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ASHLLYN
Spell my name wrong and I might slap you, probably not though because I'm not a mean person by any means. I love music, Christian preferably. I live for the Lord because he died for me. I try to be like Him with everything I do and everything I say. There are only a couple people that know me inside and out and I can be myself around. I'll love you if you can put up with me. Little things bug me. I'm a very honest person. God only knows what I would do without my computer, sweatshirt, and cell phone. Forest Gump is my favorite movie ever. I don't have enemies. I am my own worst critic. I hate having attention. Mountain Dew♥ makes me crazy. And I'm probably one of the weirdest people you'll ever meet.
I love giving advice on anything, so leave me something in my inbox :D.
H0LLY_W00D_FAME is my bestfriendd.
Add her!

-ASHllYN♥

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Heyyyy! I see you have answered some questions :D. Well don't type your answers in all caps or you will get banned.
Good luck!
//X0 H0LLY

haha ok i love you peyton!

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Okay so I have a boyfriend of almost 11 monthes now. Problem is his mom and I do not get along exspecially after last night!

So I seen she IMed me while I was with my boyfriend ((her son)). She said hey or w/e so I IMed her back sayin hey an I had a question so I asked her why did she let his ex gf stay the night knowing I don't like her. She told me that since chad was at work she thought it was fine plus her house is open to any one she care's about or w/e. So I got all upset you know cause' that make's me mad an basically told her you know that it's not right an supposively his mom already told him that one of his ex's misses him right? SO why would his mom tell him this if she knew he has a gf, an like that make's me wonder what the hell did she tell the girl after she said that, an it's seems kinda obvious she doesn't like me an she is tryin to get chad to go mess with other girl's or somethin ya know.

Okay now after all this me askin her about the girl stayin the night I told her how I felt an shit an then she tells me like I supposively hungout with my ex bf? Im like wtf I didn't hangout with my ex bf. And then she like went an looked at my ex bf's myspace an seen shit I posted to him in the past like cause we were tryin to make this girl jealous an his mom went on a rampage about it all telling me she would tell my bf an shit so I was like w/e go ahead do what you do.

Now like really, I honestly don't know what to do about her like he can't move out because like his mom will make him pay insurance an since he is gonna start going back to school he wouldn't be able to afford it.

So what should I do in my situation if he asks me to come hangout with his family, do I talk to everyone in cept her.

And am I in the wrong for being upset of his EX gf being there ya know. And like I know I could of handled stuff little better but I asked her a question an she was all a bitch about it an then brought up somethin that I told my ex in the PAST an shit.

Like Honestly she isnt my mother so she has no right snoopin in my buisness. PLUS if chad thought anything dont you think he would of went online an snooped himself, plus it was something said in the fucking past.

I thinks he has no life but w/e am I in the wrong, what should I do like no idea im goin crazay. Thankx you whoever takes the time out to read this!!

WOW..PHSYCO! SHE SOUNDS WONDERFUll, i'M REllE SORRYY BUT i HOPE EVERYTHiNG WORKS OUT AND OH YEAHH i THiNKK YOU SHOUlD TEll YOUR BOYFRiEND SO HE CAN TAlK TO HiS MOM.

:D
-ASHllYN♥

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okay well i went on an italy trip and when we were in the vatican we were in some church and i said god dammit...is that like a one way ticket to hell? i usually dont beleive some sins wouldnt get me into heaven or if theres even a heaven at all but cursing in the vatican? im also afraid if i tell a preist theyll like ounch me in the face
please tell me if im deff. going to hell or how bad that really is or anythiung

GOD Will AlWAYS FORGiVE YOU!

:D
-ASHllYN♥

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If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong?

Because God loves us so much that he wants to give us a choice and somtimes he is telling you no in your head we just can't hear him because the urge is so strong! Ask for strength in Christ to say no to the temptation...

:D
-ASHllYN♥

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I have two former friends who (in my opinion) seriously abuse their cat. "Tammy" will grab the cat by the back legs and spin it around, set it on the floor and flip it in circles, chase it around the house, pull it by its tail when it tries to get away, etc. She's 21, so she's not a kid at all. With her boyfriend, they will put the cat in a pillowcase a breathe lungfulls of marijuana smoke in on it. When they have parties, they will "pass the cat." Everyone in at the party will take the joint and the bagged cat, and on every exhale breathe their smoke into the cat's bag. This will go on for an hour or two before they free the cat. This is just what they do in front of other people.

I can only see where I have there options here, each with problems.
1) Call the police.
2) Break into their house and steal the cat.
3) Do nothing.

I don't want to call the police, because I smoke weed and so do a lot of my friends. Used to, if you got caught in my town you just went to jail. Now you reduce your sentence with every fellow pot head you turn in, all the way up to having no arrest record if you turn in enough people.

I don't want to break in just because...well...it's wrong, I guess. And I really want to do something to help the cat. I've already tried talking to them about it, and it doesn't help.

I would really appreciate any other suggestions, or help picking which option is right. Thanks!

I think you should call the police... i highly doubt they will ask you any suspicious questions.

:D
-ASHllYN♥

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I need to know some web adresses I can go to to get some pagan rituals and spells from. I'm studying neopaganism (specifically wicca), and I want to know of some educational sites that also provide experiments and spellwork I can try. Thanks in advance!

I'm sorry but i don't think you should try this...

-ASHllYN♥

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i have heard different things and i could use some good strong opinions (not flames, dont leave me bruised and battered) on bisexuality from a christian standpoint. i fear i may actually have to read the WHOLE Bible (LONG!) to form my own opinion to be honest. i just know alot of ppl interpret the Bible differently.
thanks in advance

Bisexuality is WRONG no doubt about it!

-ASHllYN♥

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Let me start of by saying: I would not be asking this if I didnt already feel bad && want to change this. SO please, don't preach.

Down right to the point?
I stole my friend's new 300 dollar digital camera. (reminder: I know it was wrong, no lecturing)

While doing it, i KNEW it was wrong.
When she noticed it was gone, she cried.
It broke my heart.

I know God forgives, but my gut tells me..he won't.

I don't know, I want to send it back to her.
I think I will, as soon as I get her adress.
i CAN'T APOLOGIZE THOUGH. I CANT TELL HER.

I don't even know why I did it.
I love her. Im not jealous of her.
I don't need a digitial camera.
I don't want one.

But I did it anyway.
Just because I knew I could.
I knew I wouldn't get caught.

I'm evil. I'm a really bad person, I know.

Yet, I can't change it.
Here's where I need help.

- appologizing to God for this.

HOW? I knew it was wrong while doing it, I knew the devil was pushing me and God was telling me not to, yet I listened to the devil.
It's happened before. I never learn.
I'll always do the wrong thing.
So what? he's just going to keep forgiving me?

- how do I stop this

any ideas?

- this feeling

even if I give it back, I'll never forget what I did. seeing her cry. knowing how much it meant to her yet still taking it. how can i forgive myself for it? what should I do? I know myself very well. I wont change, I'll do it again. And I wont let myself forget it. I know I'll always feel bad because of this.

AHHH GOSSSHH just help me please, I feel awful.
what should I do? with everything?

this feeling is sick.
I want to die.

God knows that your sorry just talk to him about it in prayer! Ask for strength in Christ whenever you get the urge to do somthing wrong just say GET BEHIND ME SATAN IN JESUS NAME with complete athourity over satan and complete faith in God.

i hope it helps... :D

-ASHllYN♥

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well ive been a christian since i was 7 but for the past year ive barely even prayed and i dont feel a connection with God..everytime i do pray i just ask for him to forgive my sins because im afraid if i died right now i'd go to hell..no matter what i do i cant seem to get it right and so lately ive just been putting it off but thats not right. how do i start to feel a connection to God again and stop feeling so empty spirutually?

Pleassse e-mail me at cheerinchick@charter.net i used to be just like you... i can really help.

:D

-ASHllYN♥

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I have been feeling kind of down latley and just miserable. i feel like i have no friends and no life. i dont have the life that most teens my age have like partying and just having fun..most of my time i sit at home..i am very insecure about myself and i wish i wasn't. i feel as if i dont love myself but i wish i did..i believe in God but i dont go to church because i moved to a different town 2 years ago that i dont really know anything about. But i do watch several sermons on T.V. everyday. I just want to know any uplifting passages/verses from the bible you know..or passages/verses that have to do with being proud of yourself and appreciating your life or any other good passages/verses you think i might need>thanx soo much for reading..please help me out i need som guidance...

Hi, like i know how your feeling but you just need to tell your self that the depression is all in your head. Depression,anger,hate, you know all bad things are of the devil and he will sit there and tell you all these things and you will think it's you telling yourself but it's and him and then you'll start thinking about stuff pretty soon you'll just be in a big pit wondering what happened cause it will go by soo fast. But pray that God will pull you out of the pit and also ask for the ears to hear God's voice and only his voice. God wants us to try to love ourselves as much as he loves us. Listen to God hewill tell you everything you need to know. He will tell you what verses to read and your gifts that he has for you. He really loves you and he will send great people to be in your life. Just whenever you get a lustful thought or doubt that God is real all you have to say is GET BEHIND ME SATAN IN JESUS NAME! And have complete faith that nothing bad will come up in your head again because you have the power of choice in your hand and if yu tell satan to leave in Jesus Name then he won't come back. Also when you pray just have complete FAITH in God.

-ASHllYN♥

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ok last night i woke up at about 3:30 because i heard a creaky noise and i flung up and went OMGSH!! i went to say you scared me to who i thought was my moms girlfriend and my dog but the person just turned around and looked at me like i was insane i stared at them as the faded into my door without opening it am i insane.. do i have some special power? this happened when i was like three.. i was in the bathroom potty training [ bear with me here ] && the door was open and all of the sudden a clown came out of the wall [ im not afraid of them ] and i screamed he looked at me and walked out the door and my uncle came running and looked at him or so i thought.. but i dont think he saw him .. whats wrong with me? am i just seeing this stuff and its not there do i have some power i dont know about im only 13 so it could get stronger

NO.NO.NO. Ghosts arn't real no matter what anyone says! Give me your e-mail adress and i will tell you what it is cause i used to wake up and 3:00 every night for months and i definetly have your answer to this one... :D

-ASHllYN♥

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My boyfriend has self-harm issues. On three occasions when we have had an argument, hes physically hurt himself (scrabbed, cut, bruise). It hurts so much, and we have discussed it, he told me it wouldnt happen again, but it has. I have went to friends (close friends) for guidance and advice. My boyfriend tells me that this is wrong in the past,and that we should sort things out among ourselves. But when I am hurt,annoyed, afraid over situations, is it wrong to talk to close friends? I am slightly ascared incase it gets out that I have had to talk to friends.
On one occasion after a fight I was scared, put him on loud speaker to talk,with my friends there,just to let them know what I have to go through, and he threatened to hurt himself.
I dont know what to do sometimes,how can I make him stop? And is it wrong to talk to friends about issues of this manner. I know nothing is gonna be said, but its in my head.I am SO afraid incase he hurts himself, he said he never would do it again, and he did...I threatened to tell his mother, to make him see sense.

Well the first thing i could think of is to pray for him. And when you do have complete faith in God and know that everything will be okay. :D


-ASHllYN♥

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if you have sex and use a condom what are your chances of getting pregnant or std's? is there a certain time during the month where you're more likely to become pregnent?

You shouldn't be having sex unless your married.

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