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Hey dudez! Im 17 and my name is ally. I have a phsyco friend named Vicky and I LOVE HER!!! ROCK ON DUDEZ!!!
Gender: Female
Location: cali
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Age: 17
Member Since: January 22, 2005
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dont get your panties in a bunch...ally lol (link)
lol...haha..wat...ur funny dude...


okay.. i have gone to everyone i could.. and nobody helped me.. so im coming here...

okay... well.. i met this guy.. and hes really nice.. and hes 17 and im 16.. okay.. well.. me and hm started hanging out... and the other nite.. we were gunna go to a party together.. and.. well.. lets just sae.. we didnt make it to the party.. we hung out in his car for about 4 hours.. well.. im so confused... i dont know what to do at all... like.. i know i care for him but i dont want to go any farther with him because he probably doesnt care about me like i do about him.. and im so confused!! please help! (link)
i think u should talk to him n ask him wats going on...ask if it can be somthing more or it was just a one night stand...maybe he cares about u...u never know untill u ask...hope i helped!

ally


i used to live in florida but then my dad got transfered to pennsylvania.i had tons of friends at my old school but i dont fit in at my new school.i sit with the popular people and i thought they were my friends but then i found out they have been going to the movies and stuff.they just dont call me to hang out they call everyone but me!what the hell?they treat me like a friend at school so why not include me?for valentines day they all wore these really cute pink shirts that are matching. and im the only one at their table who didnt hav the matching shirt.then they were talking about stuff that happened at the mall. i just sat there like how can you be so mean when im sitting right here.
what should i do?????????
should i talk to them about?
should i sit with a different group at lunch??
please help i rate high just for answering! (link)
hey well i think you should talk to them about it...tell them how ya feel...hope i helped ya! good luck!

ally


latley ive been feeling like i cant seem to please ne one. Which shouldnt be a problem, but thats in my personality,to please people. I try todo the right things, and make everyone happy, but then im not happy, so i do wat i want every once n a while, and then everyone gets mad.N ive never had to try to get people to care about me, or get guys, people were always just there for me, and i awlays seemed to have a guy, until about a month ago..erg...wat am i doing wrong?? (link)
ya i do that too...but i think u should follow your heart...u should like your self and be there for your self too...people should like you for who you are and not get mad at you for just doing something for yourself...

ally


lol hey ally...so do u think someone can just be straight and then turn bi and then go back to straight?...cause i dont think u can do that lol (link)
well umm i think they can...i mean i knew a person that liked someone on the internet that was a girl too an dthen she thought she was bi bcuz of that...but then she relized that she wasnt atracted to a girl or anything and that she just liked the person...and that she cant tell if the person is a girl or a guy through the internet...so ya i think u can...hope i helped ya!

ally


***ally! (link)
lol...ashley!!!


***ally! (link)
yes?


yoo hoo ally do u have a valentine?lol (link)
no mon


alls like a total whore (link)
who is alls?

ally


ally ur a freak...lol (link)
lol...thx...i think lol

ally


ok so someone sent me a aim greeting or watever and weve been goin out on and off (rite now were off) and todays valentines day and the greeting sed will u be mine i love you and stuff...so i was like awww...and then my other ex asked me to be there valentine and i like them as a friend but not like like...so i sed sure to be nice...and now the person who sent me the greeting...the one that i really like is pissed...wat do i do? (link)
well tell the person that you really like that you were just trying to be nice to the other person...tell the person that you really like her or him and not the other person...her or him will understand...o ya and tell the person that the only valintine you really wanted was her or him...tell the person that you dont like the other person...

ally


13/m

hi,


i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.

yours,

the thin one (link)
well thin one you said not to say to eat more but you should exept work out so that when you gain weight it wont be like a fat belly but you will be stronger and not fat but you will weigh more...or you can just eat fatning food but still workout too to get stronger and again not get a belly but be strong ...

ally


Hey there...
I need a lottle help as to what to do in this kind of situation... I just found out not too long ago that a secret was being kept from me about one of my friends tryin to kill herself and how she ended up in the hospital and everything... and all of that jazz... and how 2 of my other friends "saved her" by calling the ambulance and stuff... Once i got to think about it.. I wondered what the hell her problem was and how she got all of the attention and stuff(and she did this by overdosing on IBprofun by the way) And i was sitting there getting mad b.c. i didnt think that she should have done anything like that. And i was mad b.c. I've been feeling really depressed lately and nobody understands me.. so i was thinking about doing the same thing... only with soma's (since my moms a drug addict and i can get that stuff) and i cry at night thinking about this and how i wish that ppl would see and it didnt have to go to an extreme like this.. what should i do?
p.s. my friends mom just died yesterday and so now im really worried about her

Thanks
**Help Needed** (link)
o no girl dont do that to your self please...your friend oviesly is going through a really togh time...she might be depressed like you...the last thing she needs is her friend dieing too...talk to her...be there for her so she doesn't try to do that again...believe me if she tried it onece then her mom died she might try it again...she probebly will...so be there for her...be a true friend

ally


I can't wake up in the morning. My bus comes at 6:45, and I've been waking up at 630. is there anything i can do to get more sleep? i usually cant fall asleep until 12 (link)
ya that totally sucks...i can't fall asleep untill late too...well i think you should try to fall asleep earlyer and keep trying and wake up earlyer like atleast at 6 or something...if you wake up at 6 or 6:15 then you will have more time and you will be tierd at night and you will fall asleep faster...

ally


Well i'm a 16 year old girl, whose pretty,fun,and popular and I have alot of friends.But there is a problem that most people don't really see as a problem;i'm italian.Not everyone at my school, but a group of people constantly make jokes to me about my heritage.It all started on the first week on school when we had to write a paper about ourselfs (favorites,ethnic background,religion,ect.) so people could get to know us.well i put in there I was italian,and right after the class these girls came up to me and asked if my dad was in the mafia!what the hell is that about?no body has any respect now adays,and i guess it has to do with shows like the gottis and the sopranos(even tho i love them!) who give people the impression ALL italian-americans are like that,and that all italian-americans have dads like tony soprano.what should I do to get rid of this stigma and situation?thanks alot and I'll rate u a 5 if u don't act all bitchy about it!=)

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well i think those girls are just jeliouse of you...your italian and you should be proud that you are...when girls are jeliouse that act stupid...dont care what they say...they are loosers if they think that...i personly think italian are awesome!

ally


this probably happens alot.. me and my best friend came to a public school for the first time.. and she met a guy who shes supposedly in love with.. it bothers me alot because they are constantly together and she totally ignores me.. but when hes not there she acts normal around me. i told her about it before and she apologizes.. but she does it over and over again. they are always showing pda and they always have to be alone. im not jealous.. i just want my friend back (link)
well shes in love with him...she should hang with you too no t always be with her boyfriend...just ask her to hang with you with out her boyfriend

ally


Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).
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well i think it wouldn't be fair for Justin if you kept going out with him and you didn't like him...he will just fall for you more...you should brake up with him

ally


So on AIM you can send IM crushes through this IM robot named Cupid. And I did that, and I sent it to this guy I like and well...now hes going to know! So when he asks me about it..what do I say? I kinda regret it...and I'm scared hes just going to laugh and totally be like "ew". He said I was pretty but hes so hott and theres too many girls that like him. So, is my friendship ruined with him or what...ahh im scared! I wish we could un-do the IM crushes (link)
lol...don't worry...it's just a crush..you never know he might like you too...when he asks you about it just say that u did send it to him...dont say that you didn't because its totally oviouse that you did...just stick with it...something possitive might come out...tell me wat happens!

ally


My friend is jealous of me and i didn't think it would be a problem like wahooo she's jealous of me doesn't make a difference. But then i told another one of my friend's that she was jealous of me and like would be at different moods like one day she be sooo nice and caring and loving adn the next day she would be like ignoring me hangiung around other people and like telling me stuff that really hurt me. My other friend said that it is jealously and that she is trying to get me mad at her and then she'll use that against me. I don't believe she'll do that but i jut don't understand her anymore. I feel she might be trying to replace me. I sometimes don't sleep or eat becuse i thinking about what lifew would be with out her and i miss her so much when i try and hang around different people or if i don't talk to her... i don't want to lose her but maybe it might be for the best if she is gonna be really mean and hurt me alot i really reeally don't want to do that. Help me what should i do...?? (link)
i think you should talk to her...tell her how you feel and that you don't want to loose her...i bet she doesn't want to loose you either...so talk to her...

ally


Well, i have this friend and i think she likes someone i am going out with i am starting to like this guy (before i didn't) but i don't know if she lieks him or not. She says she doesn't but i think she does. I want to tell her that i am starting to like this guy and i really wan to tell her cuz she is my bestest friend in the whole wide world but i don't know if that'd be okay to tell her and then ask her if she does like this guy.. What should i do??

Tell her that i am starting to lie this guy and then next minute ask her if she still; lieks this guy...
or
Ask her if she likes the guy and then tell her ??? or if there are anymore suggestions please tell me.... (link)
well if its your boyfriend then i dont think she would tell you if she likes him...but again if she is your best friend then maybe she will tell you the truth...tell her your starting to like him then ask her...tell her to be truthful with you though...

ally




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