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Age: 13
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Member Since: June 6, 2005
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Last Update: September 16, 2005
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16/m

ok i wona get the tips of my hair bleeached i have done it before and it looks mad nice when spiked up (jsut teh top tips)

the thing is that i forgot what is the propotional mix for the poraxide and bleach? any help?

YES. DIE IT BLACK AND GROW IT OUT. be emo for god sakes!

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Welp this one girl angie was going out with a kid jon. While they were going out i sort of did things with jon =/ They broke up though and i lost my virginity to him. I asked him if he would ever consider going out with me becuase i dont want to be used. He said he would consider it but in his away messages and things it says how sorry he is to angie and how he wishes he could go back. i dont know if hes faking it? But i dont know what to do..somebody please help!

omg.. you did stuff with him while she was still going out with her.. SLUT! and that guys a fucking idiot. hes despret. and your dumb to.

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This guy, Justin, and I got back together a couple of weeks ago after breaking up. We have been on and off for about a year, the longest time we went out was for 2 1/2 months. Well I went out with this guy Nick, and Justin didn't call me almost all summer because he thought I was still with him. When he found out we weren't together he called me and we both confessed that we'd never stopped loving each other. Now that we're back together, I've fallen harder for him that ever before, and we have alot stronger connection. He's a totally changed person. He's trying to stop doing drugs and smoking, he backed away from a fight yesterday for me, he actually DANCED for the first time in his life and before we started going out he called my dad for permission to be with me. He's actually doing his schoolwork and staying out of trouble and he tells me it's because he loves me and will change to be with me, even if I don't ask him too.

That's just a little bit of background information though, so you can see that we really do love each other and this isn't just an impulse desicion. Well...I've always thought of him as maybe being my first and lately I've thought about it more and more. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to do it for a long while, but I do have a few questions.

How bad does it hurt?
What do I do...if I'm on bottom OR top?
What are the condoms that are most reliable?
Did you regret your first time?
Anything else?

Sorry it's so long but THANK YOU SOO MUCH IF YOU ANSWER!

omg..im so proud.. they grow up so fast!!! this is the perfect love story!!

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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore

your dumb. god your dumb. god. your so dumb. god i cant even stop saying how dumb you are.

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well my boobs are really far apart will they ever grow together so i will have some clevage??

i rate 5's

yeah. and if not buy a push up bra

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What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)

hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st

i rate 5's no doubt about it

that is so sweet! aww! im so happy for you guys i would make him dinner!

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Ok i dunno what this would go under and alot of people look here so... I wanna know how to my face clean like no pimples or blackheads like what are some products or things i should do?? Thanks

pro-active

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Why is it alright to have sex at the age of 14, but not the age of 13?

-Curious Party

oh oops sorry i dont kno why. that was stupid oh well. sorry! i feel bad now

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Okay I want a boyfriend and stuff and be able to makeout and stuff with him. But I have heard from some people that a couple guys havn't asked me out because they think I won't do anything with them. So my question is how do I let them know that I will and want to without acting like a slut. Thanks in advance!! And if your rude then I will rate you low or not at all!!

i feel the same way!!! it sucks.. but anyways just give them THE LOOK you kno? you stare deep into there eyes then they talk to you and might ask you out sorry if this dosent work! it does for me!! lol.. i got that one from a guy of myspace haha

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Hey it's Eri! My column is Punk*rock*prep99 GO GO GO see it now!

lol i get 1 5 and its from you all the other ones are 1s! lol!!

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Hey all, i have a few quesions... So, me and my boyfriend want to have sex. Hes 15, and i am 14, and please, dont say we are too young. I am a gymnast and have gymnastics every wednesday. We are going to use a condom and even doing gymnastics, could I still get pregnant? I do every event plus conditioning. Is it possible? I am getting the condom. I dont want a box, just one or two. Where can i buy them and do you have to be a certain age? Where could I hide them so my mom would not fine them? Any help is GREATLY appreciated...

im so proud of you! lol.. ok anyways there are some in machines in the library girls bathroom,gas station,wallgreens or whatever. if it were me i would hide them in a sock under my matress or something have fun! be safe!

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okay...
well...
uhh..
this is hard for me to ask this
but i have already fingered my g/f and we both want more
we are WAY TO young for sex about 5 years from it, what can we do thats not sex d00d please help

69 duh

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hey im a guy and i always feel like my penis is small, i know its not but sometimes i just look atmy self and say that it has to be bigger but it doesnt is this bad?

no its not bad. some girls do like small dicks dont worry. its probly big enough. i do the same things with my boobs. its just like how some guys like small boobs some guys like fake and some huge its the same with girls exsept with dicks. lol i try to be so good with my advice even though its prolly really bad. lol. thats cute. ok ill shut up now

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I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond.

aww that is so sweet!!! your waiting tell your married!!! omg!!!!!!!!!!! thats so cool!!!! omg!!!!!!!!! im going to cry. ok im done.

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Well, I was wondering, since you have such good advice, I was wanting to know something. What would you do if you hated life and wanted to move away to a different state and school? How would you approach your parents about this? Mine are really strict and well, I can't stand the place I am in right now.
Aimee/16/female/Ohio

eri??? well i dont kno run away? hahaa

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Hi, we are 13 and we need a job, so we can get money so we can buy our own clothes because our parents make us pay for our clothes because they think that we are mature enough to earn our own money, but in reality, we dont know how to get money. Please give us ideas for jobs. Please dont tell us to talk to our parents because thats dumb and if you havent thought about it yet, we have tried that so dont be stupid. PLEASE HELP!! WE RATE HIGH!!

garage sale/babysitting and if you CANT find anyone to do that for or have anystuff to sell then ask your parrents if you can earn your money by cleaning,working like i dont know. they might not give you enough though for just cleaning. so uhmmmm i dont know.

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Hi im a 17/f. Im not that out going but my best friend is a very social person. She introduced me to her Older brother who is in collage. My best friend invited me to stay the night at her house. while i was there it turned out that her older brother was throwing a crazy frat party at there house whle there parents were away. Later that night after partying for awhile my friends older borther came up to me and asked if i wanted to dance. after a while he said he needed to talk to me in private. Wwe went up to his room and started talking for a while. he said how he really liked me and how he didnt care how i was 17 and he is 21. by that point i could tell he was drunk. i said "i'll be right bak" not meaning to return. i walked out of the room and went down stairs and started dancng again. about 15 minutes later he came down and said we needed to talk again. so i went along with it. when i walked in first he locked the door pushed me down on the bed and started rapeing me. now im 5 months pregnant and im supposed to be heading off to collage ona full scholorship. i really want to keep my child but it will be hard to go to school and keep a child. my parents dont want anything to do ith me so they wont help out. what should i do. keep my baby and skip out on Yale or give the baby up for adoption and go to Yale? im so confused please help!!!!!!!!

... leave it with him! god hes the one that fucking did you! who cares about his future. its his fault!

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my 12 year old friend is wondering again when you pregnet is you stomic all hard or can it be jiggily like fat to?~?~?!~!~

both dont worry shes probly not pregnant

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well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!!

dont do it! no matter what he does he just cant find anyone to do it with so he says have sex with me to show you your no prude. so its eaither run your life carring about what other people think and get pregnant or aids. or just dont care.. god. if you say no then hell probly beg you and hes just desprate belive me hes making the whole thing up like if i said your ugly. and you were accully pretty then your like no im not! but i was just jelous do you get it its really hard to explain.

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My boyfriend keeps coming back to me, claiming to love me but he always ends up cheating on me with his ex. What do i do? I'm a female age 15.

stop letting him! come back to you you idiot! like i heard on maury. one a cheater always a cheater.

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