocks/preps, but you should stay who you are and not someone you aren't. If people don't like you for who you are on the inside, then they aren't people you should be hanging around. Just stay true to yourself.




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