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Hey kids, I'm Brittany...one of the many that you'll meet in your lifetime,
but I promise you'll remember me.
I've been through a lot of shit, and I know what I'm talking about. Please...dont hesitate to ask me any questions...I WILL find a way to answer you by any means possible. I want to be able to help people stay out of the situations that I and my friends have gone through. Also feel free to message me on AIM or myspace or something...I'm always willing to talk.
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so ive been with a few guys
and recently, i was with one and i was giving him a hj and he had like this weird thing in the middle of his penis and i didnt know what it was cus i had never seen tht before
uhm, im an idiot i know just tell me what it is please lol
it was probably the vein that runs through the penis. some guys have smaller ones, some are visible and definitely pop out.
Me and my boyfriend was undress or whatever and like he didnt have a condom on but everytime he got his dick in me and it started to get to the thick piecec i kept pushing him out then we would get to the same part again and i will oush him out so how do i get through that problem becasue i really wont this. but it like hurt so whats up hit me up on every details. i'm 14 yrs. old and i'm a female
Well first of all, the wetness you're feeling is pre-ejaculation. Which 50% of the time has sperm in it. So yes, you can easily get pregnant. Even if you're just messing around I suggest you wear a condom and/or go on birth control. Also, it's going to hurt if you're young and a virgin. It hurts for everyone at first, you just have to push through the pain. But yes...you can get pregnant or and kind of STD without using a condom, no matter how deep or shallow he goes in.
Use protection!
im almost 17 and when my girlfriend go to have sex
i cant stay hard for that long and i have trouble getting another erection its really embarrassing
what can i do?
I think it's just because you're nervous about having sex. This happened to one of my best friend's boyfriends once or twice, and they managed once he was relaxed. You just have to make sure you're in an environment where you dont have to worry about being caught, and somewhere you're comfortable being. Dont worry, it's nothing you cant fix.
hope this helped.
16yr female my bf and i went to have sex and
when i rolled a condom on to his penis it broke
same thing happened with another one is there a
ceratin to put a condom on?
Yes, there is a specific way you should put a condom on. First, you have to make sure which side is the right side to roll down. Then pinch the top and make sure there's no air in it, leaving enough room for him to cum. This way it wont pop when he does. Then roll it down all the way to the base. Try handling it the least you can, as the oils in your fingers can break down the condom material.
Hope this helped!
:)
hi, i am 14 and haven't started my period is this a problem and i want to start it all my friends have except me
No, it's not a problem. Your peroid will start depending on the rest of your body's maturity, your weight or height (usually girls that are heavier), and your age. Some of my friends didnt get it until 9th grade. Dont worry, it'll come soon.
i'm a girl and i'm straight. i very much enjoy riding my boyfriend's dick, but i like to watch lesbian porn. i watch porn, not just lesbian, often and get very turned on by it. is something wrong with me?
No, there's nothing wrong with you. You're not a lesbian anything like that. You could be bisexual though. A girl can get turned on by lesbian porn because, I believe, that everyone has a little homosexuality inside them. A womans body is much more appealing that a mans, which is probably another reason why. There's nothing wrong with it, it's perfectly fine as long as you are secure with yourself.
why do guys like bj's so much. what's wrong with a simple hj, its the same thing minus the spit. or does it feel different, i dont know i dont have a dick. someone please tell me why bj's are so much better
Well you're right about the saliva thing, it acts as a lubricant and stimulates the guy more than just your hand. Plus, a handjob can leave a guy raw...and i dont think that feels to good. Plus, it's a thing of power. Some guys like to feel under control, and with you on your knees...well...thats kind of what he's getting. You can also do more with your tongue and mouth that you cant do with your hands.
hope this helped.
What is the most accurate age that girls lose their virginity (in the US)
Ive seen many different answers.
I read in a magazine once, this whole 7 page thing on sex all around the world, and in the US the adverage age was 16.5 I think. But personally, I think it would be lower than that. I lost my virginity close to the end of age 15.
Me and myboyfriend were making out.. getting into it, whatever.. and you know he was kinna out of breath and everything and i felt like... almost a pulsing in his "region". is that normal? what does it mean?
thank you!
It means he was really horny, and hard. An intense make-out session can get a guy pretty excited, and it pulses in his "region" because he was getting hard. It's very normal.
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ok so everyone always talks about how good sex feels. but it sounds so painful to me. i mean i know orgasm that's supposed to feel good and stuff but whats the point in doing everything else if it hurts so much and there are so many risks involved? sorry this might be weird i am just wondering...
Well sex does feel good, it's more than just feeling good. It's one of the greatest things two people can do together. It's a real connection. It's not painful at all, once you get past the 2nd or 3rd time. After that, it feels fine. And there arent many risks if you protect yourself. Condoms are 98% effective if used RIGHT. So is the birth control pill. And now with the EC pill, theres even less of a risk...because if you do slip up and get pregnant accidently, you dont have to go through so much to fix it. And with STD's, you just have to be safe about it. Intelligent people should have sex; stupid people who dont think before they do anything shouldnt. And its not a weird question, it's actually very smart.
I love my bf and I feel like we still have a major connection. We've been going out for about a year and we haven't really done anything. I want him to touch my boobs but I don't want it to go too much farther than that. What should i do?
I'd say that when you're kissing/making out, just take his hand a gently slide it up your body to your chest. I'm SURE he wouldnt mind doing that.
hope this helped!
ok i have two questions.. at what age do most girl lose their virginity and how far have most girls gone by age 14 or 15
i would love as many answers as possible thanks in advance!
It really depends on the person, and how they feel about losing their virginity. I'm 15, and I lost my virginity at this age...some of my friends have as well. But I also know people that did in freshman year of college, or senior/junior year of highschool. It depends on you...and no one else has to know every detail about your personal life. Before I had sex, I had done everything else but oral. Or anal(which god no, id never do). This was around 14 - 15 years.
hope this helped!
When giving a blow job, and then your partner cums in your mouth. Is it normal to feel crappy after that? Is there any way you can get sick from that? Is there a chance to get and STD? Is the cum any good for you and your body? Jus kinda cerious! thanks! :)
Crappy as in how? I know people that have gotten a little queezy after their first time. Its just because you're not used to it. There is always a risk of an STD. I've heard that cum is actually full of vitimans, so can actually help your body.
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okay...I'm seventeen and my girlfriend is sixteen.. two weeks ago my girlfriend and i tried to have sex...(with a condom).. it didn't go to great... we didn't get anything done because she was too tight.. well, a virgin.. we eventually stopped and she got on top of me..(without a condom).. i felt her vagina on my penis, but it didn't go in.. it might have lasted four minutes.. i didn't cum, not even close, but i might have precum.. is there a good chance she could get pregnant?
There is definitely a chance she can get pregnant. Precum only SOMETIMES may have sperm in it, but it's better to be sure about it. Get a home pregnancy test, or just wait to see if she gets her peroid on time.
my name is bre i amd 13. i reallly like this guy. he calls me hott and stufff. and always makes jokes like one time i was laying down and he said, " i am going to be on you in a few seconds" andd he wants to makeout out with me because he told me. and my friend. and me and my friend are going to a movie with him and hid friend saturday and i know something is bound to happen! i dont know how to makeout!!!!!! i am not scared at all i just dont know. i know a million people have asked this question. and i am sorry. Do your instincts really kick in? i sure hope.
love BRii
Yeah, your instincts really do kick in. Some helpful hints: Dont slobber all over his mouth, swallow every now and then if you have to. Dont force your tongue into his mouth, let him show you what he likes. I know some people say to try spelling out the alphabet with your tongue...to get the motions right. If you cant do this, then just go along with what he's doing. Not too fast, or it'll get messy.
Good luck!
how do you give a hickey?
I used to not be able to give a hickey, but i have my own technique. I make my lips in kind of an 'o' shape, and suck until i get a nice piece of skin...you might have to go on for a minute, but just keep sucking it into your mouth. It's supposed to hurt the person a little, so dont be afraid of that.
15/f
Okay, well I have a wonderfull boyfriend who ive been with for a long time. I am a religious girl, and he is also a very religious guy. We have both agreed not to have sex until marrige, but we have talked about it and both agree on the subject of fooling around before marrige (pretty much everything up to sex) In the past couple of weeks I have been getting these urges, like that making out isn't enough for me anymore, but Im scared to go any farther then that. Idk Im like afraid that God will shun me or something. Yes I know we agree on fooling around before marrige, and yes to me it seems okay for everyone but me to do it! I've been reading some of these posts and some people suggest masturbation for these urges, but again, Im afraid of God hating me or something. So basicly I have two questions:
1)Is it wrong to fool around with someone when you aren't married?
2)What kinda stuff can you do, that isn't too extreme?
I used to be religious, and my boyfriend was too. He didnt want to have sex before marriage just because he was raised to think that way. I said that I shouldnt have to sign a piece of paper to be allowed to share something that romantic and intimate with someone I really love. He agreed, and we had sex. Before that, when he was religious, we made out a lot, he fingered me and i gave him handjobs and all. He was kind of shaky about oral sex, since its getting close to having sex. It all depends on how comfortable you are with it. It's definitely not wrong, it just has to do with your morals and outlooks on life.
hope this helped.
okay me and my boyfriend have always had unprotected sex. he had cancer when he was younger and the chemotherpy was supposed to mak him infertile. well i am 15 days late for my period. so last night i went to his house to take the test, but before i did, we ended up having sex again. i took the test and it said i was pregnant. is this just because i had sex 10 minutes before... or it that probably accurate?
i'm freaking out so bad.
i'm 16.
he's 20.
he'd go to jail.
Even if you are pregnant, you dont have to worry so much. Look online for places like Planned Parenthood, and you may be able to get an abortion without your parents knowing. It's strickly confidential. There are hotlines you can call, and places you can go to to figure things out.
Hope this helped.
I was wondering what the chances of pregnancy are in the following scenario:
the male uses a condom and the female has been on birth control for at least 3 years. About halfway through intercourse (well before ejaculation), the first condom breaks. After a few seconds, the male pulls out and uses a new condom. The other condom stays intact. The male also pulled out when ejaculation occured later while using the second condom. The only real worry involves the condom that broke for a few seconds in the middle of intercourse (well before ejaculation). It seems like a very small chance (especially due to the female being on birth control), but was wondering about it to help ease worrying a little, since this has never happened before.
Thanks!
There's no reason to worry about it, expecially because the female was on birth control. My best friend doesnt use condoms at all, and she's on birth control. You'll be fine, expecially because it was in the middle of intercourse, rather than the end.
hope this helped,
Brittany.
:D
Alot of my friends and I really want to know what people think would be too young for oral sex not all the way just oral but yea it's still pretty bad i guess it's just there are so many girls at my highschool even lots of freshmen that have been involved with this kind of activity at almost every party we've been too i hate to say there sluts cause that would mean almost our whole school are sluts. Just guesstimating we would say that at least 75% freshmen girls are sexually involved
Is this normal?
High School kids are always going to be sexually active, it's nothing to freak out about...and it's going to happen to the majority of your school sooner or later. It doesnt make them sluts unless they decide to sleep with the whole football team or something. Personally, I think when you start High School you have the maturity level to take on any sexual expirence, though I do know a few friends that have had sex or something in Middle School...stupidly. It's nothing out of the ordinary...believe me.
hope this helped,
Brittany.
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