okay i started dating this guy a little while ago and i mean things are perfect he treats me good and he makes me feel soo happy! i am a virgin and i have been wating for one of my boyfriends to make me feel the way he does and i dont find my virginity special to me i am almost 17 years old and i have never had sex! should i tell him that i am a virgin or should i let things be the way that they are!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? whatnext answered Friday July 8 2005, 2:36 pm: let me start off by saying... im glad you came to me for this advice.. and not someone else! well.. you say your virginity isnt special to you? it must be, because you wouldnt have waited this long... if this is the guy you want to lose it to, then go ahead.. i cant tell you what to do... but just make sure hes the one you really want to lose it too... that way you wont have any regrets... dont just come out and mention that u are a virgin.. that might scare him away... do you know if he is a virgin? dont worry... you have nothing to be afraid of... a lot of girls your age are still virgins... and just because everyone else is doing it.. doesnt mean you have to... stand up for yourself... and if your bf doesnt understand that... then forget him... stand out... dont follow the crowd. and dont have sex, "just because you wanna". personally you really have to love the guy... otherwise its nothing special, and it takes the fun away... because it makes you feel dirty. hope i helped.. i vvv you!!!
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