Hi everyone, My name is Jamie and I am really glad that I have my own advice column now. I love to help people or at least try to. I haven't had much of a bad life myself but I have bad experiences with Guyz! N other things but Not so much with a bad life. I can still help you..
Thank You,
Jamielynn
E-mail: NewYorkCheerGrL1@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: High-School student
Age: 14
AIM: x3sweetxbabyx3
Yahoo: Cherry_grl_200869
Member Since: July 21, 2004
Answers: 71
Last Update: November 13, 2004
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ok i am 14 yeaes old going on 15 in october and i have a bf. everytime i am around him he is always asking to have sex and i just dont want people to think i am a slut. I want to have sex but i dont b/c it's like well i lost my virginity at 14. I really love him but idk if he is just using me. Should i do it or not. SHould i use a condom b.c he said that he would pull out before he cums.so idk..HELP (link)
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Well first think about it..How long have you and him been together? if it has been more then 4 months and everything in your realationship is all good and nothing has seriously gone wrong for you to believe he is using you then I would say do it if you want..But if your not ready which i don't sound like you are then don't pressure yourself! and you should deffinatly use a condum because even if he pulls out you can still get pregnant..from pre-cum
hope i could help..if u need anything else lemme no IM me on aim at x3sweetxbabyx3
xOx Jamielynn
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Umm, it may sound stupid, but people have been mentioning it, what is a cherry? not the fruit. (link)
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There really isn't a cherry..But people have always known the cherry as when a girl is a virgin and she has sex for the first time the blood is from the cherry popping. when really the blood is when your close to your period..
xOx
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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ? (link)
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Talk to her..and talk to him...
xOx
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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me (link)
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Use a condum and you wont have to worry so much..
xOx
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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~* (link)
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I really wouldn't recomend doing that if you want to be noticed. Unless of course you want to be laughed at and all of that..which i highly dbout that..But if you want to be noticed more..start off with your fashion..Then work your way up with the way you act..and whe you get into school try and get in activities that are popular.Or try and talk to more people that are popular or aren't in the "low class" and you will be noticed..
XOX
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i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else?? (link)
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Well you were probably close to the time of your period and that is why it bled so much..
XOX
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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You should do what you think will be best for you..and your future...x0x Jamie
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Can you have sex when you are pregnant?? (link)
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You can..But I don't think it would be to healthy!
~☼x0x☼~Jamielynn
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Im 15 and have been getting erections a lot lately
and my penis stays hard for quite a while is this normal? (link)
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Um..well ur probably just going thru puberty. But since I'm not a girl I'm not quite sure.
x0xJamie
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17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping?? (link)
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its dry humping
x0x Jamie
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ok i have never had a guy go down my pants or ive never basicly had oral sex or any sex at all but everytime i do stuff with him (making out felling) i get scared after and start to think stupid stuff like im pregnaunt and its not that i dont want to do anything with him and i know in myhead i didnt do anything but i still worry but i dont know whats wrong HELP!! (link)
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It sounds like your really not quite ready for anything like that yet. try and take things slower...
x0x jamielynn
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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do? (link)
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Talk to him and tell him that you don't feel you are ready yet. If he understands then thats good he's a keeper if he doesn't then get ride of him!
x0x Jamielynn
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how do i get my bf sexually aroused so he'll get a B0ner when i cant be with him.. like when im talking to him online, or on the phone?!.. does any one have ne tips or advice on it? - thanks - (link)
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Talk Nasty to him or something. I've never done it!
x0x Jamielynn
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my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP (link)
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If he says that if you don't have sex with me then we can't be together if that is what he is saying then tell him to be gone.. Because guys like that aren't worth it trust me!
x0x Jamielynn
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hey jamie wut up i hav a ? do u love me?
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yes baby i love you!!
Josh and Jamie FOREVER!
x0x JamieLynn
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me n mi boyfriend have been tagether for almost a year now nd we've done everythin but have sex and well tanight he was fingering me nd that nd it got a little out of control nd ima virgin nd hez lyke well jus let dem meet nd i waz lyke k nd he did nd there wasnt a condom nd it wasnt long but im really afraid that i culd get pregnant i dunt no what happen lyke with him 'down there' but im so scared can i get pregnant from that it was only like a minute but idunno is there a possibility ? PLEASE HELP im way to young ta get pregnant im so scared (link)
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If he didn't cum inside of you you or more likely not to be pregnant but u can still be pregnant from precum!
x0x Jamie*Lynn
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hey jamie wut up i hav a ? do u love me?
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Yes Baby I LOVE YOU MORE THEN ANYTHING!!! I'd do anything for you!!!
~U give me butterflies~
Josh I love you soo much!!!!!!!!!!! I never wanna let you go
Jamie * Josh
x0x Jamie*Lynn
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what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it? (link)
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Nothing is wrong with being a lesbian but it is kinda gross when your in public makeing out!
guys think it is soo0o kewl to watch girls make out and do all sorta of lesbian shyt together!
but no nothing is wrong with being a lesbian, it's your own sexuallity!
x0x Jamie*Lynn
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what is the best age for making out? and any one have tips on what do wit da touge? (link)
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I don't believe that there is any certain age for making out. And when your making out ((french kissing)) your tounge! just go with the movement you'll be fine. Noone really knows how to french kiss until one day it happens.
x0x JamieLynn
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I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it? (link)
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If you want to do it again then do it. Just go with the motion up and down...
x0x JamieLynn
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