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Hello
I am a 15 year old. I'll be 16 soon.
I have been having my period since Nov. 2004.
I've had it every month from the 19th to the 29th
This month i didn't get it.
It's never been this late.
I got all the cramps, and the upset stomachs before it.
It just never happend.
My mom didn't get hers either this month.
This is the 1st time it's happend.


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THanks

im 19 and i've had mine since i was 13- mine is pretty regular for about a year, maybe less, then all of the sudden it turns irregular for a while. Lots of things can trigger that, like hormones, puberty, dieting, excessive exercise, or stress. A lot of those things happen to people constantly, i wouldn't worry about it too much right now. Everyone is irregular sometimes. hope i helped!

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Q: Iam 16 years old and I only wear a 36 A bra and my mom wears a triple D bra arn't I suppose to be bigger to?
If your close with your mom, ask her when hers got big. I was the same way- my mom is D too and I was a big until I was 18 and now Im a full C- it's all about genetics and time. Women might stop getting taller when theyre 16-18, but we dont stop developing until were in our mid twenties. if you take after your mom in most attributes, you'll probably take after her in chest size. Birth control also makes them huge- maybe when she started taking it, it made them bigger. It all depends on asking her.

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Q: im kind of embaressed...but like, i masturbate and i think its gross and i know everyone says its not gross and its compltely natural and everyone does it and its not a big deal, but i cant help how i feel you know? but im trying to do it less like only once a week or something and (this sounds dumb) i told god that i would only once a week but it seems like i cant and i've done t like three times already and im worried im going to go to hell for lying to god...and i feel really stupid but i just wanted to ask someone...
aw sweetie you're not going to hell for that- it's very natural, and everyone does it. it's how we're made. masterbation isn't a sin. if you think about it, your body is just releasing natural urges that God made you with. Masterbation is a way to subside temptions for sex before marriage. Don't worry about a thing sweetie- just stay true to yourself

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Q: i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared.
The answer is yes. But in your case, no. You can not get pregnant without sperm. If you havent been in contact with it, don't worry. I know this is scary. Since we know youre not pregnant, i would wait a little while longer. if it doesnt come, you need to tell you mom so you can go to the gyno. Simple problems can get serious if you don't get it checked out. Your period could just be a little irregular due to stress, etc.

hope i helped, dont be afraid to talk to your mom and dont wait too long to get checked out

peace

Q: i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!!
You're like every other guy on this planet. Just find yourself a hot nympho and go to town baby. Rock it.


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Q: im 16 and havnt had a period for just over a year.im not preganat cos i dun tests.i cant have cancer so young can i?i stopped having them about a month after losing my virginaty.i havnt got std cos i ahd a screening.wahts wrong i started like when i was 13.neone know?plse help swn cheers xxx
You could have an infection or a cist on your ovaries. Something is wrong up there and you need to find out. You should have went to the gyno 6 months ago. Don't wait any longer.. you can get cancer anytime

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Q: I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help
Totally normal, I'm 18 also and I do it all the time. Girls are a beautiful thing. And the fact that you don't have an interest in going further means you're not bi. Girls that are bi are confused lesbians in denial.. they WANT to have sex with girls. It would be like us looking at guys and fantasizing. Kissing girls is no big deal.. I've done it too and I don't completely rule out a sexual experience with a chick because I like to try everything once, it might be fun. But I would NEVER ever give up guys and if you feel the same way, then you're straight :)

PEACE

Q: Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
I think you should scare the crap out of him. You should have your husband ask him questions, personal ones. Ask him things are normal for a young boy to go through (ex. wet dreams) and have your husband over react and almost make it seems like something is wrong. take him to the doctor and have him tested for Chlamydia and gonorrhea (which is very very painful), when it comes back positive tell him (whatever example you used to scare him with) is normal and that this could have been a serious situation and he needs to wait until hes older and wiser on the subject. i'm sure it will scare the shit out of him.. i know it's harsh but hey, so is life.

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Q: hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).

anyone give me advice plze?
thanxz x x x x
I don't mean to be rude, but why does it matter? Let her live her life and endure the consequences. I realize you're worried about her so try sitting her down and remind her of what could happen. Other than that there isn't much you can do but support her decisions. Hope i helped

PEACE

Q: Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Well I have a few questions....

1) I'm not a virgin but I told him I was. The 1st and only guy I had sex with was very small and I was wondering if my (virgin) boyfriend would be able to tell I wasn't.

2) Also...after sex do things change between the two people?
Your boyfriend isn't going to be able to tell if you're a virgin or not. That's impossible unless the guy was over 9in.. and that's just painful to think about. Also, things change drastically after sex. You'll be closer, in a good or a bad way it's really up to ya'll. Be careful not to have sex a lot because soon the relation depends on it to function and eventually you have nothing else but that. Good luck!

PEACE

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