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i'm tiffanie/♥ i'm 15, sophomore in the fall, and i'm short, loud, and sometimes obnoxious.. but you'll love me.

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Is it normal for girls to mastebate because i heard of somebody doing it, and i didn't know if it was normal or not.

it's completely normal for everyone to do it.. i don't, but it's very normal, yeah

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I went out with my boyfriend for three months. Then he broke up with me because he had a lot going on in his life. He called me the night he broke up w/ me & then messaged me & IMed me saying he missed me & stuff & that we would get back together. A week later, he denied it all. Tonight, not even two weeks after we break up, I find out he might have kissed this girl. It bothers me so much. I don't know if I talk to him about it or just let it go & screw him-be done. Either way, it's hard as hell.. soo.. what do you think I should do? :| (We don't talk much anymore. Jackass.)

wasn't that your problem? ha

no that wasn't.. you obviously don't know what you're talking about

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Im 15 and my penis is 5.5 inches long is that about average?

i don't know

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so this is pretty gross, but i just need to know - so before i started my period, i had this white, gross stuff everyday, so i always had to use a liner, then, my period started and i was hoping the white stuff would stop. well, it didn't, so i now have a heavy period every month, PLUS this stupid white stuff EVERYDAY. is this normal? will this ever stop???? i'm so fusterated because i really thought the white gook would stop but it hasn't, in fact it's even got heavier and grosser. UGH

yeah it's normal, it's called discharge, everyone has it.. and nothing is worong with you, and usually it doesn't stop, so you'll just have to deal with it, after awhile you'll be used to it.

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I went out with my boyfriend for three months. Then he broke up with me because he had a lot going on in his life. He called me the night he broke up w/ me & then messaged me & IMed me saying he missed me & stuff & that we would get back together. A week later, he denied it all. Tonight, not even two weeks after we break up, I find out he might have kissed this girl. It bothers me so much. I don't know if I talk to him about it or just let it go & screw him-be done. Either way, it's hard as hell.. soo.. what do you think I should do? :| (We don't talk much anymore. Jackass.)

just say screw it and be done. boys are seriously useless. i've learned that the hard way, so take it from me.

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what does all of this mean: (love life)
1 on a break
2 open relationship
3 cool-off



did i miss anything? if so, what else are there?

on a break, means you're not together, but you're not broken up.. it's kind of in the middle.
and an open relationship is when you have sex with other people.
i don't know what cool off is though, sorry.

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i just bought a new hair straightener today because my old one started to build with "grime" if you want to call it, and its happened before.
is there a way i can clean it after everytime i use it to prevent the build up? and what can i use, i heard rubbing alcohol but i dont know if that will ruin it.

i really am not sure what you're talking about.. i've had my hair straightener for 2 years and it's never gotten grime? i use the conair wet to dry straightener..
maybe you shouldn't use anything on your hair before you straighten, like hair spray or anything.
you might want to ask a public question, i'm sorry.

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Whats the best way to get rid of static electricity in your hair? Or to stop it happening in the first place?

i use a little bit of baby oil, it makes my hair not frizzy and shiny :)

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my period had these kind of mucus-y chunks in it, kind of like really dark red snot. there wasn't a lot of it though, just a little. why did that happen? is this something i should be concerned about?

it's completely normal. they're blood clots.

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what are some other things that i can, i guess, do with my hands while i'm making out with my boyfriend? like i know the whole typical thing of like running them through his hair, and down his back and stuff, but what else can i do that he'll really like? or if not even with my hands, what are some other things that i can do that will totally turn him on?

i always have my hands around his neck, or i put them on both sides of his face.
the one thing i do, is gently suck and kind of pull on his bottom lip. i remember, the first time i did that to my boyfriend, he just stopped and looked at me, and smiled. he loved it, and then he picked up on it, and now does it to me. :)

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i have been talking to this boy this whole summer and now im hearing from some girl that he said i was just a summer fling. i dont know what to think because through the school year we never talked but he had a girlfriend that whole year anyways. now he keeps asking me to be his girlfriend and i just say im not sure yet. im not sure if i should still talk to him or let him go?

girls are catty, and liars.. so next time you're in person, ask him if he said that you her, usually you can tell if they lie, then you make your decision on if you want to be in a relationship with him or not

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in your opinion, which is better: an ipod or a zune? also, which lasts longer? i need a new one and i want something that will last me years.

I personally like ipods better, but that't just me, you can play games on them.. and itunes is so easy to use!

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when you have mono, how long does it last? how long do you have to wait until you can go to school? can you go out to places when you have it?

I had mono at the start of last school year, and that girl who missed 2 days, doesn't know what she's talking about. I was so tired, I would sleep for like 20 hours a day, and if I got up to pee, i'd be exhuasted, just from that and i'd go back to sleep. I missed the first 3 weeks of my freshman school year because of it.
and you can go places, but you're really tired and probably won't want to go anywhere, I didn't leave the house the whole time I was sick.

they're a bunch of different kinds of mono though, my boyfriend just got it like a month ago, and he wasn't tired or anything, just his throat was swollen bad and he had to be put on steriods and such so his tonsils would go back to normal size, and he just felt sick for like 3 days, and he wasn't tired at all.
so it's just different cases of mono really.

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i'm making a miniscrapbook for each of my friends because we're going to college this year..does anyone have a favorite friendship quote? please don't give me links to websites because they rarely work on my computer..thanks a lot!

'we're friends, real friends, that means- no matter how long it takes, when you decide to look back. i'll be here.' -Greys Anatomy.

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when ever i try to curl it with a curling iron it just falls out. my hair is alittle thick but im sure there is hair product that can help. im just wondering what? im just so sick of straight hair everyday.

try to curl your hair when it's dirty.. not like gross dirty, but you haven't washed it that day. because whenever i go to get my hair done, if it's being cut, dyed, styled or whatever, my hairstylist tells me not to wash it because hair takes things better when it's dirty.

and, when you have a piece of hair in a curl, try to hair spray it a little to hold it until your done w/ the rest of your hair.
it might also be your curling iron, because some of the curling irons i've had, don't curl my hair, and my hair is naturally curly, so maybe you should get a new curling iron. i use a conair spiril curler and it works great!

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how do you know when you love someone?

when you're inlove, you'll definitaly know. it's 1 of those experiences you just can't forget. it'll feel completely different then anything you've ever felt before.

when you're willing to make yourself miserable, to make the other person happy, that's love right there.

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16/f
Would tanning help hide my horrible stretchmarks? I have stretch marks on my arms and its really embarrasing =( I use to be really big and I've lost a lot of weight but the stretch marks kicked in ...is there any treatment ? Has anyone ever tried anything and sucessfully removed there stretch marks?

tanning does help hide them, not alot, but some, and you can also put coco butter on them, and it helps them go away too. :)

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I was just wondering how do you get rid of stretch marks I've had them since I was 10 and i really want to get rid of them.....if you know of some ways please tell me.

-Hopeful Gurl

i'm not real sure if this is true, but i've heard of people using coco butter and that faintens them atleast.

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im not really sure what promise rings are..can anyone tell me?

it really just depends on who gave it to them.. a parent can give their children a promise ring, which means they promise to stay a virgin until marriage. and then a boyfriend/girlfriend can give their significant other a promise ring that can either mean to stay true to them, or save their virginity for them. it just depends really.

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Okay, dont ask why but I need the dirtiest song you have ever heard of.
Name and Singer both would be helpfull


Thanks

the only one I can really think of, is 'colt 45' by afroman.

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