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Hello, my name is Mary. I'm a 21 year old student, studying to be a counselor. I'm still young but I feel like I've had enough life experiences to answer any questions you may have. I still have some things to learn, but feel free to ask me anything, don't be shy! I'll answer as soon as possible, and I'll try my best to give you the best advice!

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is there anything you can eat or drink or anything that can make you smell better when you get wet. i mean its not like i stink like nasty like fish or anything, but i just dont like the smell, is there a way to make is smell better. like if my boyfriend were to eat me out or something im scared it will be disgusting just because i dont like the smell. and is there a certain way you can wash down there or shave to make it really smooth and stay smelling and looking nice. cause i get self cautious of myself down there even though i already do wash it and shave it. but if anyone else has any more advice please please please let me know as soon as possible. please and thankyou and by the way im an 18 year old female

Tomatoes make it smell. Pineapple makes it smell good.

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Hi i am 18 years old and my boyfriend and I want to have sex but I am afraid that we might get caught by both of our parents where is the best place to have sex without getting caught

my boyfriend says:
hotel/motel
car
street
garage
shower "pretend you're showering by yourself"

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im almost 16 ive never had a girlfriend im worried
my penis is quite small i dont know if any girl would want to be with me what can i do to make it bigger? will i be able to satisfy a girl?

size isn't what it matters... it's what you do with it. you know there's something that's been tested.. even if you had a one inch penis, it can feel good? LOL... i never tested it, but that's what has been found out, it's not the size the matters. there's nothing you can do to make it bigger though.. you're young.. it'll still grow. (:

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hi i have a big issue not to long a go i had givin head for the first time an im so scared my friends are saying that i can get pregnant from swolling his cum im so scared can u help me ohh an im 13 aN MY NAME IS KALYN

no, you can not get pregnant for swallowing his cum or giving oral. the only way you can get pregnant is that his cum is like, RIGHT at your vagina.

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how bad does it hurt when a girl loses her virginity? is it REALLY painful?
and i also heard that sometimes the girl bleeds, but then some of my friends told me that they didn't...so when do you bleed?
and does it ever hurt the second time?

honestly, i didn't bleed on my first time. the thing is that, girls that bleed the first time is a small percentage. if you don't, it's normal. it wouldn't hurt the first or second time if you're lubricant or if the guy fingers you for a while, so it wouldn't hurt as much. mine, didn't hurt the first or second time. (: hope that helped.

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If your on your period.. and the boy stays inside of you and doesnt pull out can you be pregnant?

we did that about five times on my period.

usually there's a really low chance of getting pregnant, but there's still a chance to get pregnant. so i'd rather say use a condom. lol

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(question for females)

does it really hurt the first time you have sex or do people jsut over exaggerate????

some people are different, just like the person said below me. but if they finger you first before doing it you won't really feel anything. without fingering you and just sticks it in you, yeahh.. it'll hurt, it's just not painful.. it'll just hurt a little bit, but then it'll be over once it's in. :]

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okay so last night i gave this guy a blow job and he didn't skeet? did i do it wrong? and also he fingered me a lot and it hurt so bad and didn't feel good at all .. is this normal?

lol, i think that when most guys get blow jobs... they LIKE it.. or LOVE it. suck at it or not.. it's like as long as you did it.. they're pleased.. hahaha, trust me on this dear.. i think they do. most guys don't skeet when you give them a blow job, you should probably ask him how does he like it. :] and being fingered.. yes it's normal if it hurts.

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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating.

Don't kill yourself every has someone even you even though it dont seem like it right now.

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