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Q: will god forgive me and will I still go to heaven when I follow through with what I'm about to do. I figure if I'm going to loose everything I'm going to loose it on my terms. I am going to jail for driving under suspennsion and I,m on disability and I'll loose everything I'm already living my life in a wheelchair from a motorcycle accident. I already have my mind made up
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I don't see how I can help you, you have already made up your mind. Just keep in mind that there's always a way, there's always something more you can do to solve your problems. I bet there's someone in your life who cares about you and who would help you somehow. Suicide might seem like ''an easy way'' to put an end to your problems, but it's never a solution in my opinion.
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Q: I am a male who loves crossdressing and have been doing this since I was a teenager. I date both males and females however I found out early in life that there are men who consider someone like myself to be exotic. I think mainly it is because I pass well as a female. Nearly 100 percent of the men I date are really just looking for oral which is no problem with me. Talking with a friend the other day and she suggested that if I am giving oral sex to this many men why not just make money doing it. I decided to take her advice and give hooking a try, maybe for a day or two to see if I can do this long term. I understand the danger and health risks but basically it is what I do anyway minus the money. I am looking for both pro and con advice. Also hope to here from someone else that worked or works in this profession.
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I think it's great that you are thinking about making money doing this. But, of course, take into account the risks involved in this kind of profession. Whether you take care of yourself or not. Remember the rapists, I know I 'm being a little dramatic about this, but I'm telling you this because it's the truth. Haven't you thought about drag shows or something like that though? I just love this kinda shows and I think men portray femininity better than women. Hope I helped you a little!:)
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Q: I have really wanted to give my husband a blow job in a public place for a long time. I have blown him while he is driving many times and I do love that but want to do something different. I love giving blow jobs and swallowing so that is not a problem. Any suggestion on a public but not too public place?
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Totally agree with solidadvice4rteens. It's absolutely irresponsible.
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Q: it z been 6 months nw.. We were in a pure realationship. I hv fingered her.she had given handjobs to me. But i want to lick her out. But she is telling it is a sin according to da religion..
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Well,then sex would be a mortal sin. And what about a blowjob?Is that a sin too? Then,we're all sinners. Get rid of all those religious ties when thinking about having sex and enjoy:)
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Q: why do people like anal, i get they like what they like. but wouldnt it hurt and people say they like it more then vaiganal sex. why is that?
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Because of the 'sphincter musles',full of nerve endings which give a painful sensation when something is pressing them,and which can be quite dangerous at the same time if you injure them,the thing is that some people like that sensation because once the anus is dilated,it starts to feel pleasant.So enjoy if people ask you that,all the same,taking into account what I have just told you would be sensible,since some people have died having anal without having paid attention to the precautions I mentioned.Hope it helps:)
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Q: can i have pregnant if my boy puts his cum on my anus?
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Of course not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Where did you hear such a thing??
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Q: My husband loves having anal, and we've done it once. For me it wasn't very enjoyable I kept feeling like I needed to go to the bathroom. Does it always feel like that or was it because it was my first time?
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You'll always have that sensation,it's natural bc the rectum is not meant to be penetrated,just to be used as an 'expelling apparatus',so it's natural to have these sort of sensations during anal sex,I recommend being very careful bc it's a part of your body controlled by 'sphincter musles',and they are quite sensitive,some people have died having anal sex bc the anus has nerve endings that can cause dead if you injure them,so you have to be very careful when doing this and enjoy,anal sex is my favourite and so is to my boyfriend,men love to put their penises into our anuses,so it's up to us to make it enjoyable as well as secure,hope it helps
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Q: you see im reallly on the edge of commoting suicide (gottin bulllied all my life and by my grandpa as well....btw im only 13) iv been depresssed for a long long time thought and tried hanging myself i dont know what to do anymore i dont wanna die but i dont know what else to do please help i need some one to talk too!or just need some help please!
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I recommend therapy immediately!You are very young and full of opportunities in life,so stop thinking about commiting suicide and get help,none of us can trully help you,in my humblest opinion,the most sensible for you now is a phycologist,think in positive!As for the people who bully you,don't let them get away with it!Defend yourself!
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Q: I'm really in love with my bf(21 and im 20). we have been dating 3 years off and on. but are long distance.
since weve been so off and on i feel like i cant trust him. i dont mean with other people. hes never been with anyone else. i just mean with him going away for weeks without hearing from him.
recently i left town again and told him i really didnt want to be used and was nervous about having sex if i wasnt gonna hear from him. he assured me that he was so in love with me and would make the distance easier.
Its been 3 days now that i havent heard from him..i know eventually i will hear from him but this is such a tough time in my life that i really wish i would hear from him sooner. (he doesnt have a phone)
Ive been feeling really lonely lately and feeling like if i dont find someone who treats me better i will always feel this way. but i cant move on because i want so badly to be with him i almost always put up with it.
Im just kind of wondering if anyone else had a similar situation: where they feel like the person they are with isnt fully there? they feel like theres nothing they can really do cause the pain of walking away is so hard? and if they lose them then everything will be lost? :/ I know this is super depressing. but im just trying to be honest so i can get some good advice :[ thanks for your guys time!
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How come he doesn't have a phone!!!!!:O,HOW CAN YOU LIVE LIKE THIS?I have a boyfriend who lives in the same town I live and we cannot be in peace if we're not comunicated all the time!I couldn't keep my relationship if we didn't have the essential comunication,so have him get one or give him one as a present,as for the distant issue,I'd suggest that you try to find the way to handle with it 'cuz there's nothing you can do about it,if you love him you're gonna have to accept all the 'consecuences' of it,I mean,the difficult things to deal with when you are in love with somebody,for example my boyfriend works the whole day and I have to cope with it even though I don't like it,so get him a phone,try to build confidence which is the hardest thing in a relationship and enjoy being in love with each other bc at last it is worth it when there's true love!!!and it's not depressing what you wrote,it's a reality that most people in love have to deal with every day:)
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Q: So I'm 13 and so is this guy I like he is also 13.he touches me every where my boobs my pussy and my butt.he says that he would fuck me any time any where and any place.he does this all in class. He has also gotten hard right in front of my face in front of class.he said that he wants to fuck me and that if I don't have sex with him that he would rape me in the end of the school year before we go to high school.Well he just makes me so horny that I just wanna have sex with him ?what should I do,he makes me get wet and makes me get on top of his body.whatshould I do ? Should I just lose it already?
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Listen kiddo,this is not a site to treat sexual dissorders,you are just a kid,so is this little baby you are talking about,he cannot have sex with anybody yet,coz he's a baby,I can see you're the same girl asking about whether you are sick or not,I don't think you are sick,you are just playing with something you know nothing about,so stop asking about these things,stop writing about rape as if it was something to get horny at.Talk this over with a therapist,because it's neither funny nor normal
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Q: I've been considering it the past seven years... I attempted once out of all that time and got saved at the hospital. Well, I really want to do it... end my life. When I look in the mirror, I'm not satisfied with what I see. I don't have anyone in my life. I barely have money. Question is... will God forgive me if I ended my life today?
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Well,I'm a catholic person and I've always been taught that God does not forgive any of his children if they decide to commit suicide,think about it,so in answer to your question,no,definitely not,He won't forgive you no matter what your reason/s are to do so.
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Q: excuse me but it seems your missing the point take me for example i commited armed robberie, street robberie and unfortunatly when i was drunk i attempted to rape my own sister my mum and dad has been together for 18years and she started goin out with a guy.....geuss what?......she met him online gaming so that is pretty fucked up so my dad kicked off my mum kicked him out then 1month later she kicked me out so my dad didnt want me even though i stood by him...AND GUESS WHAT??!! im currently 16 years of age and im currently awaiting my court dat for the attemted rape on my sister which my lawyer said im definitly goin to prison so basically.......i have a fucked up life and i tried to kill myself last week by cutting my wrists i wouldve succeded if my social worker didnt come downstairs for a drink so there he his in the doorway looking at me on the with ALOT of blood so 2days ago left hospital im currently of thinking climbing the big ben (the clock tower in london) and jumping off so i hope my story im telling you wasnt a waste of time as your the only person ive told in my life....do me a favour....whenever you see anyone that needs help just help them in anyway you can oh also my names david
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David,look nobody in the planet is going to prevent you from killing yourself,if you want to do that just do it,but let me tell you that if you actually want to continue living, what you have to do is the correct thing; I mean you do need to go to prision and pay for what you've done,later on,you can put yourself together and get a job,get a life, be someone in life. You know something?I used to feel the same way you do,I would want to kill myself when I was younger but I found a reason to carry on with my life,'cause I reckon that's one of the main reasons why some people want to commit suicide,because they have no reasons to live,they have nothing to do,so reconsider what you are thinking right now.
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Q: Hi my name is Sarah. I am really clever at school but now i have just started high school and i failed one of my tests so i took 20 ttablets but it did nothing and it created more problems for me. So i am thinking of taking tablets again shoud i.
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Is this some kind of a joke?Just because you failed a test?What if you lost one of your relatives?like I did a few months ago?I really felt like dying 'cause she was like my second mum,and didn't care either if I failed a test or not.Do you think that that is reason enough to put an end to your life?really,I don't believe it...
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Q: I know this is really long but please give me chance, I've literally like hit rock bottom
I've been addicted since I was about 8 or 9 years old. I'm 18 now. I've basically grown up on the internet. It's caused me to miss a lot of things most kids do I guess, like socially, and as a result of that my social skills aren't the best. it's easy for me to make friends on the internet, but in real life for some reason i'm unable to keep friends.. like we meet and things are great as we start to get to know each other, and then they stop wanting to really hang out with me. it's happened so many times. i'm not bad, boring, or etc. i'm just socially awkward, and it just hurts when people do that. but I don't know, i never ask people to hang out (especially at my house) cause the idea of it freaks me out and I don't know what to do and i overplan and stuff. and it's even worse cause it's affected my grades negatively. yeah i know a bunch of stuff from the internet, and in many ways it's improved my knowledge, but through doing this, i procrastinate heavily. the stresses of teenage life have just made the procrasination worse as i try to hide from all my problems on the internet, to be happy. and when i cant access the computer (in my house, not like away from home) it drives me kind of crazy. my mom wants to start limiting access to the computer but it's too late, it just drives me crazy, i can't take the stress of that and the stress of real life because then i have no outlet for my stress and it just, ugh. i wish i was better at maintaining relationships, and i wish i wasn't afraid of intimacy, and potentially getting hurt. but at the same time i dont want to give up the internet completely, i just want to have power over my use of it, like i could spend all day online (just did today) and you know, it's just pathetic. i havent even applied to any college cause i didnt think any college would want me. i only did a few clubs throughout high school, and i had time to do many others but didnt for some reason. im now a senior and i just have to fix this up. this isnt how i imagined myself to be. i want to get up to my PhD and make a difference in the world. how can i not have applied anywhere? its so embarassing. i dont even talk about this to anyone cause i feel like nobody would want to be my friend any better when they realize all the faults i've caused in my life. i've been so self destructive. some days i just feel like tearing myself apart and burying myself in a hole and putting it in fire,cause i've done so many bad things and i dont know how to recover. i'm a perfectionist and an idealist and i join clubs and then i fail at them (by not doing the work) and then the teacher hates me and then i just feel so shameful I just avoid them (this has happened twice), and same with 2 of my hard classes. it's not like i cant do the work. im actually very smart and do very well when i really focus, but i just waste so much time online and it's only gotten worse these past 2 years when i moved to a new town and it's even harder to make friends. i literally have no friends in my grade, only acquaintances. the only 'friends' i have are freshmen, and im a senior. it's so embarassing. i have never even been to a high school dance cause of the anxiety. i cant even go at my new school cause who would i even hang out with? i have a crush on a guy but ive never been in anything close to a relationship so that just freaks me out, because i get the feeling he likes me back, but would he still like me if he knew the real me, since i hide so much of my pain from others? pain i've caused myself.. why did I join those clubs and pick the hardest classes if I wasnt going to put in all the work? its like i see myself differently from what i've been achieving lately. it's so lazy and it's just been a mess. and idk what to do cause my parents dont understand at all cause they didn't grow up in america and etc with internet too, so they cant relate at all.my mom just makes everything worse.o h my god she just like drives to piss me off sometimes, and she somehow thinks its helping. like things got so bad that i didnt clean my room for like 5 months and it was crazy messy. i just get myself to do anything, i was mentally blocked. im not suicidal but i've thought about suicide and its never the right answer cause i'm religious and i dont want to go to hell, or give up on life. i want to become better but idk how cause it feels like it's too late cause im graduating in a couple months (if i can even graduate cause of how i've f***ed things up. i have to do a MOUNTAIN of make up work. even worse than last year, and i thought i'd get better over the summer, and drop this nasty habit, but no) and i just feel like a giant failure cause i was supposed to have fun in high school and go to parties, be with friends, etc but no I just screwed everything and I just resort to the internet for a semblance of solace. i spend a lot of my time listening to music, on forums, etc. so much time on music, god, music is like my best friend, but that's just not ok. please help
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I can see you can relate to others really well through the internet,this is a conversation you should be having with a friend face to face,give your computer away,go out!face life!the world is out there outside!!there's no reason to be scared of!You are so young and full of possibilities in life,are you in a wheel chair?(not to say I don't respect the disabled,please don't get me wrong)you have a lot of skills!take advantage o your computer skills,study something related to computers,I don't know,but don't make it your best friend 'cause it won't please you in everything as people would do.Start making friends,it's not that difficult,do you smell or something?do you bite?come on!!go for it!and talk to your new crush!!Hon,don't expect others to do things for you,cause nobody will,as the saying goes'The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence'If you feel anxiety all the time when you are not on the web,then maybe you should talk with a therapist,there's nothing wrong with that,I myself have a shrink and she helps me a lot,they're maybe withdrawal symptons,don't do this anymore,you are worth it;)
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Q: Do Women Enjoy Anal Sex ?
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And what did you think??????OF COURSE!!!!!!!!!!
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Q: I was wondering what the best method of suicide would be to cause the least amount of trauma to my family and whoever finds me.
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Well,it'd be really important not to be found,if you really wanna do this,try to be found by the police or passers by,but not by any of your family members,I've thought about doing the same but I guess I never had the guts to try it,anyway,I don't wanna say'please don't do this!'cause nobody but the ones who suffer know what it's like to be deppresed and to feel like putting an end to everything,so I hate to use the cliche,but I guess I've found the ways to stay calmer,and pleased with what I have,with who I am,so if you try to do the same,then maybe you won't ever think about this anymore.Sleep on it...I'd like you to keep on touch with me so as to see if we can help each other..
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Q: If he goes in your anus, won't some bowel be on the condom?
If he puts it in your butt and he goes deep in, is there a chance that you might bowel a little like when you do an enema?
If he is going to go from your vag to your anus, does he have to switch condoms and then switch back to go back in your vag, so as to avoid fecal matter infections in your vagina and infections in his penis?
Let's say normally he fingers you and then puts his finger in your mouth, if he fingers your butt, wont he have to wash his hands before he puts his finger in your mouth or vag? Or perhaps use a finger condom when he is ready to stick in your anus?
Thank you.
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Well,I love anal sex,look,it's always sensible to be extremely higienic when having anal sex,'cause it's not meant to be,so you and your man have to be very responsible,men are usually quite careless when it comes to sex and just think everything's okay,so if your man is not aware of this,and does not wash his hands after fingering you either your vag or butt,let him know,it's very important to pay attention to this.My boyfriend got a strange rash in his penis once,so we had to start being a little more careful from then on,hope I've helped
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Q: I live in Pakistan in a joint family . I have basically no education as in our society we are forced to marry young . I'm only 22 and have 2 kids . A three year old and a five month year old . I l can't live like this any longer . I'm not allowed to decide anything about my life or my kids lives for example what
I want them to wear . I live with a verbally abusive man and my parents will not support me for a divorce . I'm ready to leave my children but I can't earn as I have no education . If suicide is not a good option then what can u do . There are no places in Pakistan for someone like me.
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Your English is quite good,by the way.Look you are just too young,almost a teenager I'd say,you don't have to commit suicide in order to solve anything,dead doesn't put an end to any hardship but to life.Can you not leave that country for good?Take your kids with you,give them education,they will help you too eventually,no,don't kill yourself,it won't solve anything,could you tell me something more about you??kiss:)
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Q: Every time talk to my boyfriend he always gets a boner even I'm not talking about sex?
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Sure you are just talking when that happens?Have you already had sex?My god that boy's desperate!,men think better once you have given them what they desperately need:)
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Don't follow any advice,no matter how good,until you feel as deeply in your spirit as you think in your mind that the counsel is wise...Take it easy...but take it!! My aim here is to give good advice,not gentle words,but what I think is best for you to do;)
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Occupation: student Age: 27 Member Since: March 20, 2012 Answers: 166 Last Update: June 21, 2015 Visitors: 12725
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