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Hey i feel so embarrassed here but i really need your help... i am 19 years old 20 in December and i cant have sex...i have a boyfriend that is really understanding and helpful we are together nearly one year but i don't expect him to stay around and wait for me. Last year i was diagnosed with P.O.F(Premature Ovarian Failure). I feel that i am not normal but i really do try to have sex. The pain is unreal when we are about to have sex. I get totally embarrassed and just turn away i dont know what to do?
When i was 16 years of age i was forced to have sex with two older men. I am wondering could this be affecting me now??? I am to afraid to mention this to my doctor.
Please say you can give me a 'cure' i am cracking up now.
Thanks so much for reading this. XxX (link)
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Yes you deffinitly need to talk to your doctor about this although you might not want to but he could have a way of letting you be able to have sex if he knows whats going on. It obviously affected you mentally and physically as well. So if you really want to have sex with your boyfriend I would talk to your doctor about what happened in your past. Or maybe a psychologist could help.
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My parents snooped through my stuff. they said that i hadnt been acting myself, and yes, i wasnt. i was really depressed and i had written some suicide letters. well... they found them.
they took me to the hospital for a mental health evaluation and now i have to go to a cousler. I dont tell my parents anything so why would they expect me to tell a total stranger whats going on in my life? I dont know whether i should open up. or if I should just keep my business to myself. Any adive on coping with depression would be nice. and answeing my question is greatly appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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If your dealing with depressing and wont talk to your parents or a counsler I think you need to talk to your friends. Belive it or not friends may you know you better than you think. Just open up to them and if there you true friends they wont judge you. If you really having problems with this depression thing you really need to talk to someone who knows you and understands you.
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what happens if you take a bottle of aspirin? cause i was reading suicide stories, and one girl said "i was going to take a bottle of aspirin."
what wouldv'e happened if she did?
and yes i like to read stories, all kinds, there so sad, but good to read.
thanks a bunch (link)
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she would probably pass out..possibly die.
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what are ways to really "get a guy going" sexually just turn him on completely. and also what are tips to make giving him head really pleasing to him...thanks!! (link)
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put your hand on his leg close to his ya know..but pretend your not meaning to or your not noticing it
you can also put you hand on his shoulder and whisper sexy things into his ear.
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does anyone know any excuses that i could tell my parents when i come home with a hickey? they would kill me if they knew but i dont know what to tell them if they see it.. help! (link)
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bug bite. itch it alot and make it even more red so it looks more like a bug bite.
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Im 15/m
I just shaved my pubic hair (all of it, but not my legs, stomach or chest) because my girlfriend was doing it so we decided to both do it. It was actually pretty easy, it didn't hurt (I have really not sensitive skin, I don't even have to use shaving cream). So it was fine and really smooth for the night after I shaved it, but now it's starting to get stubble and starting to itch. A website said that I can't shave it again for a week, but I don't think I can wait that long, it's really really itchy and it looks really weird with the stubble. Does anyone know what will happen if I shave it again tonight or later on in the week without waiting? Also any other advice to lessen the itch? (link)
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start useing soap and water.when you shave and i dont think anything will happen if you shave again tomorrow. but now that you started shaving whenever it grows back it might itch so you might want to continue shaving and it also grows back alot more.
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i smell like fish "down there" & i dont know what to do. im only 14. HELPPPP. (link)
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just cleanse down there daily. when you wake up, after coming inside from sweating, while in the shower.hope this helped.
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does fingering hurt?
cuz, my bf wants to be finger me.
but i've always been not exactly
scared, but like hesitant.
so is there any pain whatsoever? (link)
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your first time it might hurt just a little but it didnt for me. just tell him to go slow and as he continues your gonna want him to go faster.
enjoy! ;)
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me and my boyfriend are goin to have sex and im goin on the pill and hez gonna use a condom, so what will be the chance of gettin pregnant if we use both?!? (link)
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its a small chance but there is still a risk of getting pregnant but not as big as if you didnt have one of the two. hope i helped
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14/f. My bf is coming to visit me in august and he is also 14 and we were thinking about having sex. and we really want to and he's the kind of guy i could see myself spending the rest of my life with sense we've been dating for about 9 months. But i really dont wanna take the chance of getting pregnant. What should i do? i no we would use a condom. so dont tell me that. Am i too young? i dont think i am but some ppl do. HELP!! (link)
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dont listen to what other people say..do it whenever your ready or when you feel comfortable with it. just dont let him pressure you into. ask your mom for birth control but tell her its because you want it to help your period. im sure shell let you get it. hope i helped
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What's a good way to cleanse yourself down there? My mother always told me vinegar and water, but I read somewhere that that wasn't good for the bacteria that's supposed to be there. I'm just really paranoid of smelling badly. (link)
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shower daily with soap and water. even shower twice a day if needed...like after sweating alot and such. hope i helped
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okay my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him .....i really want ot because i'm 16 sooo what do i do? (link)
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Well I think you already answered yourself by not knowing if your ready or not.If your having second thoughts then I would even think about haveing sex wtih him untill you are 100% sure that you want to.If you do make sure you use a condom!!!
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What is an approiate age to have sex? I'm 15/F but I want to wait until I'm married. Is that the best time? (link)
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There is no right or wrong time to have sex just as long as you feel its the right time and the right person.
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My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help. (link)
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Ok well suicide is NOT the answer!! I know you probably here that alot and you think its stupid and that its the only way you can solve your problems but its NOT!! Im sure no one picks on one person all the time if you dont do anything to make them do it.Im not saying you do,do stuff to get people mad at you.If things get too serious tell a school consolur trust me they can help!!
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I have a friend and he is thinking of suicide..I try talk him out of it,but he won't listen. He has problems in school,family life,relationship problems. I don't want him leaving me. We have been best friends so long!
HELP! (link)
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Just tell him what things he will be missing out on like the future.If he is ever going to have kids and how much you guys are friends.He has other ways to solve this like go to the school counserler because killing yourself is NOT the answer!!
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Fourteen.Female.
so last night before getting into the shower I look and my left breast has what looks to be stretch marks almost all over it [exaggeration]. My right one is perfectly normal.
I thought it was growing or something?
Is it normal? (link)
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They may be stretch marks because there growing and they could just be vains that you see because your boobs may not be fully developed.Hope I helped.
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