Hi I'm Alyssa. I'm from Las Vegas, NV but now I'm living in Anaheim, California as a Disney Princess... Princess Jasmine specifically. Really into guitar, singing, and I'm also a lifeguard. I love poetry as well.
Gender: Female
Location: Las Vegas
Occupation: Disney Princess
Member Since: June 16, 2010
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what is all the reasons to skip your peoride (link)
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I'm Just adding on to the list.
-Sadness/ Depression
- Stress
- Change in diet
- Too much excercise
- Rapid weight loss
- Medication
- Being a teenager (lots of teenagers find that their periods are irregular and it's normal to skip it sometimes)
- Approaching menopause
- Pregnancy
- Too little exercise
- Hormones (My mom skipped periods all the time before she had me)
-Rapid weight gain
-Getting off of medication
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Lately I noticed I am low on self-esteem often.Like,the smallest thing can make me insecure.I am usually very confident,because I'm really good-looking and smart.I am afraid when this happens,because I set an example for a lot of my friends out there and if they saw me get all insecure and scared they'd be lost,they always say that seeing me all so confident and bold helps them go through the hard things in their lives.I think it may be related to my bf.I'm always afraid he won't like me once we get to bed,even though he always says I'm gorgeous and that he loves how I look.I wanna get rid of this stupid feeling I get.What can I do to stop this from happening? I've had enough of it for a lifetime. (link)
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I'm the same way. I think that you sound like a leader, and a great human being, but you are just that, human. You don't have to be perfect. I know I built up walls so people don't see me when I'm not doing awesome... because I want people to see strong me, because a lot of people look up to me. But honey, that could kill ya. Talk to a close friend, a mother, etc. Tell them how you feel about your confidence. Maybe they can help you remember how great you are.
And if your boyfriend loves you, you'll be fine. He will definitely still like you, and even if you weren't great, honestly guys aren't picky in bed. Just relax a little. Guys sense nervousness. He likes that fearless part about you I'm sure. =)
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I enjoy singing in my church choir. I sing first soprano. How can I improve reaching and sustaining the high notes? (link)
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A little advice that's always worked for me?
Squeeze your butt cheeks together on the high notes. I know it sounds stupid, but it works.
Especially since I work for disney as a princess, and we have to hit those notes all the time, it can be straining to the voice.
Try it. And sing everyday, a little bit everyday. Work on your range.
Remember to keep your vowels open and make an "O" with your mouth.
If it's too high and you can't sing the words, just hit the note, don't worry about the word. The rest of the choir will do that.
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my mom doesnt fully trust me. she's always telling things about sex and other stuff i already know, and i dont blame her shes my mother of course shes going to. i never go through her stuff nor go out and do bad things that immature teens do. no sneeking out, or being "naughty" with boys. i hate when she compares me with every other teenager. i love keeping notes from friends from school noothing bad yet my mom is always questioning "oh why cant you show do you have something to hide?" its not that i do its just id at least like to have my own privacy and she has gone through my stuff before throwing a fit, what do i do? or what do i tell her without her being so suspicious about me (link)
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I'm going through the same thing now.
I think you should tell her you want to have an awesome relationship with her, but first she has to trust you, and you have to trust her. Explain to her you have a good head on your shoulders, and that you know she is trying to protect you, but everyone once in a while she should understand you know what you are doing.
Tell her that you would love her guidance, and if anything really big and dangerous came into your life, you would talk to her. But every once in a while you just need a little bit of privacy. Be clear and firm that you don't have to tell her things, but that you would like to share some of it with her.
I think a good way of gaining that trust is telling her stuff. For example, if you have a crush on a boy, tell her about it. Explain how awkward it is between you two and blah blah. And if you are having troubles with friends, try explaining that to her. MAybe she won't understand, but it's worth a shot.
It's not just that she wants to protect you, she honestly wants a good relationship with you, which is why she sneaks around on ya. Give her a shot, and let her in. Maybe she'll start giving you privacy once she sees for HERSELF you are okay.
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I've been dating someone for a couple of years and i know he loves me and i love him and all of that great stuff. We have a happy and mature relationship and i can definitely see a future between us. There is just one thing that i cant fully get out of my mind though... around 2 years before we met, his ex-girlfriend moved away, cheated on him and broke up with him. she basically broke his heart. they had dated in high school for a couple years before this. i know this obviously because we talked about our exes when we started seeing each other, just because i think its good to know someones dating history. he says he was depressed about it for a really long time...ive asked him about her before and he says hes over it, and he really hasnt said anything to make me think otherwise. what bothers me is that if i ever bring her up (which isnt often...i do it very casually...) he just says how much of a bitch she is and he doesnt know or care if shes doing okay or even alive (a bit dramatic?)
so yeah. usually they say that being bitter is a bad sign... if you're truly over someone you should have closure and forgiveness is your mind. but she DID cheat on him. so maybe he has a right to feel that way. i don't know. please help. (link)
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I don't think you should worry about it. If he gets upset about her, then there is a possibility that he isn't over it quite yet. Just a possibility. If he says he's over it, you should believe him. He deserves your trust.
And even if he's not completely over it, he's with you now, and he cares about you very much. Personally, I think it takes years to completely get over someone, so you have nothing to worry about. Bitterness is just part of the healing process. If he were to tell you that he still thinks about her and yadda yadda, then you should worry.
Part of it could be him just getting annoyed that you would think that he could think of anyone else but you.
I don't know him, so I don't know.
He has a right to not care about her. She cheated, and that hurts every guys ego.
I wish you two the best.
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he was my first real love, and broke up with be abruptly when i was 12. now i'm 16, and i thought for sure i was over it, but now i'm not so certain. i started going out with his best friend a while back, and they were both fine with my ex's and my own history together, so there wasn't a problem there. i don't see him very often, but when i know he's coming to my boyfriend's house or i know i'm going to see him, i get anxious. my stomach starts hurting with anxiety and i get really paranoid about the way i look or act. does this mean i still like him, or am i just weird. (link)
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You're not weird. Whenever I see any of my exes, I do that too.
I think you should think about it like this. (My friend gave me this exact advice.)
"He was your first love. Of course you are going to miss him a little and think that the relationship was amazing. But you guys have both changed since age 12. You two might not even have the same things in common. Your first love will always be your first love, but you gotta move on from that."
Think about your boyfriend. Think about how amazing he is and how much you two have both grown up. :)
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Helllo I have a problem when i finger my self i get a really nice feeling and a tingle but am i a bad person for this and am i a slut?x
Please answer this question. (link)
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Personally I don't think you are a bad person. Masturbation is completely common in males AND females. Half of teenage girls masturbate regularly, and 75 percent will do so before their 18th birthdays. And if you are worried that you are doing it too much, some girls masturbate a few times a week, a few do it daily, while most do it once a month. It just depends on who you are.
Masturbation helps you health-wise. You see, masturbation can help relieve stress, help lessen cramps during your period, or to help you sleep easier.
The only warning I will give you is to make sure that your hans are clean, and make sure you keep your vagina in nice shape!
Enjoy!
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I have a problem. The guy who likes me wants to be more than a friend. He has a past history of crime. He assisted a friend with giving her nephew Vicodin for his hurt knee. I dont want to hang aroud him if he has this record because my gut is telling me i may get hurt but i dont know how to tell him this what do i say to him? I am 28 and female. (link)
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Why are you friends with him in the first place if you don't trust him?
I think you need to calmly explain you are not looking for a relationship. Be polite, but firm. I was always taught to follow those gut feelings. They are often right.
If he keeps pressing you on it, explain again and again you are not interested. If you don't feel safe around him, it might not be a good idea to tell him that you don't want to be with him because of his record.
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i'm a girl, 16 years old going on 17, and i have been dateing my boyfriend sense March 27, 2010. The problem with dateing him is there's a age gap... we are 5 years apart, or 4 depends on how you look @ it, which means he's 21.
so in the first month of our dateing everything was cool and all we would do is hang out. in the 2nd month, or the middle of the 2nd month there was a prblem, he wanted to have sex. see i know that if we do have sex it would be counted as rape, and he would go to jail and i would be in trouble, BIG TROUBLE. so i told him we should wait. so during may he tells me he wants to change his life and start going to church with me.
one day after church i went with him to go meet his mom, we met and she is a wonderful lady. Then the week after he jumped back on the subject (which he's been jumping on alot even after i said no the 1st time) and he gives me the same lame excuses, "well, if your mine, why can't i have all of you?" or "baby, i love you, and i just wanna show you how much i do" and ect. And every time he gives me those lame excuses, as if i never heard those lines b4, i tell him the same thing "you can wait, and if you can't leve."
now he's never did anything to make me wanna leve him, except bring up the sex subject like 1,000 times and i'm getting tired of it. i've asked some of my friend and some said they would "have sex with him and leve him." some said "jus stop talking to him, he'll get the clue." and others said "screw him like bunnys do, and make the sex so good he wouldn't dare leve."
but i'm not worried about him leveing. if he does, he does. that's how i feel. i just don't know what to do. i realy do like him and we have fun together but i'm tired of telling him no and always talking about it.
what do i do? should i give IT up, or give HIM up?
please, some one give me some advice. (link)
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I think you know the answer to this.
Tell him what you just told us, and that you don't want him to get in trouble.
Is the only reason you're not having sex with him because of his age? If so, you might want to re-evaluate the situation and do what you both want.
I'm really curious as to whether or not YOU want sex. Because you are just as important as he is. If you're not ready for it, you're not ready for it.
I think you need to tell him that you care about him, but you're not ready. And if he asks you all the time, it's going to ruin the moment when it happens. Explain it's getting annoying.
And like you said, if he leaves, he leaves.
But if he doesn't and he waits for you to be ready, then he's a keeper.
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Hi! I'm 23 and I don't have any friends right now that are close to me. I don't make friends easily anymore and I'm getting lonely. It's so hard to find a good friend these days, people keep stepping all over me. How do I go about making new friends without looking stupid?! (link)
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You are at a great age to make friends, right now you are just starting to find what you are interested in and are much more mature.
It all depends on what you are interested in. Try joining classes, like ballroom or a spanish course, and you could gradually create a bond through that.
If you have a job, check out your new co-workers. Anyone seem interesting? If you're into music, ask someone from your work place if they'd like to join you. Just getting yourself out there is all you have to do.
Or join a website like hotornot.com. It's a great way to make new friends!
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Hello :) I'm sure this question has been asked, but answers towards my question seem a little more specialized to me. So thanks in advance!
Typically my period lasts a good 6-7 days. I do have a boyfriend and we obviously do "stuff", if you will. He nor I have ever had sex, and we are very safe in terms of preventing pregnancy or heaven knows what. I make sure he pleasures himself with one hand, and me, with the other. If there's any need to switch hands, there is no other option than for him to either wash his hands or use hand sanitizer. I don't touch myself, so that's not a problem.
Now, I just got my period a day and a half ago, and it literally just stopped last night/this morning. I'm sure this is probably normal, but I really just wanted to make sure. I'm usually not a paranoid person, but after I typed in "I got my period for a day" on Google and a bunch of pregnancy results popped up, it made me a tad nervous.
I've been using a website to track my period for the past year and a half or so, and usually it's pretty accurate. My period is supposed to come on June 28th and I got it on the 14th. However, I understand that a 17 year old like me can have irregular periods.
Other than my recent salad obsession, my diet hasn't really changed? I haven't been practicing any unusual or different exercizes so I'm a little confused. Help! (link)
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No worries, as you explained, you have not had sex. And as your high school sex ed must have taught you, you cannot get pregnant without having sex. Believe me, honey, it's impossible.
As for the weird period it's completely normal. My period ranges from 1 day to 7 days. It all just depends. It could be because of stress, or from that new salad interest of yours.
And by the way, kudos on being so clean. It seems you two are both incredibly responsible.
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Okay so this is basically goin to be the story of my life, haha.
Jk, the story of my past last four years, i have always been a social butterfly and that's how i met my boyfriend he was not so good looking and i always thought i was pretty good looking i had never gone out with a guy i didnt physically find attractive but my friends begged me they said he was really nice.when we got in the relationship he would always check out other girls n point out how much hotter they were so i became extremely jealous i would not let him talk to girls or have a myspace or facebook or go in out or anything he would always do it behind my back anyway go out and stuff and i would cry everyday because of stuff he would say or do so he stopped checking out girls but he did everything behind my back and then we lived like that for four years i stopped talking to all my friends because i was always with him and i thought he did too and then recently i found a bunch of porn on his computer i broke up with him and was devastated because he always told me he would never look at the other girls cause i was the hottest and prettiest, he was my first and i was his first. then i wanted to change so i started to change when i kinda got over the porn thing because he said it was his first time.then i got on his tmobile account and saw he would talk to alot of numbers so i asked him about it and he admitted some were girls and he would talk to them a lot more than me then shortly after he told me he had a facebook and he met them all on facebook they were his old friends and then i broke up with him a week before my graduation and i have no friends now and i feel so lonely.he was the only person always there for me. idk if i should get back with him after a while but he told me he did flirt with girls and when i call him now that we are not together he yells and gets mad he doesnt want to talk to me but he says he still likes me and i just dont know how to move on i just graduated from high school and the night i broke up with him i fell down some stairs and broke my ankle so i quit my job because all these things were happening so i thought i needed some time but now i feel miserable alone and find myself calling him all the time idk if i should get back with him i doubt he ever cheated but he talked to a couple of girls all day and he works nights and he would stay up when he got home from work talking to them(sometimes not even sleep) and he would tell me he was asleep or while at work he would not call me during his breaks because he lied and said his phone was dying, but in his tmobile i found out he was talking to them a lot. :( WAS IT THE RIGHT THING TO DO? how do i meet new people? i dont have friends what can i do in my spare time to not think about him or call him?!:( (link)
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This seems like a lot happening at once, and I'm sorry you have to go through it.
First of all, it was right for you to break things off with him. He's not a good guy. Any guy that hurts you time after time doesn't love you. And after all, look at everything you just wrote: He has
done very little good for you. You gave him everything, and he gave you little. And besides, you said he wasn't that good looking anyway.
You've graduated from high school, so there is a lot you can do. Get a job that interests you. Check the newspapers, etc. Try joining a class, like dancing and aerobics, so you can work out and maintain that hot bod and make some new friends. Losing your friends must have been hard, but life goes on. They obviously weren't your friends at all. Go to clubs, the park, roller skating rink, classes, work, etc. and look for people that interest you. Join a website like hotornot.com . Regain your confidence because I'm sure you are a gorgeous girl.
Honey, forgetting about him will take time and be hard, especially since you were with him for so long, but it's not impossible.
At one point you'll find your prince and forget about that loser. :)
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