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Babies last name. HELP!
I am about ready to have a daughter anytime. But I am dreading it. Not because of labor, but because of the question "Whats the babies name?" I have her first and middle name picked. However her father and I arent married (yet). I want her to have his last name. So does he. But my parents are threatening to disown me if I dont give her my last name. They said not giving her mine will make things complicated for me (Like doctors, and legal things.) if he and I split up.I dont know if I should believe them or not. But they will scream at me if I dont give her my name. I wont give her 2 last names even though I could. I just want her to have his last name. He is her father and thats how it should be. Im so frustrated and stressed over it. Its stupid that they would make me feel like this about it. I try to talk to him and my parents, they both get defensive and mad at me just for bringing it up. I cant have them talk to eachother about it, because it will just be bad. He feels like they are trying to take his little girl away , and take him out of the picture. And I can understand why. I can't just tell them no. They do a lot for me and to lose them would break my heart. I dont know what to do about it.
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I say give her the father's last name. I think it's how it should be too. Two last names seems kind of dumb :]. I'm sure it will take time, but your parents will get over it. It's not like it's their kid, they cannot tell you what to do.
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my friend has two last names soo you could just use both, or just use your name, and maybe change it later
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My suggestion would be (even though you dont want to) use both last names. His then yours. That way his is the main one. And you can ignore yours unless it is needed. Good luck.
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