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commiting suicide
you see im reallly on the edge of commoting suicide (gottin bulllied all my life and by my grandpa as well....btw im only 13) iv been depresssed for a long long time thought and tried hanging myself i dont know what to do anymore i dont wanna die but i dont know what else to do please help i need some one to talk too!or just need some help please!
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The answer to your problem is not sucidice it is revenage.
Belive me I am 62 years old and know bullying real well. First of all find something that you like and are good at. For me it was computers. The thing is No one can be good at everything.
Bullies are usually not the smartest people in the world. You can be if you set your mind to it. You need to be your own best friend. You are safe and free to do what you want,when you are alone. Though I have to admit I enjoy being able to walk into a room and show off my skills to my brother who thinks he knows everything but knows nothing.
If you want to talk my address is ellenrabau@yahoo.com.
Being a teenager is hard. Some kids never grow-up. I'll pray you will.
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I am 13 too and although I don't really get bullied, I understand your situation. I've seen people get bullied before and it's horrible. But just know this: suicide is NOT an option. We are both SO young and have barely started living life! When people bully you, stay strong and don't let them know that it bothers you. Try to laugh or smile and just walk away. If that doesn't work after a couple of times, then simply tell them " I'm tired of you and your games. I really couldn't care less what you think or say about me. So if you want to continue, okay but if I were you I wouldn't waste my time." Emitt a positive and confident attitude while doing this. Keep your head high. And sometimes, these a**holes don't stop no matter what you say. So in that case, talk to an adult you trust or a psychologist. They can really help. But killing yourself, not something to play around with. Right now, it may seem like that's your only option but picture your life in a few months maybe with NO bullies or anything. Wouldn't it be nice? But by killing yourself, you would never know what could have been. <3 Head high, stay stay strong. I'm praying for you.
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I recommend therapy immediately!You are very young and full of opportunities in life,so stop thinking about commiting suicide and get help,none of us can trully help you,in my humblest opinion,the most sensible for you now is a phycologist,think in positive!As for the people who bully you,don't let them get away with it!Defend yourself!
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You are in a really tough despairing situation right now, which I've been in many many times, so I can relate to that. I know how that feels, but I'm also a living example that it's possible to survive it, and be really happy one day and love life! I know that it sounds so far off, but if you get help for your awful depression, one day you're going to be really happy you chose life. You're only 13, and you have your whole life ahead of you! Right now you're not even living! That's not life! Life is really good, and you deserve to experience that joy! I strongly urge you to get help, and let an adult know if you feel you cannot maintain your own safety. Always live by this motto: the world is a better place because of you! If you're not here, the world will be dark and dreary, because all that awesomeness you could've contributed won't be here, and no one will be able to replace you. It's not your fault that you're depressed, but unfortunately, you have to deal with all that. It's impossible to deal with it alone! No matter how strong you are! Try avoiding stressful situations by getting out there, going to the park, library, or volunteering for your community. Another thing you should know is that bullies are very weak insecure people, who are trying to bring others down because of that. But don't let them! Stand up for yourself! It takes a lot of hard work, but it's worth it. I was bullied a lot in school, and never stood up for myself, because I was afraid. That's probably a big reason I became so depressed. Today, whenever a bully tries to bring me down, I give him a piece of my mind, and he's speechless! Show those bullies the tough side of you! You're an amazing person with so much potential! Fight to reclaim your place in the world, at the very top! That's where you belong! Good luck! I hope you feel better soon :)
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