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My name is Juliet...I've done a lot in my life, and gone through hell and back many times. Which is why I'm perfect to give advice. I've gone through almost every relationship problem imaginable. Don't be scared to ask me questions. I'm on a lot, and I LOVE having this advice column. So ask away and I'll answer it the best I can. Also, I'm very blunt. If you ask me a question, I'm going to tell you what I think. I do NOT beat around the bush...or sugar coat things.

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My question is my boyfriend and I are. Both virgins and we tried to have sex but it wouldn't go in I was a little embarrassed what do I do?

I'd like to state, that I'm glad it didn't go in. I think, waiting is impotent. You are a rose bud...that has not bloomed yet. And you need to bloom before you're picked.

If YOU feel like you're ready, grab a condom, and go at it. It will hurt at first, and it probably won't be too comfortable, depending on your age as the person below has stated. Honestly it will possibly be completely uncomfortable. Which is no fun. But, one thing you can do, is take a back massager, and put it on your clit. Play around a little bit. Even have an orgasm if you want, and you'll be lubed up yourself.


USE PROTECTION
HOPE THAT HELPS

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12/F well I have a 18 year old boyfriend and he wanted to have sex and I'm to scared that if I say no he won't love me anyway now he's always expecting me to have sex with him and when I don't want to he asks me if I don't love him anymore and he has naked pictures of me and I don't know how he got them what must I do(my mom doesn't know about our relationship)

I have to be frank with you. He doesn't love you. I've been in this situation before, and he left because I wouldn't have sex with him. I never did understand what I did wrong, but now that I'm older I realized that he was a sicko and I have no feelings towards that guy anymore. I don't even know him now. And I'm okay with that. I'm finally happy. I have a nice guy that waited with me. He was a virgin too. We lost our virginities together. I'm now 19 and we're still together. If he loved you, he wouldn't even ask if you wanted to have sex. Really, what you should do is call the police. Because he could have raped you if he wanted to. He's 18 and he obviously didn't care that you were a kid. You're not even a teenager yet.

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Ok so I'm 13 and I have a boyfriend and I had to have sex with random guys in front of him,my boyfriend took videos and stuff and now I must do it everyweek with atleast 5 guys I think I'm pregnant though(no period,nasias,tired ect...)And I'm scared that I am because my mom and dad will kill me and propbably disown me! Please help!

I'm gonna be blunt and straight forward. If you were my child I'd knock you upside the head. You are 13 years old what the heck do you think you're doing. Sex is an adult game. It isn't for children and that's what you are. You should be worried about school and getting through that. You don't want to be a drop out in middle/highschool. You do NOT have to have sex to be with someone. That's rediculous. You need to have more respect for yourself. Just because you tell a guy no, doesn't make you a prude. Your body is still growing and can't handle the sex that you're putting it through. It's very unhealthy. I had my daughter when I was 16 years old, and I've regretted not waiting ever since.

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now has any girl actually gotten an orgasm from straight up penetration? if so is there any way to reach it faster like certain positions or something i just feel like it would take forever and a guy couldnt last haha i just want good sex!!

When I have sex with my boyfriend, concentrate on YOUR body. And only that. Then while he is going in and out, "hump" along with him. It is great!

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OK i know this way off topic from sex but on like a scale of 1-10 10 being the highest can someone rate the amount of pain to get
Eye brow pierced
Lip pierce
Tounge
Nipple
Belly button
Clit
I cant figure out which would have the least anmount of pain cause i hate pain!!
And how tolerbale are you to pain cause im not good with pain Thanks alot

eyebrow 34
lip23
tounge is the least painful
nipple most painful
belly button 45
clit78

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i can't take life. i honestly can't. every morning when i wake up i'll try to think of something good that might happen today, but the truth is it's just another damn day. where i'm still my miserable and lonely self. everything in life is too disappointing. I don't have friends or a boyfriend, well i used to have a "friend" but she always tried really hard to make me feel worse about myself. Just now she even asked my "why?" when after she said that guys stare at her 24/7 and I told her they do the same to me. She's such a hurtful bitch.

Every time i have a date set up w/ someone who is interested in me, HE BREAKS THE FREAKING DATE. So all my relationships end before they really begin. See it's just my luck.


I want to commit suicide but I can't because I'm afraid of the pain.

Please don't say anything like "Oh everyone feels this way sometimes." because i feel this way ALL the time. all the god damn time.


people ignore/exclude me whenever they can. i don't even do anything bad/mean.


and also please don't say "oh honey everything's gonna be okay things will get better!"


because i've already heard that too much.


therapists/counselors don't help me. i've seen too many of them. can i be put to sleep or something? like a dog? is that possible?


what can i do to take life? i just want to die so badly. don't say anything like "oh just pray about everything and it'll be okay." I'm not a christian and i never will be again. i'm agnostic because it's the only true religion.

it's not like i've had any horrible tragedies or anything, but i still am just as miserable as anyone who has had them!


god i want to die. help.

I was like this in 5th grade. No one wanted to be around me, evertime I had a boyfriend, a couple weeks later, we would break up. I had no friends whatsoever. Then I got introduced to msn messenger. I met a bunch of people and they became friends, then Myspace, Aim, blah blah blah. This was during the summer. When I went back to school, I was in 6th grade, I was totally different. I had alot of friends. Now I'm in 8th grade, and I have ALOT of friends. I can always start you off. Here's some urls for you.

www.myspace.com/blessthebrokenroad3397

My msn messenger is brittany025@hotmail.com I can start you off.

Good luck!

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ok me and my boyfriend used this weird condom for girls, it was like a piece of plastic and it went inside of me, he said it was safe and you wait 20 minutes and then it disolves and i never heard of it and he wasnt wearing a condom and i was wondering if you know what it is

A diaphram?

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okay. so im 15. nd my boyfriend wants us to go farther than what we have.. and so do i. but i know like your gonna orgasm and stuff. but i dont know if i'll sound stupid. what do i sayy like when im about to have an orgasm? yeah i know i sound dumb. but i just want to be aware. oh and what are some "techniques" i guess to giving head. does anyone have any suggestions. i'm an only child soo i kinda need advice with this stuff from someone other than my mom. cause i think we could all agree that would be awkward. thanks guys.

Well tink about this. Guys make noises too. And if you are that comfortable to have sex with him, then he shouldn't think you sound stupid. Something else. Guys like it when they hear you moan, because they think it means they are doing a good job. Ever hear of faking it? Lol. If you think you need more than that, just tell me. Remember to wear a condom.

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Hi i'm 16 years old female and me and my boyfriend have had sex before, but afterwards like a few hours I started getting a stomach ache and I slept for a while then ate some food and then later I threw up. I just wanted to know if that sometimes is normal??

Were you on birth control, did you use a condom? If you did neither, then it is possible that you might be pregnant.

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