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phone topics.
14/f
well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost about a week. But the problem is, we could never have a decent convo on the phone. so my question is, i want some good topics to talk about on the phone. i already know all the basics about him...so please don't write that..
THNX IN ADVANCE
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ask him questions about his day, who he was with, what he was doingg, and suchh;; it lets him know that you care..ouh yes and when school starts ask about homework and school and stuff.
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well just have a conversation like someone else said, just ask some questions or tell him what your day consisted of and what has happened to you in life, well hope i helped=]
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me and my boyfriend got so close by playing the game truth! you ask him a question and he answers it truthfully. he asks you a question and you answer it truthfully. it's fun. when that gets old start playing like you just tell him something that he doesnt know about you and then it'll be his turn. it's reeeeally fun.
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Heres just a few::
Ask how his day went.
What all he did.
Any interesting happen?
If he says something that reminds you about something funny or cute that has happened to you- tell him.
Tell a joke- it may spark something interesting.
Play 20 questions.
Ask him what he's thinking.
Random topics can be fun.
Good luck.
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Tell him that it has nothing at all to do with him but you have never been comfortable talking to anyone on the phone. Even if that's a bit of a white lie do it.
Let him know you prefer face to face or IM over the phone as you always have a hard time thinking of good things to say or that are intelligent. Tell him you can't stand awkward silences.
Guys like to talk about sports, music, cars etc. Figure out his interests and focus on them as well as your common interests and see if you can stretch a conversation out.
Another thing that would work is to go home and jot down things you want to ask him so when he calls you'll have a lot of material you can cover together on the phone. So what if you have to write out questions and read them? He won't know.
If you let him know and joke about it that you feel awkward and not at all good on the phone it will be okay. Maybe he'll help work you through this until you become confident.
Remember to think of him like anyone else you talk to and treat it like that as that may help you loosen up. Just remember no matter what he's not going to dump you or ridicule you over this. A lot of people hate phone conversations. You aren't alone.
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