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Getting attached so easily...


Question Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 3:20 pm

Okay so I'm 16 years old. And for some reason, whenever a guy shows an interest in me..even if I know in my head that I don't like them, I still have feelings as if I do. It's not only like that with guy's my own age, and it's not only a liking feeling. I also have young male teachers, and for some reason (only certain ones) I just get attached to them, some I even THINK I like. It's just the feeling of having someone who's older than yourself liking how you work and everything I guess? I don't know! It's only to certain guys.
I kind of think it may be because the relationship between my father and I is horrible. And I always look for acceptance from him, although..I barely get it. Maybe that's why?
Also, I'm a pretty girl. I'm always told so. So..why do I feel the need to always "make myself prettier" by adding on more and more make-up as time goes on? It's as if I'm trying to impress people, I'm not though.

Please answer my questions and tell me what's wrong with me :( lol. Thankyou!


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acarmelo answered Saturday October 17 2009, 3:03 am:
From what I read, there is nothing wrong with you at all. I feel like the reason you are liking guys that are older is because you are looking for acceptance from them. Your dad isn't giving you the attention you deserve so you look for another mature adult to get the attention from. Also, I don't think you like them, you just like the thought of them.

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lusingrip101 answered Friday October 16 2009, 10:47 am:
nothing is wrong with you. just like every other girl you want attention from an older man whom you can imagine is your father. just dont do anything stupid and you will be fine.

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