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Q: My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him?
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if you arent ready to have sex with him, just ask him if he minds to wait a little longer. its that simple. if you cant do that, then your not ready to be in the relationship either, because you cant talk to him. he'll wait if he really loves/likes you. if not, then move on... there will be better guys out there!
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Q: he already knows and we talked about it last night and he told me that we are gonna take things slow because he knows my past and our history so he told me if he is doin something i dont want him to i am suppose to say something! wow no one has ever said anything like that to me! i feel like i might be fallin in love kris! his friends we asking him last night if i am the one he is gonna marry and he said if she will have me! awww kris i couldve cried! i dont kno right now if i can even begin to think about that but i can see myself with him forever! i vvv u tooo!
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awww babe! im so happy for you! im glad you guys found eachother... and who knows... maybe he is your "soul mate". if there is even such thing... im beginning to think that there isnt... but if there is... i think i no who is mine. i love him to death. well if you need anything just call... AFTER 1:30. lol. i vvv you soooooo effin much.
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Q: okay i started dating this guy a little while ago and i mean things are perfect he treats me good and he makes me feel soo happy! i am a virgin and i have been wating for one of my boyfriends to make me feel the way he does and i dont find my virginity special to me i am almost 17 years old and i have never had sex! should i tell him that i am a virgin or should i let things be the way that they are!
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let me start off by saying... im glad you came to me for this advice.. and not someone else! well.. you say your virginity isnt special to you? it must be, because you wouldnt have waited this long... if this is the guy you want to lose it to, then go ahead.. i cant tell you what to do... but just make sure hes the one you really want to lose it too... that way you wont have any regrets... dont just come out and mention that u are a virgin.. that might scare him away... do you know if he is a virgin? dont worry... you have nothing to be afraid of... a lot of girls your age are still virgins... and just because everyone else is doing it.. doesnt mean you have to... stand up for yourself... and if your bf doesnt understand that... then forget him... stand out... dont follow the crowd. and dont have sex, "just because you wanna". personally you really have to love the guy... otherwise its nothing special, and it takes the fun away... because it makes you feel dirty. hope i helped.. i vvv you!!!
~ Kris ~
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Q: okay my boyfriend was raped when he was younger and my parents think that i should have him tested b4 we do anything sexual! do u agree???
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thats a hard question to answer... it is ultimatly up to you, but if you are going to do something sexual, i think you both should get tested before hand. you always want to be safe... and its better off knowing if one of you has a disease.
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bio
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hey, im Kristen... this is my advice column so dont be afraid to ask me ANY question that might be on your mind. im a very understanding person, and i am easy to talk to. i enjoy playing volleyball, street hockey, and i "play" football with the boys... i have my share of problems too, im not perfect, far from it. i just dont have a lot of people to talk to, and i thought it would be nice if i could at least help some people out.
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Lancaster, PA Occupation: student Age: 16 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: June 16, 2005 Answers: 23 Last Update: September 11, 2005 Visitors: 5729
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