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okay so my boyfriend and i have had sex, hes never been fully hard and hes fingered me and eating me out too. they say you're supposed to have a sharp pain, or bleed. well i don't re-call the pain, or any blood. and i can't go to the Dr. because my mom will freak out. i'm so afraid. i know im not pregnant he pulls out way before hand, but i wish i knew to tell if i had my hymen broke. please help (link)
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hey thank for your question. when having sex every girl is different. Your hymen may have already broken throughout your years. people who bike ride or horse ride etc breaks down the hymen muscle through time.
the thing is that guys have pre cum which is small amounts of semen coming out before the full ejaculation.
Were there any other symptoms that make you feel that you could be pregnant?Cravings, increase breasts size, miss of period etc?
In the future pleaseeee use protection!!pulling it out before he cums never works. its just a myth...you need to use a condom which also prevents you from getting STD's...keep inmind that condoms are only 98% safe...You need to go on the pill just to be extra careful!
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My boyfriend is 19 years old. He's very innocent, well... Not exactly. I just call him innocent because he's the type of guy who is disgusted by porn. He does not know what exactly turns him on. He said only when he makes out, some what touch me in some places, and sticks his tongue in my mouth. That's basically it. He says that only turns him on halfway or somewhat. What is something that I can do to fully turn him on? (link)
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i agree with the other person,maybe even try being rough with him like push him against the wall and press up against him while you are making out...some guys even like it when you scratch them when you have your hands up his shirt...not too hard but just enough to turn him on like run your nails over his skin but not lightly so thta he can feel it.
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Hi , I was wondering what happens if you do not have sex or masturbate for a long a period ? is it unhealthy for the sexual organs ? like make them inert or inactive or something ? (link)
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depending if your a male or female.if your male it really isnt good for you.you can become sterile but also if your female as well as male i guess youd become sexually frustrated
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Whenever me and my boyfriend make out i just lay on top of him and he just touchs my vagina but doesnt finger me.
What are somem stuff to do? like moving around? or what can i do to him? (link)
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touch him back...if hes touching your vagina then repay the favour by touching him.dont just lie there like roll over on top of him and sit on top of him while he lies there.maybe even push him against the wall
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What do you do when a guy is kisisng your neck/ giving you a hickey. (link)
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rub his chest or face dont just sit there touch him back to show u like it
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Is kissing just a natural thing you're either good at, or not good at? How difficult is it to be a good kisser? (link)
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not that difficult,practise makes perfect.you kinda just end up learning what your other partner likes and dont like,me personally i dont like french kiss so ill pull away when my partner tries to do it.
go on youtube theres videos that can teach you.i mean kissing is about you and can show what type of person you are.its about passion and touching,its not just about putting lip to lip its also about touch the other personas face and making things exciting for them,check youtube out im sure theres things there for you to waTCH
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hey are there any guys out there over 16 that are still virgins? i feel like in todays world teenage guys just want to get laid and that no ones a virgin anymore.
if you are a guy whos a virgin can you share you opinion on sex and things please? thank you. (link)
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heeey im sorry im not a guy but my bf is 22 this year and still a virgin,so am i.like sex is really a personal thing.his opinion about sex is that its making love so it shouldnt be something physical that you just do to satisfy yourself but it should be soemthing you do with someone you reallly love and want to share soemthing with that you cant give to anyone else.dont be ashamed that your still a virgin.no one needs to know,just masterbate regularly and youll be fine.dont rush yourself.just wait dfor that someone because between you and me guys that are saving them selves or guys that are still virgins are a total turn on!
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Hey, I am 16 years old and about 2 years ago I realized I have small bumps on the shaft of my penis. I have had sex before if that had anything to do with them. I dont know what it is and I am worried about it since the bumps are not going away or anything. There are a lot of them, really, but they are fairly small in size. If anyone knows anything about this PLEASE help me! How do I get rid of this? No girl is going to have sex with me when they see the bumps on my penis!
Thanx (link)
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you may have syphilis,im not a doctor but you need to go to the doctor because i think its an std...she will provide you wil creams and antibiotics if needed to get rid of the spots
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Im 20 years old and I want my boobs bigger without the surgury..any wayy i can??? (link)
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if you go on the pill that will make your breast alot bigger...my friend went on the pill and she went from a size C cup to a size DD..but the thing is that there are other risks with taking the pill like weight gain.talk to you doctor about it because i cant be sure for certain it will make YOUR boobs bigger because everyones different
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I've had sex 2 or 3 times now and each time i bleed. the first time it was dark red and alot. then the next day when i didn't have sex it was pink. and then i had sex a week later and i woke up and i had some light pink blood. is this normal... or is it STILLL just my cherry, i don't get it. (link)
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i agree with the other person.it could be your cherry but it could also mean that he could have riped something from inside you thats causing you to bleed everytime you have sex.like where do you guys have sex?soemtimes awkward positions can cause you to bleed aswell..eg like having sex in the car on the passenger seat...if theres no pain then maybe it isnt a rip but if it keeps bleeding then id go see a doctor
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After Masturbating, The Next Day Is Your Stomach Supposed To Hurt? Cause You Come Like three times? lol I Know, Kinda Random.
&&& Yes Im A Girl
Thanks.
xoxo, Cassidy (link)
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no i dont think its normal for your stomach to hurt.Make sure that you urinate after you masturbate that could be the reason why your stomach hurts is because your not going to the toilet afterwards...lol what do you do to make yourself cum three times??
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A dentist came into my healthcare class and told us that a during a hygiene appointment, the dentist can tell if you've had oral sex recently. She said they can tell even if you have brushed your teeth. I asked my personal dentist who laughed and confirmed it. Neither of them will tell me how they can detect this. Google didn't help me, and since they don't put a black light to your mouth, I can't figure out how they would be able to tell. Any ideas? (link)
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OMG they can!!!hahaha thats just wrong...thats personal they cant do that lol...hmmm maybe youd still have residue between your teeth?hmmmm thats nasty!if you ever find out please let me know lol
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i masturbate some but my fingers are just not getting it...i don't have any sex toys and don't have any way of getting any so what could i use to achieve a orgasm...i've never had one so i don't know what it would feel like...can someone tell me what i could use and what an orgasm would feel like. (link)
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an orgasim is a tingly sensation down there,it makes your toes curl and makes you want to moan.it feels alittle like you wnat to go toilet but you dont.
dont finger,rub your clit hard and quickly that should do the trick,your clit is like just above your pee whole
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heyy.. you'll probably see this question later on, but i wanted advice sooner.. what should i expect my first time having sex.. as far as the physical feeling, i know everyone is different but i want some kind of knowledge going into it. like things that could possibly go wrong, or things to do to make it better.. thanks in advance. (link)
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well fisrtly you have to make sure that your positive that you want to have sex or your not going to feel good in the process.use alot of lubricant and fingering may help before hand.He may want to try using 2 fingers just to stretch you out.things that may go wrong is that it might hurt so its better that your not on top because that will hurt even more.expect to bleed so id probibly bring a tampon or a pad with me just incase.if you do bleed its natural,its a sign of your hymen breaking.i mean with some people it might not hurt them depending on the guys size etc.people say that the first time might be the worst time because your in some pain and you havent done it before so your not so experienced but after a few times of having sex,depending on the person,the pain will gradually go and the sex will feel better.just remember that once you start having sex your going to want to do it again and again.make sure he uses a condom and it might even be better that you go on the pill..:)
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i dated a guy for over a year. he broke up with me like a little over a month ago, i was crushed and devestated but i'm getting over it now. i saw he was in a relationship so i texted him. he ended up calling me that night saying that he met someone that he needed as a friend, to be there and to understand him and then that girl just started liking him so he went along with it. (he was depression and not many real friends) he said that the more he hangs out with he's finding out that she's annoying. he told me he also told her that he needed a month to himself. i know he has depression (his parents are going through a divorce) but i'm getting scared that he's now suicidal. he asked me how i was taking the whole 'breaking up' thing and i was i was doing really well..then he said "we like switched roles this time" (we broke up once before and i was the one who was really upset) so yeah he told me he's never told anyone these secrets. he didn't tell me, but he hinted to me and came extremely close to. i know he's suicidal, just don't know the details. i also told him that if he ever needed a shoulder, i'm always here. and he said it meant alot and stuff.
so yeah he's dating this girl that he thinks is annoying, he says she caught him on the rebound and he's suicidal. his girlfriend obviously doesn't know about it. and i'm pretty sure i'm the only one who does since he said he can't open up to anyone at his school or his home. what do i do? i want him to open up to me. i didn't try to force it out of him but i told him i'm here. and what do you think of this whole girlfriend thing? i just need your guys' opinion and any advice would be amazingg. thanks. (link)
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now that he broke up with his gf hes going to feel so alone.he had you to keep him on track then he lost you and needed someone else so he got some other rebound to help him out.he feels alone and doesnt know how to deal with it soo hes trying all these other approaches by getting a rebound etc.
its really hard to help someone thats depressed because theyr past the stage where you can say soemthing and then theyll just listen to you.theyr past the stage where they think theres a better way than killing their self.
its hard to change someone thats depressed because theyv put up this barrier where they dont want anyone to help them and think that no one can help them or no one loves them etc.
right now he needs you more than ever.he broke up with that girl and now he has no one else except you.you just gotta be there for him even if he doesnt ask for it.just be there and talk to him and hang with him etc so that he know hes got somethign to live for.surprise him with things like take him on a picnic,go to the beach with him.treat him to the movies etc.just be his friend and let him know that you guys are just friends and that you miss him and wnat to hang out.keep in contact because thats pretty much all you can do for now
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Help! I am 2 weeks late on my period.
I am never regular (and usually late) but this time especially, I am freaking out. I have not had sex since October, but I have done other things (in a safe manner) since my last period involving male body fluids. I am not on birth control.
In October, I had 2 periods and it was really weird. In November, I was on my period from around the 19th to the 24th. December has been super stressful for me because I have had college midterms and I found out my boyfriend of 2 years has cheated on me and I broke up with him.
Do you think I could be pregnant? Or what the chances are of becoming pregnant without having sex? I can't think of any reasons I could be pregnant. No fluids ever went inside of me.
Do you think it could have to do with doubling up on my period in October? Or the stress?
Exactly 1 year ago I had the same problem and skipped my December period all together.
I don't know what to think anymore and I'm very scared. (link)
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i dont think your pregnant.a late period can be caused by stress and change of diet for example having too much lemon or citric acid can lead to a later period.have you been craving?have your nipples changed colour?have your breasts become bigger?are you feeling any different?do you feel a lump on your stomach?i dont think your pregnant but if your unsure nows the time to have a pregnancy test!
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Okay, so a while back my boyfriend fingered me and after he was done & a little later on, i noticed a some blood on my underwear and it stung when i peed. So i figured he popped my cherry then. & he fingered me a couple times after that, and there was no blood. & just yesterday, he fingered me really hard and he noticed blood all on his hand. & it was bleeding a little today but now it has stopped. I kno it wasnt my period though because i just had it a few days ago, and the blood already stopped.So, im confused.. can your hymen break partially and then break fully? or what?
Any answer is appreciated. (link)
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the first time he finged you he only damaged the hymen he did fulyl break it which was the reason why you only bled alittle bit.when he fingered you harder the next time he broke your hymen causing you to bleed moree.everyones different some people dont bleed at all when their hymen breaks because due to activities like horse riding cycling etc your hymen gets damaged and breaks little by little through time but some people dont do activities that can risk hymen breakage so when they are poked or have sex they bleed more than others because their hymen was still intact.
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Hi so i know what a bikini wax is but i was wondering what exactly a brazilian wax is.
I know is tales a lot more hair off but is it like everything? Someone told me they wax your ass too so i'm a little confused haha.
also i was wondering from personal experience from girls which do you prefer and guys... which do you prefer lol alright thanks! (link)
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bikini wax is where they wax the side of your upper thigh next to you vajayjay.brazillian wax is where they wax everything aqround your vagina.you have an option of taking it all off or the lady may ask if youd like to keep some hair or soemthing.usually i take it all off.its soo good!you feel soo good after you get it done.the lady will ask you if you want your bumwhole done aswell and you say yes or no.it depends on your taste.i definitly prefer brazillian.a bikini wax is usually done when you wanna go swimming and your wearing your bikini or togs.with brazillian they do your bikini line aswell so you may aswell get that!seriously it does hurt,mostly the first and second time but you feel soo good after!people usually get it done after they have their period as a monthly thing depending on how fast your hair grows....also guys love brazillians!my boy friend does,my friends boyfriend loves it when my friend gets a brazillian.
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so say your on birth control and then you needed to take a medicine pill that would cancel the birth control but you still took your birth control everyday. you have sex he cums in you more than once is it like cummin in me like regular sex with nothing for protection? (link)
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yeah it is as if you are not using protection because for example some antibiotics cancel out the contraceptive pill.you need to use a condom or its as iff your trying to have a baby!
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Okay well im 14 going to be 15 in like 3 months. Me and my boyfriend make 6 months on the 4th of December so tomorrow. We have been talking about sex for that past few weeks now and I think im ready, but I still have this little voice in my head telling me im not. I know I really love him though and I know he won't do anything I wouldn't want to because he always caring of me. I really know I want him to be my first though, but the thing thats getting me is that im to young I think that's the only thing holding me back. What is your opinion on this and does it hurt your first time I really want to know pretty much everything please? (link)
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usually the voice at the back of your head is always the one thats right.you think your ready because thats your heart talking but that voice in your head is your mind. choose your mind over your heart because its the right choice.
if you do choose to go with your heart make sure you use protection because you dont want to be getting pregnant at the age of 15 do you?
in my opinion your too young.in new zealand the legal age to have sex is 16.that law is there for a reason.
But again if you do have sex just make sure you use a condom or go on the pill
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