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Q: My name is Phyllis. I dont really know how to work this thing but i have a lot of bold spots in my hair and i am also embarassed. I dyed my hair way too much & now my hair is falling out so bad. I want to know will this really work and how much will it cost me. Please send me an email asap. i also want to know how long the procedure will take. Thanks!

Q: well i have had this problem with falling asleep lately. i try really hard to relax and clear my mind, but it takes forever until i finally get to sleep. i have a set time when i get to bed and when i wake up. i even do this on weekends. i even try to set the time a little earlier since it does take longer.

lately when i've been waking up, i've been really tired and i don't feel rested. does anyone have any ways of getting to sleep?

Q: I'm only 14 and I have this burning desire to have sex with my bf. We almost did have sex once, but then we heard my bf's mom walking up the stairs so we flipped on the TV as soon as she walked in. Now that's all my bf and I are talking about-sex! Will I get pregnant if I do one over-nighter?

Q: My dog recently found a leather bracelet somewhere in the house that has been missing for months. It was really moldy and very stiff. I washed it and let it soak in water with scented baby oil. It dried stiff again. I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make it soft again so i can wear it, thanks

Q: there is this guy who is a bit older than i am (we're both in college) and he works at the library ... in order to borrow anything from them i have to go through the reserve desk and that's where he works.... so anyhow... i've been doing everything: eye contact smiles everything... i've only gotten to the point where he realizes that i am interested and he acknowledges. he flirted a couple of times the day before but the next day there was less eye contact (though he would acknowledge my presence by smiling or looking or smiling to himself when i look over) i don't want to seem desperate or basically young and clingy but thats the way i feel when i see him... my stomach goes in knots and i can't help but look to see if he is there (he is a master's candidate and i am a senior- he pointed that out casually to "us" and my research group when we wanted to borrow projector equipment and so on).....

what should i do? i mean how do i get him to do something? and what should i say to him while returning stuff... what kind of small talk should i initiate?? AND HOW DO I KNW HE LIKES ME! i am Hispanic so i have a very small waistline and small bust and hugeeee thighs and knees (pear shaped) compared to the proportions of Caucasians which makes me feel very very conscious ... i am really confused i mean how do i tell if he finds me unattractive?!?!?!

Q: I am a 25 year old woman who for the past year has been involved with a married man. He is 20 years older then me and has 2 kids...both of them in their teenage years. He has been married to his wife for 20 years. Our affair started off drunken sex and now its I love you, I wish I could be with you. I do have very strong feelings for him and I believe he has the same for me. He says his wife is pulling away from him and he feels like she wants someone different, as does he. He says that once his youngest kid goes off to collage he really thinks things between him and his wife will end and that the only reason he believes they are still together is the kids. I don't know what to think.. Can there ever be a future between us? Is he using me for my body? Is he seeing other girls too? Also, I'm still very young, I want children and marriage. He has already done all that, will he be willing to do it again? I'm just very confused..And I know I brought this on myself but please any advise would be great!!


Q: what's the easiest way to get over your first love? we were together almost a year. we were each others first 'real' relationship and took each other's virginity. we recently broke up and i dont know what to do now. we havent talked since, (not that i really want to now) and he's trying to make me jealous. i've tried hanging out with someone else but idk. and i can't find anything really to keep me busy so i don't think about it. please help.

Q: 15/F
I've already spent all of my fall and winter school clothes money, but my mom has an account at Kohl's so we're going to go there.
But I'm tired of wearing the same basic colored t-shirt, hoodie, jeans, and flats or sneakers or whatever.
Thats basically all I bought so far-- BASICS!

Can you guys give me some insight? No store names, please. I'm perrty restricted.
But how do you mix and match different colors and patterns without looking like you..DON'T MATCH?
What do you wear? Please, I feel totally BLAH!

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