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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor? (link)
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thats how mine was. 2 or 3 days. now im on the shot and i dont get my period at all...its heaven. lol its not abnormal tho
*jesikuh
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees. (link)
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sex until marriage is not popular these days. people wanna go out and experiment before marriage...dont listen to other poeople and dont get pressured into doing it. do whatever you want doll. do it with some one you FULLY trust and some one your almost positive u wont regret it with. and make sure u kno he wont hit it n quit it:)
*jesikuh
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okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it! (link)
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ehh it prolly wont stay like that forever. especially when u have kids.
*jesikuh
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper? (link)
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no way jose dont sweat it...slim to none chances
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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much! (link)
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i dunno means he liked it lol HE WANTED MORE BABY!
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I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox (link)
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im sure u can, and no that doesnt sound stupid...ur juss not...as expirenced...lol which is good. no one needs to do a lot till their way older =D
*jesikuh
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Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong? (link)
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your juss not ready yet, he shouldnt be pushing you and do what you like to get what he wants
*jesikuh
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ok well.. my boyfriend asked my if we could have mutual oral.. BUT i dont know wut it is!! some1 help me to know wut hes sayyin!! i need to kno!! (link)
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prolly 69...
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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o (link)
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i dont think soo...im guessing u'd have to be over 18 to not let them kno about it
*jesikuh
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If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..?? (link)
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if u dont feel comfortable then dont let him do it...i kno i dont like it when guys do it lol i like dont let them juss cuz im self concious that they'll judge me or think its gross or something, kno what i mean?? but yeah if ur not comfortable, dont do it...dont do anything ur not totally 100% comfortable on!
*jesikuh
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Ok, are you supposed to shave your ahem pubic area? Ive heard you are and you aren't and it's so confusing. Or do you just do it if you're going to have sex? I'd appreciate the help. (link)
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well its not bad or good...its juss for girls who like it to be clean down there...well clean cut...or maybe for their guys...personally i like it ALL GONE! haha nooo hair what-so-ever anywhere on my body cept for my head lol
*jesikuh
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Ive been goin out wit muh b/f for almost 2 weeks now but we knew eachother like 3 weeks before that and we were kinda close before he asked me out. Well a couple nights ago muh friend talked to him on the phone and they got on the subject of sex n all that. Now I am 15 goin on 16 in 3 months and hes 17(senior) goin on 18 at the end of sept.Well they were talkin and now hes really into wantin to do shit. Before we juss chilled n all we did was makeout and still do.I mean hes not pushin me to do anything I dont wanna but I did tell him I would have sex wit him but not now ya know?! But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not. I like him alot and I can see my self bein wit him for sometime now. I have talked to some of my friends that arent virgins and about like when its ur first time n all that. Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin??.. Can someone PLEASEEE gimmie advice worth taking..Thankyou:) (link)
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do NOT have sex until ur 100% sure ur ready. and if ur gonna in the future, make sure its with some one u care about and are sure their not in it juss for the booty...you have to fully trust that person that their not gonna go off and leave u and tell everyone and shit...wait wait wait...and since hes almost 18 if u do do it...dont tell ANYONE cuz he could get in trouble...jailbate major... k? be safe =D
*jesikuh
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i heard my friends talking about camel toes.. what exactly is 1 and how do u kno if u have 1? thanks alot (link)
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haha its when a girls jeans are obviously too high up and tight and it makes ur...womanly parts show andddd kinda sticks out on each side of the seam in ur pants. lol guys can get them too. they have more package than us anyhow =D
*jesikuh
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what does it mean when u get fingered? (link)
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a guys puts his fingers into a girls vagina and...well..uhh...PLAYS AROUND!! haha
*jesikuh
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my penis wont go up. what do i do? (link)
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get viagra? lol i dunno..that sucks...maybe invest in a cock ring. hahahah
*jesikuh
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My boyfriend and I just had sex for the first time..He took my virginity. It was unprotected and Im not sure if he pulled out or not. We were both a little drunk. I dont regret it. Anyway, I was told that you shouldn't have unprotected sex for 15 days after your last period ended. Its only been 10 days. Im a little worried that, well basically, I could become pregnant. Im not sure if the 15 day thing is true. Im going to the health clinic in a couple days to get on birth control and they always give you a pregnancy test. I want to know if I should be worried about this or not and if the 15 day thing is true. Hurry..this has me scared. Thanks. (link)
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its around 14 days after ur first day of ur period is aroudn the time that ur egg drops and u can get pregnant. its when ur ovulating! but uhh i dunno i dont htink u should worry too much tho, ur prolly okay ive had this happen lol
*jesikuh
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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it? (link)
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thats prolly most safe...but i guess its ok if u dont juss not all the time
*jesikuh
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i have no clue where i should have put this. but heres my question... what do they do when you go to get birth control? (link)
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hmm well u might get examened but if u dont want to then they wont...but if they do (ive had one cuz im on the shot, the shot is a dream girls..i have like no period lol =D) but u'll lay on a table and put up ur feet on these stir-ups and then he'll feel ur boobs for lumps (ur prolly young but its standard procedure) and when hes done with that he goes down to wear ur ...womanly parts lol are and he puts this metal thing into you and makes it get bigger and takes a cotton swab and puts it in there to see if u have diseases or anything...and then he puts his finger into u and pushes on ur right left and middle lower stomache to check for uterus or ovarie cancer! and they might draw ur blood to check for more diseases...better safe than sorry! it may sound bad but its actually not, and its under a minute long! its not bad at all..and then he'll give u whatever Birth Control you want...like the pill or the patch or the shot..i like the shot!! after 6 months you dont have a period anymore =D and before that its a pretty light flow, its very nice tho...woo i need to stop lol juss trying to be helpful...:)
*jesikuh
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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried? (link)
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haha nooo..well i dunno haha im never paranoid about it! u shoudlnt be either!! have funn..juss dont make out with dirty guys lol
*jesikuh
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Mods, please don't delete this, this is really important to me...
Okay, this question is kind of personal but i need to know if anyone else experiences this. I'm a 16/f and I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for going on 6 months now, and everytime we're together, no matter what we're doing, if it's sitting at the dinner table talking, or making out under the covers (most of the time it's more intense under the covers) I get really wet.. "down there" and it's to the point where it's kind of embarrassing.. because whenever we get sexual (not nessicarly sex..) he laughs about it, and it makes me feel really self concious.. Does this happen to anyone else?? Is it normal??? Thanks for the help..
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well its not not normal but he shouldnt be laughing at you for something YOUR BODY'S doing...its not like u can say HAY YOU. DOWN THERE. QUIT THAT. lol everytime he does be like ...soo are you trying to make me mad?? thats no good that hes making fun of you, it should go away tho! thats prolly a stage or something, its not totally bad =D
*jesikuh
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