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is there anyway to shave down there w/o geting bumps and or irritation, and can you hair removal cream down there.
p.s. i rate all advice high!
Honestly, no. There is no good way haha. I starting shaving when I was about 15 for a year and every time it was painful and it looked awful. The best way is to get a wax. Seriously. It fucking hurts but its totally worth it. Then the hair grows in a lot smoother and lighter and its easier to shave afterwards. I got one wax about 2 years ago and I've been shaving since then with little to no irritation.
Hi i have a problem them i know is not normal but i dont know what to do about it when i make out with my GF i get a boner and then orgasm a real short time later. dose anyone else have this problem. how can i stop this? were both 16.
Whack it more often.
Hey,
I'm 18/f and live in ontario,canada
My question is; Do you have to go threw with the whole gynochologist test to get birth control? I'm still a virgin and all and i've never had to go to the gynochologist before. Will i ahve to now?
Since you're 18 your doctor should be checking down there anyways. You need tests even though you haven't had sex. But you can get birth control from someone like a dermatologist. That's where I got mine from. No check ups or anything.
Why do boys like boobs?
Biologically, people are like animals. Men are looking for a mate to make children with. Breasts represent a woman's ability to mother, or breast feed a child. Bigger breasts perhaps make them seem more womanly, so that's why guys go all crazy about them. It's a sexual, biological, and evolutional instinct.
okay so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we've been messing around for about 2 months or so. The only thing he does is eat me out and finger me and its good, but he won't let me do anything to him. I ask him why and he says because I have to want it & I don't even know what he means by that. I'm pretty sure we'll mess aroung this weekend. Any suggestions to what I should do to tease him and to get him to want me to do things to him??
18/f
For some reason I don't think those were the answers you were looking for haha. Basically, when he says that he wants you to "want it", just be more into it. Even if you have to fake it haha. If you're making out, grab him or try to grab him a lot down there. Make it intense. If you're kissing his neck or anything, whisper in his ear that you want his dick or that you're really horny or whatever. Haha. It sounds slutty, but it'll definitely work. Good luck!
17/m
okay, long story short my girlfriend and i want to start having sex again, but the problem is we have absolutely nowhere to go, the car is okay, but its cold outside, (freezing!!) and both our parents are always home. Is there anyone who could think of somewhere we could go, aside from like a hotel or something???? Thank you so much!!
I think skipping school may be a little too risky, but you could always go into school late (if you can drive) If your parents have work in the morning, have her come over your house and go into school like 2 hours late. At my school, they don't call the parents unless the students come in after 11.
I am a 16 yr old female
i have pulled [kissed] bfore - once with a close friend - and then the other tim ei was really drunk - i do not really remember how to do it well - i am scared of having a boyfriend or getting close to boys at the moment because i am scared they want something from me - i want to do stuff i really do but i am scared i will do it wrong or they won't like my body, how can i make sure i am kissing them correctly, and how can i be more confident and want to do more htings and not be scared, how can i make sure i do these things correctly?
please help me i really need some good advice
Thank you xxx
You're 16 years old. I don't know why that person said you're too young to be doing the things you're doing. I'm sure you're not a raging alcoholic. Kids drink, it's a natural and common thing. Get over it dude haha.
I understand how you feel. I had been with this one guy for about 1 year and a half and then I had to switch to kissing another boy. I felt weird because I didn't know if we kissed a "different" way or whatever. Basically, you can't be a bad kisser. Well, if you really fuck up you can be, but I doubt you will.
Just make sure you're comfortable in the situation. If you're not, it will be a bad kiss for the both of you. Stay calm and cool, and if you really want to kiss him, you'll do it right. Don't start with too much tongue, that's sometimes a turn off. Start pecking him, then hold for longer kisses. Suck on his bottom lip a little bit, and if he starts sucking on your lips then he probably wants to start getting more intense. Then try slipping the tongue in.
He will like your body. If he wants to do stuff with you, then he already has an interest. Let him touch you, just don't let him get too far if you don't want him to.
Well I've tried shaving down there before, but it came back thicker and darker and grosser. I wanna wax it, but I don't know how.
How can I buy a waxing kit or something? I doubt my mom will buy it for me.
I would NOT reccommend waxing it yourself. I've had many friends try it themselves and it burned forever. Plus, its hard to inflict that kind of strange pain on yourself. I got it done professionally and it worked well, though it hurts.
what are some really good things to say to make a guy go crazy and make him really horny? really good ones would be grreat. thanks :]
17/F
Haha I love your question. Alright, well if the two of you are around other people or friends, tell him you can't wait to be alone with him. That'll obviously just get him thinking. His mind will start running and he'll wonder what you want to do with him. Whisper in his ear as much as you can, if you're sitting down on the couch or something, put a leg around him and kiss his neck and shit like that. He'll be dying to be alone with you.
Once you are alone, I don't know how close you guys are, but guys absolutely love when you tell them you want to suck their dick. Tell him that you're wet. Compliment his dick haha. "Its so big" or "I want it in my mouth" are always good haha. If you are sucking it, look up at him occasionally. That will drive him crazy.
My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old, we've been dating almost two years. We have been sexually active for some time and never had a problem.
Last night, though, he seemed to be having some male issues. That is, getting hard enough to have good sex. He was able to keep it up enough to get off once, but it was pretty obvious there was a problem. He was very embarassed and I feel bad for him, it's the first time it has happened to us. Any advice on what I should say to him? Or what the reason for this could've been? Thanks
This happened once with my ex-boyfriend an I. He had never had a problem with not being able to get it up until this one time. We had been messing around the whole day and when it finally came time to have sex, he couldn't get it up anymore because it had been up for so long during the day. So don't let him feel bad or don't let yourself feel bad, maybe you were too hot for him to handle. If he had been really hard for a while before you guys started having sex, that could be the reason he couldn't keep it up much longer. Its just one time, don't let it get to him/you. :)