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Q: i was the person who asked you about the birth control, im on ortho tri cyclen. do you think this weekend i should get up and take it at 6:30, or would it just mess things up, or would it just not have an effect? if i plan on having sex not this weekend, but next.
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um i think you should just find a time you can take like everyday because it kinda confuses everything when you have different times. if you can wake up everyday at 6:30 then yes i would do it then this weekend. if you cant then find a new time or you could also keep doing your thing.
because like 4 hours really doesnt matter taht much.
hah.
hope im helping! :]
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Q: when your getting fingerd what do you do? just sit there???? wouldnt that be akward lol
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haha um no.
like usually when i get finger i like to make out.
like its really hot.
um he will be fingering you and you just like makeout with him and enjoy it.
when it feels really good pull away; moan a lil and tug on his hair.
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Q: 18 year old female.
okay so i have been taking birth control for about two years now, im on the one called ortho-tri cyclen lo. i first took it when i was suppose to. i think i started it on a sunday? but now i get my periods on wednesdays. your suppose to have your period when taking the white sugar pills right? well when i have my period i am taking the dark green ones for about 4 days, and then i'm on the white ones. i haven't missed a day, and so i dont know what could of gone wrong. is this bad? im still a virgin but am planning on having sex within the next couples weeks, so will this birth control still be effective? i get my period exactly when im suppose to, on wednesdays every month. the thing is during the week i take it at about 6:30am and on the weekends i take it at 10:00am. considering i dont want to wake up that early, because i wouldn't be able to fall back asleep. i know this is bad, but the weird thing is that i still get my period when i'm suppose to! i should be getting my period tomorrow, and i'm pretty sure i'll be taking the dark green one's for about 4 days, then on sunday, when i start a new pack, i'll start taking the white ones. and my period will end around next tuesday or wednesday. i talked to my parents two weekends ago, and was like "i think i should go to the doctor because i think somehow my days got messed up on my birth control, and i want to see if i can switch the times i take it.." and both of them said, "i think you will be fine. the doctor will probably want to see you in a couple months anyways just to check up on you to see how you're doing" they know im not sexually active but they dont know i am planning on having sex in two weeks. so now i'm really worried that the birth control i'm taking wont be effective, and of course we WILL be using a condom too, but i'm a paranoid freak haha and do not want to get pregnant. so will i be okay if i have sex in two weeks? will the birth control be effective like it should be? THANKS [:!
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hi.
im on ortho tri cyclen.
and i get my periods on wednesdays also.
i dont know what the problem is there.
its completely normal.
yeah and um your pills are effective lol.
and yes your gonna be very protected when you have sex. especially if your using a condom also.
so just dont worry okay!
:]
have fun!
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Q: Now I've had sex before, and it's not like this is my first time or anything. Lately, I've been wanting to have sex with this guy in my car. (My house has been ridiculously crowded.)
But I want it to be completely unplanned... well for him at least. I don't want to be like "Hey, let's have sex in my car!". I want to kind of just have it happen, but I have no idea how to move things from the front to the back seat, or how to just park. Or even how to just start driving aimlessly.
How should I get it into the backseat without saying it? Better yet, how do I get him to just drive around with me aimlessly?
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haha.
alright..
so i've had sex in backseats plety of times.
okayy so just be like "lets go on a drive"; "lets to the the state park"; "lets go look at the trees changing color" or something stupid like that. or anything random.. maybe like ask him to go to your grandmas house or to the store thats awhile away but actually yeah your not going there.
but your gonna want him to drive.
and as hes like driving you should start kissing him.
just a couple times and then start to undo his pants..
yeah and give him road head.. [blowjob while driving]
things will get hott and then you should suggest you pull over somewhere. thats where you guys get in the backseat and have hot dirty sex!
ahaha.
good luck.
have fun.
=]
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Q: im 15 and i have a serious boyfriend.
but i really wanna experiment with girls.
me and my girl friend hooked up a while ago when we were drunk but that was just a dumb thing.
when i say i wanna experiment i mean like eating eachother out, strapons, etc.
i know i dont have feelings for girls im not bi or gay, but i feel like the sex part would be cool because girls know what they like.
what do i do about this.
is this weird or common?
i think about it all the time.
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hahah WHOO!
okayy yeah im 15 also and I feel the samee way!
but with me ive actually done it.. [no strap-ons tho]
but yeah I know how you feel.
I consider myself bi-curious. Extremely bi-curious.
Most would say bi but im not comfortable calling myself bi yet; even tho everyone else is.
It doesnt matter tho as long as your secure with yourself.
&& yes i think its a very common thing.
ive made out with most of my friends; we just think girls are attractive.. [I sometimes think more than that but yeah].
but why wouldnt we be attracted to girls?
THEY ARE HOTT!
and theres something wayy different about them then guys.
and thats things we appreciate.
like how soft and gentle they are, the way they smell, the curves of their body, they way they want to look pretty...
those are things guys just dont have.
but anyways um yeah i saw just be comfortable with yourself. experiment a lil or alot.
have fun!
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Q: I am 17 years old and I'm seriously considering suicide. I've already been through some tough times with my ex-girlfriend, we had so many things planned out for the future and she left me for her ex. I found another girl I like but she's been playing games with me and I'm just sick of everything. Part of the reason I want to do this is because I get jealous very easily, so when I see her flirting with someone else it really upsets me. Now I'm only a Junior in high school, but I've been through alot of adult situations. I just want to know the quickest, easiest way to do it. I would appreciate advice on how to handle the situation properly though if anyone has it, thank you.
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Hey.
I know how you feel.
I even asked how high you would have to jump to make sure you died. [7 stories]
But really suicide is not the answer.
Your young. You have so much life left to live.
&& everything happens for a reason.
She wasnt your soulmate and a girl is still out there looking for you.
I believe that everyone has one soulmate and one only so if you died she would be left with nobody.
If that makes any sense to you.
Suicide is also a really selfish thing.
Just think about your parents, your friends, family. They love you and you would be greatly missed. I know you probably dont care or believe me but alot of people would miss you.
I used to think all the time how many people would come to my funeral if I died and I thought like proably 10 but thats not what it would be like. I still think about suicide alot but I cant do that to my dad. Im all hes got. && my mom would like go into depression again. Im just not that selfish.
I dont think you are either..
I know you can get through this.
but if you really think you cant and there is nothing at all to live for then I would suggest a blow to the head. That is how most guys kill themselves. Its really fast and simple. Most girls dont because it doesnt look pretty and they are too scared.. I resorted to jumping because I couldnt pull a trigger, swallow that many pills, drink that much, or tie a strong enought knot.
&& just because I would love the feeling of free falling and then that shock you go into once you hit the ground.
anyways I hope I helped.
Im hear to listen if you even need to talk.
Best of luck.
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Q: Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.
sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.
then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/
anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.
we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.
what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.
ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i?
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Well hun, I know what he wants from you.
&& thats sex.
He thinks that since he got it from you once he can get it from you again.
And again, and again.
I know because its happened to me.
I was 14 when I lost my virginity; he was 18.
We had sex about 6 times and then he freaked out and we stopped talking. Were kinda cool now where like we randomly talk but its still not the same.
I hated him for a long time because he made me feel special and I gave him my virginity and I still have feelings for him a year and like a month later..
What im trying to say is that I dont think your really over him because everytime he talks to you you still get that special feeling..
Thats why if he asks to hangout and have sex your gonna really wanna do it.
&& its really up to you.
If it were anyother guy other than the guy who took your virginity I would say go for it and have sex because friends with benefits are fun.
But since its that guy its gonna bring back all those emotions. && its gonna be really hard.
I hope the best for you.
Im here to talk and listen anytime.
I hope I helped.
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Q: Does sex hurt the first time you do it? I've never done it, but stories of pain sort of make me nervous. Does it?
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No not really.
If your gonna have sex you really shouldnt worry about it or anything like that cuz thats gonna make it hurt alot more.
You should be really relaxed.
&& WET!
if your not than make sure you use lube.
That will ease the pain.
And alot of foreplay will put you in the mood.
&& if you use tampons and/or have gotten fingered then you probably wont have your hymen.
When I had sex for the first time my hymen was already broken either from tampons or doing the splits or from horseback riding so it didnt really hurt that bad for me.
If it does hurt than try switching positions.
Girl on top is a good nonpainful one..
Hope I helped.
If you have anymore questions then just ask.
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Q: ok i dont know what sex, blow jobs, vagina, and cum and sperm is but i do know what a pnis is ... so tell me what it is please and also what is a dildo? what is a condom? what is a vibrater? what is a breast? and last but not least... i know what hormones r and all but i am sorta confused... i know i am ready for sex so don't tell me i am not or i will hate you i am horny and my friend says i need sex
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OMG, are you serious?
If you havent got it through your head im gonna tell you again. YOUR NOT READY FOR SEX. You might want it, but you are farrr from ready!
wtf are you 12?
You cant even spell PENIS.
&& since you know what a penis is im guessing your a guy..
The girl below me explained everything very well.
She only missed the blow job.
A blow job is oral sex.
it's where a girl would suck your dick and make you cum..
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Q: For females:
Are you supposed to shave your bikini area?
I can't afford a bikini wax but when I shave I get stubble and all that. Plus,when you shave yourself you can't really get DOWN UNDER. Do you even have to shave at all? Help!!!
For Males:
Is a hairy or clean shaven vagina more attractive?
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Well I shave; when you start getting stubble just shave it again.
&& you can 'down under' its just a little more difficult.
I would recommend not having any hair because I think its more attractive and most guys agree.
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Q: i need some good tips on how to give an amazing blowjob. like i want it to be absolutly amazing! thnx
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Ok so first you need to buy some popsicles and practice.
Your gonna be practicing to deep throat and not hitting your teeth.
That with help with giving an amazing blowjob.
So once you have the basics ( not biting and going deep) you will be ready to give this bj.
So when your hanging out with your man you should take control and get on top of him and start making out.
Grind on him alot while making out. Once you feel that hes hard you should move you hand down to his dick...
Undo his belt and take off the pants.
Then start going down on him.
You should get into a postion that you are comfy cuz your gonna be there for a bit.
My favorite is just beween his legs..
So you should start by looking his directly in the eye with this look like 'damn your gonna taste so good' and lick his shaft from the bottom up. Then put your his dick in your mouth. And start moving up and down (kinda like bobbing). You should take your right hand and grab his dick at the bottom with a kinda tight grip and with your left you should massage his balls but still bobbing at the same time.
Then you can spice it up and put his balls in your mouth and move them around while giving him a handjob. && another thing you can do is move your tounge around right on the head.
And when hes gonna cum make sure you keep going and SWALLOW!
I hope I helped.
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Q: okay so I like this guy I'm 15/f and ill be 16 in october he just turned 20 june and I realllyy like him I'm pretty sure he likes me but I'm not positive but we have been talking a lot lately and I have sent him pictures of me but I'm fully clothed. we have talked about doing stuff and we are going to hangout. I am a virgin and I want to loose it to him I'm pretty sure he will take it. anyway is that considered statitory rape if I'm 16? I really like him and he likes me he said he wouldn't date me until I'm 18 because he cares about me and we don't want to get introuble I want to be withhim bad but do you also think he's using me? thank you for reading and thank you for responding
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To answer your first question depending on the state you live in it wouldnt be rape.
But hun my heart goes out to you.
Please dont have sex with him.
He's using you.
I know you dont want to hear this.
I know you want to believe that he really cares about you and likes you alot but thats not true.
Wanna know how I know?
Well because last year at the end of school I met this guy and he had just graduated. I was 14.
We exchanged numbers and started talking.
Then one night he was like we should hangout and me being young and stupid agreed.
From then on until 6/13/07 we hungout and talked.
Then on 6/13 we had sex.
we continued to have sex until 10/30/07
Then his bi polarness came out and he got really mad and screamed at me the next day.
From then on we stopped talking and now recently we kinda randomly talk.
&& since I had sex with him I have lots of feelings for him.
I still want to be with him.
I never thought I would be like this last year; I told myself I wouldnt be attached.
But you really do become attached..
Im sorry sweetie.
But please talk my advice and save your heart.
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Q: is anal sex unhealthy? i heard it tears the skin around your rectum and can cause internal bleeding. have any of you girls even tried anal sex? and why do boys want to do it so much but girls dont?
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It's not unhealthy.
Yeah its not like a vagina where it goes back to like regular size. It stretches and doesnt go back so if you do it alot your gonna have a huge asshole. Yeah done it; it hurts.
Guys what it because its tighter than your vagina... && girls dont want it cuz it hurts like a bitch.
Hope I helped.
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Q: hi, im just curious about swallowing cum. is it healthy or harmful in any way? have any of you girls even swallowed? any info would be great!
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No, nothing is harmful.
The only bad thing is its 5 calories.
&& well you might not like the taste but personally i love it..
Um yeah I swallow everytime.
Try it; your guy will thank you for it!
Have fun!!
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Q: so my boyfriend had been trying everthing to get me to orgasm, but I seem like I can't. He had fingered me, eatin me out, has had sex with me nothing happens. I get close but it goes away. I want to have a orgasm so bad and better yet cum...can anyone give me advise or help on what to do. I will rate!
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Have him buy a vibrating ring.
Then that night or something start by making out and just alot of foreplay until you are so wet and you want it so badly! Then have him put on the vibrating ring (oh you should be on birth control so he doesnt need a condom cuz it feels much better without it) and have sex and make sure while having sex he kisses you all over and sucks your tits =]
but the thing that will make you cum and orgasm is the vibrating ring. It massages your clit and feels amazing. The first time I came while having sex was because of that amazing ring.
Have fun!
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Q: okay so i really want to be fingered im old enough and i have a boy friend but i have some questions ive been felt up givin him a handjob and of couse made out
do i need to shave right my vagina before so its smooth?
do i take my pants off or do they just go down?
and what do i do like while hes fingering me??
please answer me quick!!
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Well its your choice if you want to shave or not.. I preferably would shave.
Doesnt matter if your pants are off or down; he can do it any way.
Well if you like being fingered then let him know.. Moan, talk dirty, grab his hair, just do whatever you feel like.
Just have fun and go with it.
Good luck.
xoxo
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Q: ohk so i was just wondering if people could tell me some things to expect or to not expect the first time you have sex, personal stories would be helpful but i would really just like to know generally is normal and what isn't normal to happen the first time, thanks in advance, i'll rate : )
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Hello Darling.
Ok so the first time, eh..
I'll just tell you my story and then go from there.
Ok so im 15 now but I lost my virginity on 6/13/07 so that would make me 14...
I only knew the guy for about a month and a half...
He was 18..
I should of knew better.
Before him I had done nothing but as soon as I met him my life like changed..
Ok so leading up the the 13th we had hungout and just went in like complete order...
First we made out then he fingered me and then I gave him a handjob then I gave him a blow job then he ate me up then we had sex (not all in one night, that was like weeks)..
So the night before I lost my virginity we were talking on the phone and the time before that we were gonna hangout but no condom so anyways we are on the phone and hes like we should hangout tomorrow and you should dress up like a school girl, of course I say yes...
KK so its the night or whatever and yeah I dressed up like a lil school girl... I put on a plaid mini skirt, long socks, heels, and a like cover up thats tied up and it shows like my stomach and everything... So he picks me up and hes like shocked that I actually dressed up. Ha, so were just cruising around we go to our spot.. Well hes driving like someones car cuz of backseat space and he usually drives an Auti TT but yeah so were in backseat and then we get naked and the first position is like my legs above his shoulders or whatever and yeah that wasn't the best first position so then I get on top of him and omg, it so much easier and lot more pleasurable...
So yeah that was my first time but I suggest you do it with someone that loves you and you love because I didnt think it would matter if I had sex with him but after we did or whatever I got like attached and he just used me as a booty call..
Yeah so if you learned anything out of that, I hope it helps =]
Good luck.
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Q: Ok so I am planning on having sex with my friend and I'm a virgin. I am not on birth control (and there is no way I can get it so don't tell me I should). I need some good tips on how to not get pregnant. We will be using a condom of course but is that enough? Should he where 2 in case one pops? Anthing is good. I can't wind up pregnant or my parents will kill me (don't tell me not to do it either because I already made up my mind). Also, if you still haven't figured it out yet, I am a complete virgin. He isn't and I want this to be great for him (don't tell me to get ourselves checked either). How do I make it last and feel good (and by that I mean both of us having an orgasm) because I have heard that the first time usually hurts.
THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE THAT CAN HELP. AND PLEASE HURRY BECAUSE THIS COULD HAPPEN AT ANY TIME.
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Hey sweetie..
Ok first, dont wear 2 condoms!!
That would not be good.
Just one.
And dont worry im pretty sure hes stoked that hes gonna be having sex with a virgin.
Well just like start off by making out and then let him finger you some and then give him a blow job but dont let him cum just tease him a little and then give him a striptease and then start having sex and start off with missionary (which is just him on top) because you dont have to do that much work and you can tell him what to do - or if you want to be in control then get on top of him, most guys love that..
And no the first time doesnt really hurt..
Just as long as you are ready for it and you want it..
Yeah make sure your really wet.
And have fun.
Dont try to be all sexy and act like a porn star because its alot hotter if a girl is having fun with it.
And best of luck.
And dont try to worry about getting pregnant.
You have a very slim chance.
Anyways, again good luck.
Have fun.
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Q: everytime im close to giving my boyfriend a hj or bj i get really nervous cuz i dont no how or i feel like im gonna go something wrong or stupid...any advice on what to do about this??
thankss!
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Ok your man wont think anything your doing like that is wrong.
Nothing will go bad unless your bite him or hit your teeth. To give bjs you should buy a popsicle and suck on that cuz then when your teeth you will learn its bad cuz your teeth will get cold and then you can learn to deep throat buy trying to eat all the popsicle and like handjobs are easy if you want some help just be ask him how he does it && learn from that. Hope I helped. Oh and when you give a bj make sure you swallow! =]
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Q: People keep judging me because I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. And since it is high school, everyone always questions or assumes that we had sex. So, how was it for you when you first told people or it got out? Did your friends or people treat you differently?
We did have sex. And we still do, some people found out because the boyfriend thought it was okay to imply it.. and give them ideas. So now I've got an old friend [that i dont talk to or see anymore] who is always "Don't have sex with her, or I'll cut your dick off" or "Wear a condom!" towards my boyfriend at his school and it's really annoying. I didn't tell her anything, it's just she always acts superior because when she was 14.. she did it.. all, you know? I'm almost 17 and I haven't done drugs.. she keeps treating me like a child when she's a year younger than me and she implies that i'm not responsible. What do I say to her without coming off as rude? She makes it seem it's okay for herself to sleep around but when it comes to me, only having sex with one guy.. it's HORRIBLE!
also, another bit about sex.. i kind of want to stop having sex for a while.. but i'm not sure how to tell my boyfriend that. I'm sure he will get a bit hurt about it.. and I'll like some ideas of what else we could do.. nonsexual ..? we are going to bake something, but not any time soon. i'm not sure what else we could do for now.. watching movies is getting old and we are broke.
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Ok so people started finding out that Im not a virgin by the guys friends (which are older)
and I just told very selected people. But his friends had started saying shit and he got mad at me and ect.
So people will maybe call you a slut but probably not depending how old and how long you have been dating. And for your friend she is trying to care for you but you should tell her that you know what you are doing and that you appreciate her but that you are responsible. And for not having sex he wont like that idea but it is always but to the girl so remember that.
Best of Luck
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Hii. My name is Nicole Danielle.
I have a fucked up life.
I have been through alot and I hope I can help you with any of your problems because I have probably been through them also. If you have any questions/comments let me know. :D
I dont want too get to personal because I tend to do that too quickly.
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Gender: Female Location: Minnesota Age: 16 Member Since: November 20, 2007 Answers: 50 Last Update: November 18, 2008 Visitors: 3761
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