Hey, i am a 13 year old female and i am in the seventh grade! I love to sing alot! I think advicenators is a great place to say whatever you need and feel free to ask me anything because i will not laugh! i love to get things in my inbox! Hope you enjoy my column! I also love to chat on the javachat! so maybe we could talk!
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me and my boyfriend have not had sex but for some reason the last 2 times he has fingered me, i bled. is that normal? (link)
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Well he probably popped your cherry! or sratched you!
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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period. (link)
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Well GET A STINKING PREGNANCY TEST! it is your fault for doing it!
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OMG. I know this girl who smokes weed and I try to tell her to stop but she totally keeps on doing it. The only reason she does it though is to be cool but when I try to tell her that it's not cool, she hits me with a soda can! HELP!! (link)
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Well threaten her. Make her scared! like if you smoke so en so will happen!
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I know this is a little stupid but can someone give me step-by-step instructions on how to tie a tie....i have no idea how to...thanks! (link)
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sorry kiddo! go ask a real man!
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ok so i had a bf for almost 4 months....n hes my brothers best friend, so i will eventually see n talk to him this summer. we havent talked in about 2 months so i guess u can say this is our little break...do u think there is a chance that we will go out again once we start talking...has anybody had a bf n not talked to him for a while then go back out?...
thanks in advance!!!! (link)
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Well, I so understand. I think that you are still in ove with him but he is probably not with you. He wants to move. But if there is hope, of course you guys would probably do great together!
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just warning you, this may get long!
last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.
the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.
the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!
my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.
i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.
please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...
-frustrated (link)
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well take a test and prove to them you are not pregnant or had sex! Then point out everything they make you do. Ask them to help you around the house! If they tell you say,"But i always do it!"
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what do i do if i think my boyfriend is lying to me? PLEASE HELP ~Emma~ (link)
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well find out the truth from others then break up w/ him!
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hey add me undr ur other name so i can see it!
abbey (link)
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ok which one i only use mudimadi! I used to have another one but i never use it! k?
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I went to a church dance which was actualy really fun it didnt seam lyk one @ all. This kid lyks me his name is andrew and i gave him answers in 6th grade when i was a teachers assistiant and ya i gave him the answers and i could tell then he lyked me I was in 7th grade and now i am in 8th and i no tat he still lyks me because he danced whith me lyk 3 times. I just dont no ifi should go out wiht him or not because i am so confused and that would be my 1st bf and i dont know (link)
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i think that if you honostley like him you should go out with him! It is your choice though!
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where have u been grl??? i have missed u in math and science!
x0x0 abbey x0x0 (link)
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Well i have been AT HOME SICK! i will probaly come to school on Friday! I had a sore throat and a fever of 103.0! I have been on advicenators this whole week! hehehehehe! I have another name for advicenators! It is Flowerpowergurl! talk to you later!
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How can i eat healthy i do eat healthy but i would lyk to be more and i am 13 i dont think i am fat if n e one thinks that i just want to stay in shape 4 basketball and softbal and swimming which r summer sports!
does n e one have ne suggestions about wut i can eat or do thanks
if this helps i am in california and i am 13 and 100lbs if that helps (link)
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wellyou know that you are eating healthy but maybe you should eat a friut once a day. You should DEFININTLY drink water more than anything else! hope that i helped!
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HeY dEaNnA!!!
i like your column!! i am happy that we are becoming friends! like passing notes and stuff and also talking alot! i think that we should get together sopmetime!! that would be fun!if you need any more help with you column i will help you!! just ask me at school or in my column!! i g2g
x0x0 abbey x0x0 (link)
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yo wat is up gurl! i actually did get your e-mail!hehehe! we should soooo get 2 gether talk 2 u l8r
how do u e-mail me? i wanna e-mail u by myself
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okay, im a lesbian, and im 14 years old. i want to get with girl but im not sure how to approach one. There's also the complication that they may not swing that way. How do i join the dating world and how do i ask a girl out? (link)
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Sick! how would i know how to approach a girl if i am a girl! I am not a lesbo!
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well, my friend told me that before you use a tampon there is a piece of skin that the tampon wiil break! I am 14 and i haven't started my period yet! Does it hurt the first time you put a tampon in? Is there a piece of skin? Thanx 4 helpin! (link)
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well actually certain type things could happen but you know if it does hurt it is only cause you are not used to it!
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Ok heres the deal, i like this guy. i liked him ever since i saw his face. he has the cutest face ever!!! i dont know how to tell him. my frend and i lyk always talk about him and while hes in the same class. Im kinda like not popular but he is.. i dont know what to do!! (link)
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hey,
i am goin through the same thing! B nice to him and maybe it may slip up that u like him!
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okay i have a guy friend...hes nice and sweet but not liked very much at school...tonight he threatened to kill himself. im really scared b/c im not around him much at school and never after school...i care about him alot but sometimes dont show it very well. Should i bring our IM conversation to the councelor tomorow or something else...talking to him doesnt help...he doesnt listen.
please help...i rate hight
-x0x- (link)
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hey,
lets see if i were you i would try to wait on him during school and maybe hang out with him! The top reasons people kill themselves is b/c of no friends! So try hangin out with him! If it gets worse then tell the counselor!
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This is gunna be really long, im sorry. but thanks in advance to anyone that helps! ok, so last night i was hanging out with my boyfriend of almost a month, and we were drinking but neither of us were even feeling a buzz. well one of his friends touched my stomach, and my boyfriend is extremely protective of me and got really pissed. he was trying to calm down and was shaking, he kept telling me he was gunna kill him, so i told him not to worry about it that his friend has no chance with me and i said 'your all i need'. right after i said this he got the sweetest lok on his face and said the 3 words i would of never thought would come from his mouth- "I love you". this caught me by complete surprise, i didn't say anything back, i just kissed him, well throughout the coarse of the night he told me he loved me 8 times. each time i said nothing. We've only been going out for almost a month (will be a month this friday) but have been really close and flirtly for 3 months. i finally gave in and said i love you too one of the times he said it. I do care for him soo much, just for me its so hard to believe in the word and meaning of 'love'. But yet i said it to him, and i think that was a mistake on my part. but i couldn't just not say something. But i want to talk to him about it and tell him i dont want him to say those words until he is sure of what hes saying and when he means it. but how am i supposed to talk to him about it? (link)
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Hey,
that was a great qeustion! I think that you should just be listening to him and see if he really loves you! Because sometimes love is hard to believe! just listen and maybe just tell him how you feel about that and you never know he may just be calm about it! Good luck! bye Hope that i helped!
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