I need help telling this guy with a record that I am not interested?
Question Posted Wednesday June 16 2010, 6:04 am
I have a problem. The guy who likes me wants to be more than a friend. He has a past history of crime. He assisted a friend with giving her nephew Vicodin for his hurt knee. I dont want to hang aroud him if he has this record because my gut is telling me i may get hurt but i dont know how to tell him this what do i say to him? I am 28 and female.
I think you need to calmly explain you are not looking for a relationship. Be polite, but firm. I was always taught to follow those gut feelings. They are often right.
If he keeps pressing you on it, explain again and again you are not interested. If you don't feel safe around him, it might not be a good idea to tell him that you don't want to be with him because of his record. [ LiveLoveLyss's advice column | Ask LiveLoveLyss A Question ]
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