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I am SMINT! I am a pretty strange person from Chicago, Illinois, the suburbs anyway.

I'm pretty involved with the music world. I like most types of music that I hear, except that I DESPISE Coldplay. My favorite bands would have to be Audioslave, Led Zeppelin, Jet, and CREAM. I adore Cream. I also really like Phillip Glass, even though he is a little odd. I play the violin, and I'm starting guitar.

I've never been in a serious love-relationship, but I've seen a lot of my friends go through various relationships, and I usually give pretty good advice on this topic. Like I just said, I do have friends. Surprising, isn't it? I haven't had a real not-talk-to-each-other-for-days fight since 6th grade, so I have a general idea about how things are. Mind you, I'm still a serious bitch when I want to be. But I get over things pretty quickly, which is a good thing.

Well... I suppose that's it!




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How much money is a 2004-2005 Range Rover? (link)
Autobytel.com says $71,585 - $83,335.


wats pms mean pleeeze help
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PMS= Pre-menstrual syndrome. It's different for every girl, but for most girls/women it's the week before a period. Lots of cramps, crabby feelings, not fun. A lot of people get PMS during their period, or after it. It's kinda weird.


I wasnt planning on suing a pick, but why would you say to not use one?? whats wrong with it? (link)
Well, I don't have anything against picks. A lot of guitarists say that you're not a real guitarist if you use a pick, but I don't see any real flaws. Try using a pick and fingerpicking to see which one works for you.


I am getting a new bass/guitar. It is a washburn. I was wondering if it is hard to learn, or if my fingers will hurt the first few weeks or something. . . Im just curious, please tell me if its easy or hard or if it will hurt my fingers or etc. . .

Bye (link)
I've been playing for a couple weeks now, and it really isn't bad at all. If you use a pick, I bet it would be even better. Not that I advise using a pick. The first couple weeks of playing for hours on end will probably hurt a little, but it builds character.


When one flaunts there new relationship all over the internet, I.E Bob is so hot. I've never been so happy. He's absolutely amazing. I'm so lucky. Like, wow. He's so hot. He's so hot. Like, everywhere...is it safe to think that the person doing this is insecure about the relationship, and is just trying to prove to everyone how great it is, when maybe it's not all that wonderful? (link)
actually, yeah. I've seen this happen a couple of times, and this very well could be the case.


I need help my crush does not have a crush on me what should i do? (link)
continue living? Really, it isn't the end of the world. Tons of people go through this, just move on.


I have been divorced for almost a year, and have been seeing a guy from work for almost a year, but used to he would always want to be around me, touch me etc., now i almost have to force him to do anything. he says he still has the same feelings for me and the thing is that when we get into an arguement he always tells me to shut up, that I am f-ing stupid, or go to He@@. He always opologizes and I know he has had a really rough childhood, both parents dying, his dad shot his mom right in front of him and his grandad used to beat him, I can deal with thie emotional rollercoaster with him anymmore, should i try to work it out or kick him out?????

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if he's swearing at you at all, insulting you, ect, he doesn't deserve to be around you. A rough childhood really isn't much of a reason to be a jerk to you, the person he supposedly loves the most.


What happens if you put this side up face down while popping microwave popcorn? (link)
the bag will explode in the microwave, and the microwave is like "hey... I'm being pelted with popcorn!" and it explodes too, which makes you explode, which makes your house explode, which makes your street explode, which makes your town explode, which makes your county explode, which makes your state explode, which makes your country explode, which makes your continent explode, which makes the world explode, which makes the planets around it explode, which makes the solar system explode, which makes the universe explode!!!!!

So don't do it.


ok heres my quesion .......i get good grades in school i look somewhat good......and i have a great voice....but i feel like i need to be somewht popularr.....and plez dont answer " who cares wht other people think" wht do i do? (link)
Truth is, you really don't need to be popular. The popular people in my school are extremely dull, concerned only with football and make up. I would much rather be with my friends, who share my interests. But that's just what I like. If you like football and/or make up, strike up a conversation with a popular person. They don't bite... often...


Do you feminists hate gay men as much as you hate straight ones? (link)
dumbass. We're not all women.


What should i sell? (link)
Furriest Rugs.


Ever since I was a little kid, I've been terrified to leave my house for fear of spontaneous combustion. Is this normal? (link)
... no. No it's not. Because you can spontaneously combust in your house too.


I have a disease of the nervous system and can no longer write with my dominent hand. Should I give up writing? Im in the 8th grade and this is very frustrating! (link)
learn to write with your other hand. You can't freaking give up writing.


My friends and I sometimes make ourselves throw up like if we eat a really big meal and don't want to get fat from it. It's not bad, we're not anorexic or anything, and I know a ton of people who do it. But this one girl at our school found out and is like freaking out about it... how do we let her know it's okay? (link)
it's really not ok. You're ruining your body by doing this. It could turn into bullemia, which is extremely serious.


Should I go out and buy really nice pans for cooking, or will the k-mart specials do it? (link)
I would buy the really nice ones. They'll probably last longer, and they'll do a better job with your food.


Everybody in my school has already had like 10 boy/girl friends... I've had none. Thats right... zip, zero, zilch! They all say how great it is to be hooked up, and they always have someone to dance with at activity nite. I have nobody!

Sincerely,
BoyCrazy (link)
WRONG! You don't need a boyfriend. No one does.


I've gone out with this kid twice and both times the reason for the break up was we were basically sick of each other. Unfortunately, we both keep bouncing back to each other. Consequently I'm pretty obsessed with this one kid.

Recently, however, he's taken to generally ignoring me when I'm around. This hurts me, not because I like him per se at the moment, but because I miss our friendship like whoa. I say hi to him whenever I see him and everything, but I don't want to call him (the chase and all that jazz). But I miss him so much. I've let too many friendships die this way. Advice? (link)
You definitly don't need him if he's ignoring you. He clearly doesn't have the maturity to date, and no offense, but neither do you. I sure as hell know I'm not mature enough. Most people aren't, infact.


I met a guy in a chat room....We have a lot in common and a lot of the same interests. I am 15 and he is 37...he looks way younger. I have been hanging out with him after school and at the mall. I want to date him. I am very attracted to him and he is SO nice and sweet to me. He takes me to lunch, etc. Should I get involved with him even though we have a huge age difference? I don't think it makes a difference. (link)
WOAH... that's just plain odd. Legally, I don't even think you can get married or even date. You certainly can't do anything, if you catch my drift. You met him in a chat room. He could be putting up an act so he can get you alone and you know... rape you. It sounds really dangerous to me. Most older men don't look to a high schooler for romance.


If you're too shy to ask someone out in person is it creepy to write them a note? (link)
I don't think so. This should be fine, most people don't like being confronted in person. (I know I don't! Even if it's someone I really like.)


Lately I developed a liking towards a guy friend in my dorm. Every time it was just the two of us together, or just the two of us and perhaps one other close friend, he would act very solicitous towards me--he would do small things such as put his arm around my shoulder, hold my books for me, etc. I have also had many wonderful conversations with him in his room and elsewhere. So I was hopeful until this week, when I found out that he has asked another girl to a date event and has feelings towards her. Now I wonder if he felt something towards me but was discouraged by my inaptitude in flirting--I have difficulty playing that whole game of hinting and whatnot. It's a foreign language to me. (link)
sounds like a real jerk. He's definitly not worth your time. He sounds like a natural flirt to me.




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