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Q: I'm 13/f and I've had my boyfriend 16/m for about 2 years. Yes, I know he is really old for me. Recently he asked if he could come over to my house so I let him in when my parents were out at night. We started making out but then he tried to strip me! I said that I wasn't ready and made him go. Now I feel like he is slipping away. He's flirting with other girls. I don't know if I should have sex with him or not. I'm worried about stupid things like what if the condom breaks, or he goes too hard, or what if I'm no good? But the one thing that haunts me the most is what if my parents found out? Should I do it?
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Reading this question sparked a lot of thoughts from me, these include:
First of all, you are really, really young to be thinking about having sex. I don't think that a thirteen year old girl is emotionally or mentally ready to have sex. In order to figure out if you are ready or not, which I don't think you are these are questions that you need to ask yourself: http://www.oprah.com/relationships/How-to-Talk-to-Teenagers-About-Sex/8
Second of all, a lot of people lose their virginity and regret it, it's very precious and once you lose it - it's gone for good. You should not be having sex because you are being pressured by someone.
Third of all, a man who pressures a woman into doing something, at any age, really isn't worth the time of day.
I know that you have dated him for three years and you feel a lot of emotion towards him... but I think that the fact that he is pressuring you into having sex when he knows that you're not ready, really means that he's not good enough for you.
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Q: If I'm a 13 year old male is it normal for me to Jackoff
and should I be embarassed about it?
Another thing what's the average size for Male of my age?
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Masturbation is a perfectly normal part of growing up, especially at your age when you're going through puberty. I don't think that you should be embarrassed about it, if your guy friends were being honest they would admit to masturbating.
I wasn't sure how to answer your question about penis sizes. So, I had to look that up on my own, according to my source the normal penis size for a full-grown, non-erect adult male is 3-4 inches long.
http://puberty101.com/boys/penis-size/
I hope that I was able to help you out!
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Q: What is the best way to finger a girl during sexual intercourse ?
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When you're having sex, you should ask your partner what she likes. I personally love it when my boyfriend goes really hard and fast. However different people like different things, so the best way to make sure that the girl that you're with is being pleasured is asking her how she likes being fingered.
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Q: hey guys ...i am 19yrs old girl.i am worried about my future.my cousin brother forced me to have sex when i was 8-9years old.if i dnt do so he use to beat me.he have sex with me 2-3 times but i didnt bleed.he use to lick n play with my pussy until i get menstruation(on 11).now i am worried if my bf got to know m not virgin..i dnt want him to knw since that was not my fault..help me out.do u think my bf will knw??
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I think that you should tell him your boyfriend what happened. If you guys decided to start having sex you would be reminded by this constant memory, and it's good to have someone to talk to this about.
Have you ever told your parents this? You may want to come out with this now, so that you can possibly get the help you need by going to a counselor and your cousin brother can be punished for raping you... you were molested, that is not okay.
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Q: I'm 21.
Last night me and my boyfriend spent the night together. I've never given a guy a BJ before. I had my period so we couldn't do much, so I was giving him a HJ and decided to try giving him a BJ because I'm so comfortable with him and it felt right.
At first I thought it was going to be disgusting, but it wasn't to me at all. I was fine with it. The only thing is- I GOT BORED! I was doing it, and doing it, and I was like okay this is boring ..not to mention I was getting tired!
Is this normal? I know he was enjoying it by what he was saying, but I don't know how I can keep doing it without being so bored haha.
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A good way to not be bored is to have him do stuff to you as well. Most people when they're on their period do not necessarily want to have sex, it can be messy and it's a turn off for some men. He can't finger you or eat you out either, unless he wants to risk getting your blood all over his hands, however he can play with your tits, suck your nipples... that may make the experience a bit more fun for you.
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Q: okay so first off, i'm a girl. i've masturbated before, but it wasn't that enjoyable. today, i tried again because i've been really horny lately. i was fingering myself with one finger first and then decided to use two. i started off slow and then really fast. it felt amazing and i was moaning and everything. i think i "came" a little but kept going because it felt so good. so i started going fast again and i came again. i was looking down and saw blood. idk do you think i broke my hymen? i've had sex before with one person but never broke it. it didn't really hurt or anything either.
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The myth of breaking your hymen during your first time is false nowadays, A LOT of girls end up breaking it when they fall. Did it hurt when you had sex with that person? That being said blood is a strong indication of a broken hymen.
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Q: um...im 18 years old n i have a boyfriend and he is 18 about to be 19 this year next week and we always have sex everyday but i think when we having sex and i give him head i feel like im doing it wrong one nite he told me i need to stop tring to deep troat and i knw i cant but i want to try new things n our sex life how do i try to get him to do new things with me without him thinking i cant cause we never did it befo he always tell me he is playing when he say things like that but i dnt think he do i feel like im doin it wrong and it hurts my feelings wen he say things like that how do i fix it
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Best policy in a relationship, talk to him about it. Tell him that you want to experiment in the bedroom to liven things up a bit, discuss things that you two want to do to each other.
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Q: ok im new to this all.
15/f
i was wondering what is meant by a female cumming.
like do u feel it or even know that its happened?
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Cumming is something that is a fluid that is released during sex. When you're cumming, you'll know, it usually happens when you're having sex and am extremely sexually aroused. I also think that cumming is different for everyone, for me it's warm and tingly but for someone else it could feel completely different.
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