Hey There, im Deliliah. I am fourteen years old and i live in Delaware.
im a really nice, and understanding person so please, feel free to ask my any questions.
This isn't my first Advicenators account, ive had about three and i wasnt getting good feedback sooo,, after a while i made a new one =]
my friends are a big deal, i love them and i wouldnt be the person i am today with out them.
Im a one of a kind person, i dont try and copy any one else, and i do what i think is right, and belive in whatever i think is true.
thanks, and feel free to message me =]
Website: Deliliah's Advice Collum
Gender: Female
Location: Delaware
Occupation: High School =]
Age: 14
Member Since: July 29, 2007
Answers: 15
Last Update: August 9, 2007
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This is a bit embarrassing im recently turned 14
and well my penis is really small its about 4 inches long and im really worried will it keep growing? (link)
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haha i dunno im a girl
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ok, so i think my neighbor is really hot. and when i see him i get these urges where i'm like i want to have sex with him really bad. thing is we've never talked and he is like maybe 5 years older than me..but im not a minor so it wouldnt be illegal if things were to happen. but its drives me insane that i keep getting these sexual thoughts about my neighbor and i dont know what to do...can anyone help?? (link)
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start to talk with him again.. and step by step build a relationship, maybe later on, you can tell him how you feel..
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I have pubes all around my vaginia but is it norml that they ryb all the way till a little in my but crack? (link)
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yes it is normal..
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I am about ready to have a daughter anytime. But I am dreading it. Not because of labor, but because of the question "Whats the babies name?" I have her first and middle name picked. However her father and I arent married (yet). I want her to have his last name. So does he. But my parents are threatening to disown me if I dont give her my last name. They said not giving her mine will make things complicated for me (Like doctors, and legal things.) if he and I split up.I dont know if I should believe them or not. But they will scream at me if I dont give her my name. I wont give her 2 last names even though I could. I just want her to have his last name. He is her father and thats how it should be. Im so frustrated and stressed over it. Its stupid that they would make me feel like this about it. I try to talk to him and my parents, they both get defensive and mad at me just for bringing it up. I cant have them talk to eachother about it, because it will just be bad. He feels like they are trying to take his little girl away , and take him out of the picture. And I can understand why. I can't just tell them no. They do a lot for me and to lose them would break my heart. I dont know what to do about it. (link)
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my friend has two last names soo you could just use both, or just use your name, and maybe change it later
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14/f
well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost about a week. But the problem is, we could never have a decent convo on the phone. so my question is, i want some good topics to talk about on the phone. i already know all the basics about him...so please don't write that..
THNX IN ADVANCE (link)
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ask him questions about his day, who he was with, what he was doingg, and suchh;; it lets him know that you care..ouh yes and when school starts ask about homework and school and stuff.
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ok. well my moms side of the family (which is HUGE!) is very religious (catholic/christian) so i go to a Catholic church, and i am in the sunday school and youth choir and groups there. It's fun but i dont always beleive what they do.
My dads side of the family (only 4 people living by us) are well my aunts (well ones my aunt and the other ones her partner if you get what i mean) are jewish and my grandma is idk what. and my dad became catholic when he married my mom.
well after talking to my mom and aunts about what they believe i kinda made a bit of a different religion... I believe in God and Jesus. I believe in heaven. not in hell. I believe that when we die we can be reincarnated into ANY LIVING being (animals, humans, plants). eventually there will be a judgement day and we will all go to heaven. I also believe that with the power of god and because we only used 10% of our brains, some people can tap into some more of their brains, and do (magical type things.) like kinesis, and other stuff like that.
i'm a bit confused of what i should do. i mean if i say anything like that (that is againts catholic belief) my mom and grandma gang up on me and start arguing with me. I know that people that believe different things can get along, but idk what i should do.
Should i tell my parents what i believe, or should i keep hiding it and only say anything about it around my aunt (who lets me say w/e and helps me continue my beliefs)
please help me and tell me what you think i should do! thank you! (link)
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Dont let your family stop you from beliving in what you think is true... explain to them that this is what you belive, and you are going to continue to belive it.
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We'll, let's see I'll start off with my age and gender. I'm a seventeen year old female. I've had a rough time with this thing called "love". I thought I had loved two people within the past four years. The first was too controlling so I forced myself out of that relationship, got over her meaning I never really did "love" her. The second was abusive and controlling, this time I wasn't the one to end the relationship. I stuck around getting hurt for six months with this girl, I fell for her within the first week or so, and she broke up with me. I know that wasn't love because as much as she may ahve hurt me she taught me that love is a two way street. Each person has to return the favour. In my case she lost interests in me. Now I also believe that anyone can "fall in love" but it takes two to "be in love." Now I've got a new girlfriend. I've been with her for a month in a week from now. She's not abusive, she's sweet, adorable and actually treats me equally. My only problem here is, she has an ex girlfriend. Whom was the only girl she ever told she "loved" and meant it with all her being. They dated for about four months and the girl dumped her without any hints I'd suppose. Then was majorly harsh to her. Sadly, the girl isn't a threat, she passed away about two year's ago from an OD. But my current girlfriend still loves her. After just leaving my last relationship, and thinking I was in love has me confused about what love really is. With this newer girl I feel so comfortable around her, and sometimes just feel that I love her, and the feeling comes to just say it naturally. But of course, I don't, knowing for sure she doesn't share those feelings back. I'm worried I'll "fall in love" with this girl, and if I tell her she might leave me or something because of her past. I'm also afraid to get hurt again so close to just getting hurt. I'm not sure whether or not to tell the girl I'm with all of this, and wing it, at least then she'd know. Or sit around not telling her, and see if her feelings for me grow any stronger. (link)
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you should stay with her;; it seems like she is really into you and you feel the same.. even though she has had a tough time, you should help her through it, and tell her that your there to talk if she needs anyone to talk to. maybe, you should talk to her about how you feel, and your concerns, if it will make you feel better
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i know i'm PMSing since i'm going to get my period in a couple days, so i'm starting to PMS. i'm REALLY irritable and i am mad right now for no reason. i could scream and cry i'm so pissed, even though it's for no reason! i'm in such a bad mood and no one wants to be around me because i can be such a bi*** when i'm PMSing. what can i do to not be so aggrivated? (link)
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hmm... you should prob. just seperate your self from family members and friends for about an hour, and do something soothing, and calming, like watching tv or your favorite movie, listening to music, reading a book, sleepingg....etc.
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17/f
Alright so when I was thirteen years old I had braces for about a year and a half and got them taken off. It is now bugging me that my teeth aren't straight straight, they're straight, but it doesn't even look like I had braces, because when people have braces they're teeth are uber straight. Is there anyway where my teeth can be a bit straighter then they are right now without having braces? PS I put in my retainer everynight, but it's not helping. I also remembered seeing an ad for invisible retainers to make your teeth straighter. How is that? I'm looking for something that isn't very expensive because my family is on a budget right now.
Thank You! (link)
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you cant really get your teeth straighter with out braces. Just continue to wear your retainer..
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what is a water proof mascara
that lasts a long time?
thank you very muchhhh. (: (link)
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its pretty much mascara that is water proof ( dosnt smudge when you get your eyes wet) from my experence it lasts as long as normal mascera does
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my hair is so dried out and gross how do i get it shinny and not dried out. like what products could i use?
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use lots and lots of shampoo and wen you use your conditionor just leave like a very small amount in and dont wash it out, also make sure you brush your hair right when you get out of the shower, if you straighten your hair then dont straighten it for about a week and when you do straighten your hair straghten it when its slighty damp
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for a talent show at my camp, me and my friends wanna do something together but we dont know a song to sing, thers 4 of us girls and 1 boy, any suggestions? (link)
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hmm a skit, you could do a dance, singingg??
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okay so i'm a responsible 14 year old girl and i want a tattoo so badly. i know i'm young and i know you think i might regret it when i'm older. all i want is a small, very small tattoo on my foot like an inch, inch an 1/2 below my pinky toe.
is it really all that bad?
the design i'm thinking about is either a peace sign or a bow. again verrrry small.
my mom said once i could get a tattoo, and i even asked her are you serious? dead serious? and she said yeah everytime. then one day i asked her if she would really take me again and she said no! i was like what the heck. i know life isn't fair,,but really i thought it was mean.
i love tattoos and really really want one.
oh and please don't say no tattoo shop would tattoo you. my stepdad is best friends with a guy who does tattoos and he's going to tattoo my other 14 year old friend pretty soon.
just tell me your thoughts on the situation.
if you think it'd be okay, or if it's stupid, etc.
thanks so much =] (link)
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ok first of all you are wayy wayy too youngg, and i think your mom was kidding.. maybe you should ask her when your 15 or 16. If you still want to ask her, then show her how eager you are to get one and reasons why she should let you get one
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I want to get my cartilage done but my mom is extremly against it since there is a high risk of infection. I'm willing to pay for the piering, take the time to clean it and get a small silver ball so it's not highly visable. I would get it done at a doctors office so theres a less chance of infection but I'm not sure if they do cartilage piercings. I don't know if its that she thinks this piercing will lead to other ones, it looks trashy or she thinks it will get infected. I want to convince her its not for any of those reasons and that there are ways to have your cartilage done and have it not look trashy. (Like by wearing small studs) I have two piercings on each side and don't intend on having anything more done than my cartilage. I just need help convincing her about this. I'm 15/f btw. (link)
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honestly, there isnt that big of a chance youll get an infection, tell her that you think it would look good, and be very kind and understanding about it, be poliet, and if she says no say you understand.
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ok ok 13/f
so im going with some guys to the skatepark today (link)
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use rubbing alchohol, it will help it shrink, then use a mosturizer, then but concealer and powder on it =]
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