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Okay so here it goes. I had sex with a guy two days after my period ended. We used a condom at first, then for some reason he took it off, but he pulled out. Not too long after that, I got sick (fever, becomming really tired, cough, stuffy nose.) I began running/exercising with my friend and my diet went through different changes. I was also stressed out over a guy problem I was having. I was supposed to get my period around 26-28 days after my previous one but now its been 32 days since I've had it. I know there's a possibility I could be pregnant but with all those other factors I'm trying to stay positive that my period could just be messed up. I got all my usual period signs - breakouts on my face, breasts getting bigger, mood swings. My boobs don't usually get extremly tender but for some reason now they are, which I think could mean im going to get my period soon or otherwise :/ Is it too early to take a pregnancy test and would it be worth me buying one? (they are kind of expensive) Or does it sound like all the other factors are the reason I'm not getting my period? Thanks, 16/f. (link)
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There's really no way to tell besides a pregnancy test. If you went to a free clinic, they could do it for free (if money was a concern). But it's best not to worry because worrying can make you miss a period and trick your body into displaying signs that it's pregnant.
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okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him. (link)
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Even though it obviously makes you feel good to make him feel jealous, you're gonna have to stop because you're giving girls everywhere a bad reputation.
There is no reason that you should get pleasure out of hurting someone you "love" or even "care about". It's just mean and immature.
If you're gonna have a grown up relationship, you're gonna have to grow up.
If you are ready to grow up, and have a mature relationship, you need to apologize to him, and say you're never gonna intentionally hurt him again.
And you need to mean it.
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When my boyfriend gets me aroused, I get terrible nausea and sharp pains. Does anyone have this problem? Or know what causes it? He feels terribly about it, and I just want it to go away. HELP! (link)
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That's weird my girlfriend gets stomachaches after we have rough sex but that's because I have a large penis and hit the top... I don't know why you would have one when you get aroused. Maybe see a doctor, or take some antacid before doing sexual things.
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Can a woman get herpese on her breast? (link)
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You can get herpes anywhere, don't touch a herpes outbreak or you'll get it. It doesn't go away.
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does anyone know what might be wrong if the clitoria in your vagina is browning & looks as though its dying.
i really need help & im scared to go to my mom or a gyno. (link)
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Clitoris in your vagina? The clitoris is outside the vagina, if I remember correctly... I don't really understand but you should probably get over your fear and see a gyno. It is really no big deal for them to see your vagina, it's probably like the 15th vagina they saw that day. They are a specialty of doctor just like the eye doctor, and it isn't weird to let the eye doctor see your eye, is it? If you have a problem with your feet, you go to an orthopedist. If you have a problem with your vagina, GO TO A GYNECOLOGIST.
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okay. my school has alot of guys that think of sex ALL DAY LONG. every school does. well i was wondering why arent they scared? why am i so scared? i want to have sex but way to scared of anything to happen. does it hurt? need help with this! (link)
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It would help to know if you are a boy or girl, and what age, so next time write something like m/15 at the end of your question to help out the advicenators.
Our society is biased when it comes to sex. Boys are encouraged to get with a lot of girls, that is "pimpin", but when a girl gets with a lot of guys it makes her a "slut". It's unfortunate and sexist, but that's how society is. Guys are trained to think that sex is "no big deal".
If you are a girl:
Yes, sex may hurt the first time, but hopefully you'll be with someone who cares about you and tries to make it as painless as possible.
If you are a guy:
It is important that for your first time, you are in a private place, so you won't be worried about people coming in and you'll have an easier time "getting it up".
For both:
It is VERY important to make sure that your first time is with someone you love and trust. Many people will say that sex is "no big deal" or "nothing special", but they just haven't experienced sex with love. It is a million times better. When you give yourself fully to someone, it should be a loving and caring experience, so you aren't treated as an object or toy.
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How long should you wait to have sex after a period is over?
if u have a sex .say a week after.and the condomm popped.and he says he didnt cum inside you.and there was no sign of ejaculation in the condom and its still on the outside.could u be pregnant? (link)
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Condoms break and fall off, and are expensive. I strongly recommend the pill for long term serious sexual relationships where STD's are not an issue (trust).
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hmmmm..im thinking wether or not to have sex with somone i dont really like. but he likes me. what do you think? (link)
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Please don't post jokes on this website it's for people who genuinely need help and by doing that, you make it harder for everyone who is on here seriously to get the advice they require.
If you don't like him don't have sex with him.
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About 5 days ago, my boyfriend and I had sex. We used a condom, but when we were finished, we noticed it had slipped off and was still inside of me. I immediately pulled it out of me but my boyfriend says it was empty. And I know my boyfriend ejaculated, he said he did. However, I've been on birth control for about 2 years and I also took an emergency contraceptive, "the morning after pill" about 4 hours after we had sex. The pill I took was called Plan B and required me to take 2 pills. One immediately, and one 12 hours later, which I did. Lately, I have been feeling extremely nervous and hungry, even after I have just eaten my stomach feels empty again. Also, my heart beats appears to be beating faster lately. I am not supposed to get my period for another 2 and a half weeks either, so I cannot take a pregnancy test any time soon. But my question is, how likely is it that I am pregnant? The condom also had spermicide on it by the way. Please help! I'm 17/f. (link)
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Is this a joke? You've been on birth control for 2 years! That lowers the chances to 0.1%. Then plan b lowers it to 5% of that which is 0.005%. The spermicide lowers it to 10% of that so 0.0005%. And then a condom lowers it to 4% of that so it would be 0.0000125%. That's like one in a million. Since this has basically been a list of birth control options, I feel like this question is not serious.
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I was reading an answer to another question and it said according to the bible etc that if you masturbate its seen as a sin. I was just wondering if this was true or false?
Thanks (link)
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I think the asker was looking for a more biblical based answer. In Genesis, in the story of Onan, Onan masturbates so that he will waste his "seed" (sperm) and not impregnate his brother's wife. G-d sees this as a sin and therefore punishes Onan by killing him. That is why, biblically, masturbation may be seen as a sin. Although, it is a completely personal decision, and the modern interpretation is that he wasn't masturbating, but rather pulling out before ejaculation (withdrawal method), so it's your call.
P.S. The bible says nothing about female masturbation (or female homosexuality for that matter).
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I know there are different ways for a doctor to take a pregnancy test. I also know the most common are blood or urine.
My question is, what is the most efficient test there is? I am going to my gynocologist next week and he will probably give me a test when i tell him that i haven't had my period since last november. So, I have to be prepared to answer as to which kind of test i want. Any information would be useful. Which is more efficient, or which will give quicker results, or the one that doesn't come back quicker, how long does it take to get the results?
Thanks guys. (link)
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If it's been that long, he'll probably do an ultrasound, which basically means they look inside your uterus through your stomach. The results are instant because they are looking right at it.
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I need help! Im 13 and all my freinds have gotten there periods but not me. My boobs are big and my sister and my mom got there periods while they were 11. Why am i the only left out one. I read a whole bunch of articals and i predict i will get mine in 6 months minimum. But please help in any way possible! (link)
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When you get your period is more defined by how much pubic hair you have than how big your breasts are.
Don't worry you'll get it soon.
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okay well i got my period on the 13 of december and then after i had sexual relationships with my boy friend and one time we didnt use anything we stopped because i got to scared that something might happen so he didnt cum ore anything but the scary cat i amk i decided to take the pill and on the 1st of january i got my period again in the morning i bled a lot only once and then after i hardly bled anything what does that mean???? i know the pil discontrols your period but i mean why do you think i bled a lot only once in the morning and not that much after???? (link)
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You should wait at least a week after you start taking the pill before he can cum inside you.
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i dont mean to be rude but im kinda not educated in this field so i always wondered how many holes do ladies have.i mean there is the vagina,the ass hole,then what is the clit ,and the g-spot.when i see porn it looks like a girl has 3 holes.thanks in advanced (link)
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Wow that question was a little explicit so to avoid getting banned, I'll try to answer it as scientifically as possible. From the top down there's the clitoris (a small sensitive piece of flesh that when touched or rubbed creates pleasure) which is covered in a flap of skin called the clitoral hood. Then there's the urethra (where urine comes out) and then the vagina (the main "hole" used for sex). The g-spot is a spot inside the vagina about 2 or 3 inches up that also creates pleasure when touched (I don't want to get banned but for advice search google for "how to find the g spot"). Then there's the anus (pretty self explanitory). The mouth is also a hole used for sex (oral).
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I'm incredibly inexperienced.
The farthest I've gone is dry humping
but it's not even to the point of sex with clothes on.
It's just grinding.
I'd like things to move along
but I don't know how to do anything.
Will someone please explain
how to touch a guy with pants on?
Then what do I do
once his pants are off?
Thanks (link)
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A warning to other advicenators, explaining sexual techniques gets you banned. Please search google for "how to give a handjob".
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