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Hey!
Im Sho.
I've been through lot in my 14 years.
I know a bit about divorce, relationships, Self-harm and mental health matters and death in your family cause I've lived through it all, and still battling with consequences of some of these.
I'm a regular girl who goes to a grammar school in the United Kingdom. I come from a big family - 7 kids. I voulenteer with Special needs kids - Autism and Aspergers and I know about these pretty well because of it.
I'm very into Paranormality, Randomness, Rock/Punk music, Quoting and playing my Clarinet and Guitar.
Hope to see you round (:
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advice

..i don't really know this song but i know the category it would be placed in, would be like, r&b or hip hop.

but the beginning part of the chorus goes,

" my girl got a girlfriend"...then after a while he goes...convict...then does that akon thing.
it's kinda new, if that helps in any way.

Ray L - My Girl Got A Girlfriend

I hope it helps =]

[feels good to be back ^-^]

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what word goes with tropical beginning with a "T" ?

Like ex. (tropical twist, or tropical breeze)

Tropical Tease
Tropical Tango
Tropical Twonko
Tropical Tan
Tropical Twirl
Tropical Turtle
Tropical Top
Totally Tropical
Tropical Trap

Were these the sort of thing you were looking for?
Hope you liked them anyway (:

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I saved a picture in MSN messenger and I saved it with a keyboard shortcut.Now whenever I type an "O",a picture of a hypnotic O appears.How can I delete it?

Heya
You can either 'show all' and then hit 'modify' and change the keyboard shortcut

Or you can just
emodicon-show all-select the O emoticon-delete


add me if you like (:
SweetLittleSpitFire@hotmail.co.uk
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so, school's almost out and i'm making a fun, summery playlist for my ipod to listen to in the car, with the girls, etc. i need some fun, never-get-old sort of songs, preferably about summer. some stuff i already have, just to get the jist of it, are: kenny chesney's "summertime", evan & jaron "from my head to my heart", ok go's "here it goes again" and uncle kracker & kenny chesney's "when the sun goes down".
anything fun, basically (: thanks!

Summer of 69 - Greenday / Bryan Adams
Sundown - S club 8

Sorry, cant think of any more!!
(:

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I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.

Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.

If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.

You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)

This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.

Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!

Everyone will receive feedback.

Thank you!

P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.

I live on
-noodles
-naan bread
-scones
-smartie brownies
-spaghetti Bolognase [sp?]
-salad
-bananas
-cheesecake

and
-rice

(:
Im a pig lol

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I know I shouldn't be thinking like this, but I want to die about half the time. I really want to be happier, but I can't.
Do you know anything I could try because I'm desperate... please?

Just to let you know,
I can fully relate to you.
I feel the same at times.

I'm lucky because I have a few friends who I can turn to for help sometimes, and even if they dont know that im not feeling very upbeat, they can cheer me up (:

Are you involved in any clubs like guides or St. John Ambulance?
Both are great to be involved with.

Do you know why you're feeling like this,
has something happened to you?
Or is it just that you wake up one day and think 'is this all life is for me?'

These are a few things to do that can make you feel more upbeat at times and kinda improve your self esteem::

Think back to when you did something new for the first time.
Do something you have been putting off.
Do something you are good at.
Get seriously relaxed.
Remember all the brilliant things you have achieved.

Write back if you want to talk
(:
xox

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Hi.
I want to know if there is a way to straighten your hair easily with no stress without being a freaking millionaire that goes to the salon every day. sorry it just makes me mad how you have to be rich to look good. I have a conair straightener and i looked up straightening tips on the internet and it just gave me this shit about buying really expensive stuff. is there a way I can make my hair look wow without frizzing with a conair straightener and some straightening cream and gel??
you don't know how many thanks i have if you can answer this 1 for me :))

What I do anyway (:

Wash hair and let it dry naturally
[Dont put it into a scrunchie of anything]

When its dry, put all of your hair into a bobble except for a thin layer underneath,
straighten this park.
repeat, leaving more each time.
Keept doing your hair in layers.

It generally lasts for days even if you piut it into a bobble..

basically,
Do your hair in layers

Hope it helped (:
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so my friends and i are getting really bored just hanging out at my house. so we want to go out. we want to go to a club so i was wondering if anyone knew of any teen clubs.

~ages 14-18~

thank you!

You could try:

St. John Ambulance
Guides/scouts
Special needs awareness groups
Christian groups

Or look in your local paper for weekly events
(:

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Of your favorite music genres, which do you think is the *least* popular, nation-wide. If the person before you has the same answer as you, please choose the second least-popular. I'm interested only in genres that you like, and I already know statistics. Thank you very much for your time, I truly appreciate it.

Theymos

As WoahThereBabe said, metal is the least popular where I come from,

but second least popular of my choices..
hmm..
Either the 80's or Country,
But then thats in NI in the UK
And im kinda.. Odd

(:

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14/f
I don't know if I'm depressed or if it's just teenage hormones but...
Since 4th grade, I've been getting multiple suicide thoughts and in the past year and a half, I've been attempting to kill myself but backed down at the last moment. & I feel like a horrible person, friend, daughter, sister, and everything. I feel like no one cares about me and that no one would miss me if I'm gone. I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone and that everyone deserves someone much better than me. I've tried to drug, drown, strangle, and cut myself to death. And I always seem to stare out of my window wondering where I'd fall and if I would die. I've been cutting myself for over a year now and blah. I'm afraid to let anyone get close to me and I just pretend like everything is fine. But when I get home, I just want to kill myself and start crying.

What's wrong with me? This has been going on for 5 years now and it's not getting any better but getting worse and worse

Hey
I know how you're feeling
I've been feeling similar since I was about 8 years old

Hon, You need to get help. It will benifit you.
There is a reason for the cutting and the self-worthlessness. It isnt fair on you to feel horid about yourself, I bet you'rea brilliant person.

I recently tried to kill myself, and as only stopped by a fried ringing me. I thought that no-one cared about me either, but once a few of my friends heard about my experience, I realise just how much support I get from them, and I appreciate it now.
Talk to a few of the people that you asscosciate with and I'm sure they'll tell you that they care for you.

If you're having one of 'those' times wher you think that yiu need to do something, then get away from anything that up could use, lock yourself in the under-stair cupboard if you have to.
You're a strong person,
You've survived this long and you've come one here and asked for help.
Its the first step. (:
AIM/MSN me if you need to
Look on my column
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for my project in school i'm doing a report on france, and we have to bring in food from our coutry to feed about 35 kids in the class and i have no idea what to bring! i already tried google but i didn't find anything, i was thinking french fries but i don't think those are really french lol.. does anyone know any simple and easy recipies to make from france? THANK YOU TONS!!

croissants

you can get them in most bakerys and most local shops

In france, thats what the hotel we were in served for breakfast, along with squeeze-your-own orange juice

Very french (:

More info::
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Croissant

Hope I helped (:

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can someone give me ideas on what to wear with red converse? like what color clothes would look with them. thanks!!

Well,
i'll get all arty
Green is the contrasting colour.
So, green would bring out the colour in them, and compliment both items of clothing

I would wear jeans, with a skirt over them, my preferance is Black
And maybe a red or green top

Or stripy tights with a skirt and a vest top of red or green and then a necklace or something nice to jazz it up

I wear both like this on a regular basis so, i'm not attempting to make anyone look stupid (:

Hope you like it lol
(:

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IM BOREDDDD.

what should i do?

www.bored.com

Go to google - type in 'bored'

read
surf eBay
customize clothes
write
research a random subject
Download music
Draw badly
Go out and take photos on a digi camera
Make a bebo/mySpace soite

Hope the short list helped
(:

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Does anyone have links ... or , just quotes they can type that i could put in my info. like from songs or just websites. i recently got dumped and id liek ot make my boyfriend feel bad.

http://www.quotationspage.com/
http://www.quoteland.com/
http://www.brainyquote.com/
http://www.quotegarden.com/
http://www.poems-and-quotes.com/index.html

Or just google '[insert genre here] quotes'
thats where I got all those links

Hope i helped (:
-TeenageGraffiti

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Hi all, this is yg. I consider this a question, I am also kind of looking for opinions. I am asking here instead of the mod forum because I'd like answers from those who are mods, and those who may not be yet. There is no right or wrong answer, so please, honest opinions only.

In the last month and a half this question, or a version of this question has come up and it bothers me. 'How can I hide that I have been on advicenators?' I assume it was meant from parents.

I would like to know if others have this problem.

Do you have to hide that you use the site?
If so why?

What do you think would make it acceptable to your parents?

Would you be embarrassed for your parents to see the site?

If so is it because of questions asked?
Questions you've asked? Or just the questions in general?

Answers given?
YOUR answers given, or just everyones answers?

Has anyone, besides myself, (who talked to both my kids about it), Talked to their parents about BECOMING an advicenator?

I think it is a great way to initiate conversation
about topics you may be embarrassed to discuss with a parent about yourself. I wonder if anyone has done that?

I think I have plagued you with enough questions for now. Thank you! :)yg

Do you have to hide that you use the site?
If so why?
-I dont really hide the fact that I use this site. I don't announce it to people though.

What do you think would make it acceptable to your parents?
- Some parents would be slightly put out that their child would get help off a website instead of from them. My mum and I get on pretty well, but there are some questions I cant ask her.

Would you be embarrassed for your parents to see the site?
- Not exactly embarrassed, I minimise the page every time I leave the computer, but then I do that with all my sites. Its like, they're invading my personal space. They know me and they could read the help ive tried to give. People on this site, sont really know me, and I can be myself towards them and be honest.

If so is it because of questions asked?
Questions you've asked? Or just the questions in general?
- Questions that ive asked, because then some of them would end up with her thinking im mentally ill or something. Some of the ones asked would make me a bit awkard if shes reading these and thinking that im going to be getting ideas - im not!

Answers given?
YOUR answers given, or just everyones answers?
- my answers really, because they're my honest opinion, and mum's tried to crush my personal feelings on many subjects, and there are some subjects that im forbidden to mention in my home life, but i can read and discuss them here (:

Has anyone, besides myself, (who talked to both my kids about it), Talked to their parents about BECOMING an advicenator?
- No cause mum wouldnt have the time really, and my father ['it'] is about as useful as a chocolate ashtray and CAUSES most of my problems

I think it is a great way to initiate conversation
about topics you may be embarrassed to discuss with a parent about yourself. I wonder if anyone has done that?
- if i want to start one of those taboo conversations, I generally say that my friend and I were dicussing [whatnot] and id like mum to give me her opinion on

I'd like to ask also if you'd be embarrassed to look at the site with a parent IF they DIDN'T know you had a column here, and couldn't see what you've answered. They wouldn't know what questions you asked anyway..
it.
- If I didnt tell mum, then she wouldnt know about it, adn she'd ask to ee my personal part. If she was looking at it with me knowing id be 'urg, help!' it would be kinda strange. But if they wouldnt find your personal questions or answers, then i think it would be fine.

Your welcome (:
-TeenageGraffiti

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where can i get those aviators that like everybody has: the ones that are really reflective, almost like a mirror, and they're silver.


???

thanks in adnvce

You can get sunglasses in most chemists and aviators are in some of them too.

Supermarkets usually have them too, because lots of people want these type of glasses now.

My local[ish!] dunnes stores has loads of different colored ones for about £6. Mine are red >.<

Hope its a bit 'o help to you!
(:

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wheres a place to get easier guitar tab with words under the tab for evanescence going under and imaginary and tourniquet

I get all my guitar tabs off
http://www.911tabs.com

I've found the evanascence tabs and you can have a look through them if you want (:

http://911tabs.com/tabs/e/evanescence/

Hope it helps
(:

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Ok well me and my friend wants to watch a movie in the theater on friday the 13th but my dad wont' let me because it's a bad day and sometimes people die on that day (he told me).

Normally I don't go out so it wouldn't matter for the day but this is rare for a lifetime to go out with my friend!

My dad doesn't beleive in anythign either but he only beleives in friday the 13th..

Does anything bad happen to you on friday the 13th?

I just think he's scared since friday the 13th is a dark day i'm gonna get hit by a car or something.

Well..
I got hit by a car..
that was the 21st of June

And one Friday 13th
I broke my arm..
but it was also good friday
so.. o.O

Its all kinda silly about it..
its just a number and a day

anyway..
Dont let me scare you!! lol
(:

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in our schooll, its like french-kissing, but other places i think it means sex? or does it.....



thanks in advvv.


Well, im my little area on Northern Ireland it basically means that a guy and a girl get together and start going out casually

Hope it helped
(:

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14/f :)

Im So Bored What Can I Do?

http://www.bored.com

it'll keep you amused for hours!

lol

Keep Entertained ^-^
(:

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