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hey, the names sheila or shae... football all time fav sport, i also play the drums, and defineately keyboard, i like to have fun and i love any type of rock music, everything from yellowcard to 10 years, to chevelle to crossfade

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Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m

ok well i had the same problem and you may think its dumb taking this advice form 13/f but im going out with a guy who lives in NC and i live in TX and the same thing happend between us two, but we took a chance, and its been working out pretty good, i mean we've been together for 11 months!
so just take a chance if u really love her that much!
hope i helped
-sheila

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yr soooooooooo sexxxxxy n hawt!

te-he te-he te-he!!!

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i need help im a guy and my hair is like out of control its super wavy and when i try to grow it out it compacts and wont go down how can i straighten it out or fix it please?

just buy a really good iron ceramic straightener and take ur time straightening it , piece by piece, layer by layer, that should do it, i have super ,atomic, wild, has a mind of its own, curly hair and i have a chi straightner and i just do my hair ever other day!
-sheila

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my eyeliner is so annoying...it comes off after about 10 minutes, and it always makes a big clumpy thing in the corner of me eye...is there any way to stop it from doing this?

get a better company of eyeline, and if you use liquid eye liner, trust me it works wayyy better!
hope it helps
-sheila

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I have a really weirdo stupid dog, lol. She bumped my head and now i have a HUGE bruise. Do you guys know how to get rid of a bruise fast? My parents and my older sister (Who's moving home today, YAY!), are gonna laugh at me and I hate it when they do. I also really don't want to go to school with the stupid bruise. Any help would be appreciated!!
-Caydee-

well cover up, or foundation should do the trick, but just make sure you even it out everywhere, so it doesnt look obvious that u just put it in one place for the reason!
-happens all the time to me
-sheila

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I have short finger nails and I need to know a way how not to get nail polish every where aroung my nail, and I use dark colors so it's hard. Does anyone out there know how to do this? If so please help!
♥Jess

ok i know this happens to me, well first make sure you have nailpolish remover and q-tips, you know the things to clean ur ears, well put a couple of coats of nailpolish on , and then put a top coat, you know the thing that makes your nails shiny, then when it dries up, take the q-tip and dab it in nailpolish remover, then get the nailpolish thats got onto ur finger!
i do it allll the time, and i mainly wear bladk nailpolish so yeah!
-hope it works
-sheila

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My ex boyfriend used to tell me he loved me and that I am beautiful even after we broke up...he loved me more than anyone and anything in this whole world. he told me that I was the only thing that matterd to him and that I was the only good thing in his life. and I know what his life is like, and believe me...its TERRIBLE. Anyways, I was to stupid to see how much he really meant what he was saying. and everyone else was telling me that I mean the world to him and I wouldnt believe it. But now I understand. And I want to fall BACK in love with him. I was in love with him once...at least i think i was..it didnt last very long. ive had a thing for my other ex 4 a LONG time and he came back into my life and I up and left the first guy for him. But now I want to fall back into love with him and I dont know how. I mean I love him, but I'm not in love with him. How can I fall in love with him again?

ok , go out with him again, and just give it time to like, you know that you will like it when you go back out, but then later on if you dont like it anymore, just hang on, think about how much you wanted to fall back in love with him, and just hope u stay in love with him
i tried my best to help
casue i have had the same thing happen to me
-sheila

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hey sheila this is nida
omg wats up?? i just wanted ot say hi

no time to mess around nida, gots to give advice *smiles with a big grin*

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okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!!

first sit down and talk to him about everything that has been goin on, and give him time to understand, tell him that you will stop lieing and try your hardest not to lie, if you love this guy soo much, you wouldn't lie to him!

hope this helps
-sheila

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