My name is Sara. I live in California. Im a happy person. I dont put up with drama and I enjoy trying to make life as simple as possible.
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Is it safe for a guy to eat you out or go down on you, if you have a lot of discharge? (link)
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Yes, it is safe. I would just make sure i cleaned down there very well prior to. hope I helped.
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is it true that guys are only in a relationship for the sex? and what kinds of things drive guys crazy that aren't sexually related? (link)
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it depends on the guy and the dynamics of your relationship. If you have a guy that truely cares about you and wants to pursue a romantic relationship as well, then he is probabily not just using you for sex
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when your going "down there" to finger a girl. Is the clit the place to focus alot of your time? Like will that gaurantee an orgasm? Thanks (link)
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Everyone is different, so it wont guarrantee it, but even if she doesnt, she will definetly like it. Also, some girls perfer penetration over rubbing
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whats four-play? (link)
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Four play is everything that isnt actually sex. It is usually used in the term to get people ready for sex. (ie girl getting wet, guy getting a hard on)
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I've never given or received oral sex. I am 15/f. People say it is normal to do it at my age and I sort of agree. I am afraid of having a guy go down on me because I don't have this kind of experience and I am shy. I'm sort of afraid of going down on a guy because I don't want to do it wrong.
People always say you're supposed to wait until it feels right but I think it will only feel right when I give it a try.
Any advice?? (link)
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you are right. The only way to really get a hang of it is practice. It took me a couple times, but then it just clicked and went smoothly. It was alot better for me and him. I know its hard, but try not to worry. Everyone is afraid there first time. Theres nothing wrong with not having experience.
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I had sex for the first time 2 nights ago. i wasnt in pain that night, but i was the morning after. im okay today, but i was wondering if there was a certain amount of days you should wait before doing it again? (link)
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no there isnt a certain time. You should just wait until you arent sore or feel uncomfortable anymore
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someone told me that you can have sex in different positions. like, standing or something. is that true? i don't believe it! (link)
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yes it is true. People have sex in many positions such as guy on top, girl on top, doggystyle, standing, etc..
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Ive been together with my boyfriend for 4 and a half months now. We talked about us both being ready to make love. Theirs just one thing holding me back. He has condoms but I dont feel comfortable with just that i heard the pill can give you cancer so I was woundering what else I could do to be safe. I dont want to tell my mom i know she'll ruin the experiance for me. (link)
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The pill will definetly not give you cancer, if it did, no one would use it. If you dont want your mom to know, then go to any planned parenthood and they will give you birth control. No other forms of birth control are as effective as the pill and the condom, so i suggest you use one or the other, or even better, both. Whoever told you the pill will give you cancer, is wrong. The pill is a very safe and effective form of birthcontrol.
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do ######### hurt. do guys typically cum during a ########. can a girl bit alittle (link)
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I have no idea what the "###" mean whatsoever. Please replace the "#" with what you actually mean and then I would be glad to answer your question.
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ok i know all about like what a girl goes through during puberty & all but what do the guys get if girls get periods??
nothing? (link)
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well the equevelant to periods for guys is "wet dreams" where they basically ejactulate in there sleep sometimes. But other signs of puberty is facial hair, body hair and a deeper voice.
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you know when guys get happy and they (i dont think this is the right word) have a boner or something. well i think you know what i mean. how can someone else tell if a guy has one? (link)
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You will see like a bump in his pants where his crotch is. This is his penis getting hard. You might not be able to see through his pants, but most of the time you can, especailly if hes wearing sweatpants.
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is it bad to get the hpv vaccine when your already sexually active? (link)
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No, I got the HPV vaccine after I was sexually active and my doctor knew this and said it was okay.
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I've been having sex with my boyfriend for like a month. We have been using a condom and i got my period like two weeks ago and since then we've had sex like 6 times, 4 in one day. and after we had sex one time my stomach hurt and it happened again the next day. Does anyone know why ? (link)
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It could be because of the pain or irratation caused from sex. It is most likely not pregnancy since you have used a condom every time. Also, your stomach could be hurting from a non related reason.
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Do pads feel like diapers (link)
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Well, in my opinion, yes. Some girls, however, have used them for quite awhile and find it okay. Personaly, I find them bulky and a tampon is much more comfortable and easier to move in. Some pads, like the ones made for thongs, are not as bad, but still are not as unnoticable as a tampon. Hope I could help!
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I am a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend is on the pill. We have sex almost everyday and most of the time we use a condom also.She has only missed one pill this month. Im kinda worried though because we had sex yesterday afternoon without a condom. Am I stupid for worrying how likely is it that she will get pregnant? or get an STD. I have only been with two other people and I have been checked for STD's twice.
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Well her chances for getting an STD are high if you have one. But if you have been tested after you had intercourse with two other people, you should be okay since im guessing it was negitive? Her likelyness of pregnancy is low since she only missed 1 pill and if she took it as directed otherwise. Once you miss 2, then your in trouble. Also, you are usually supposed to make up the pill the next day, meaning if she missed one day, she should take 2 the next day at regular time to make up for it. This is how my birth control works, but she should read the sheet with her perscription that says what to do if she missed a pill. If she did exactly what it says to do, her chances are pretty low. birth control is 99.7% effective when taken correctly. Her chances maybe a little higher since she forgot, but not by much. hope I could help!
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So their is this guy that had sex with a girl but did not tell her that he had HPV. He used a condom and then later had the warts burned off. How likely is it that she will get HPV. (link)
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If he used a condom correctly and the whole time, the chances are pretty low because it was protected sex. But there is always a chance she could get it because condoms are not 100% effective.Also, some studies say that hpv effects parts of the genital area that is not covered by condoms so it is only partually protected, others studies argue that it does completely prevent it. I suggest she get an STD test for it or a pap smear to determine if she has HPV. If she doees not I also suggest the vacination for it, which I just got that prevents this std and potentially cervical cancer.
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If I cum while wearing a condom and then later decide to do round two and blow my load in her is it okay. I heard she wont get pregnant. (link)
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are you saying that if you have sex with a girl and use a condom and then have sex with her later without one she wont get pregnant?
No, there is a chance of pregnancy no matter when you have sex without a condom even if you just had sex with one earlier. Whenever you cum in a girl she can get pregnant unless she is on the pill.
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The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.
What does everyone think of this plan?
-Jordan (link)
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Not so smart. This will turn into him just wanting one thing from you, sex. If you like him thats fine, but dont use sex to get him to date you. You will end up getting hurt in the end. If you guys do end up dating , wait awhile before getting sexual.
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okay so i'm a little scared i'm 13f and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i havn't even started my period yet and i'm afraid if i have it with him something bad might happen can someone please help me i'm afraid. (link)
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I suggest not having sex until YOU know you are ready to have it. If you are scared, dont do it. Dont let someone pressure you into something you dont want, its your body.
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My boyfriend and I have been thinking about doing it for the first time soon...you know, sex. I don't know what's safer, birth control pills or a condom, or where to find either...I really need help! I'm too embarrassed to ask any adults I know...please help. (link)
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Both is the safest, But birth control is more effective against pregnancy since condoms can break or come off. Birth control has a 99.7% effectiveness rate. But condoms do protect against STDs, and birth control does not. Personally, I choose the pill as my method of birth control
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