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How Can I Make Sure I Am Good At Things Boys Want?
I am a 16 yr old female
i have pulled [kissed] bfore - once with a close friend - and then the other tim ei was really drunk - i do not really remember how to do it well - i am scared of having a boyfriend or getting close to boys at the moment because i am scared they want something from me - i want to do stuff i really do but i am scared i will do it wrong or they won't like my body, how can i make sure i am kissing them correctly, and how can i be more confident and want to do more htings and not be scared, how can i make sure i do these things correctly?
please help me i really need some good advice
Thank you xxx
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You're 16 years old. I don't know why that person said you're too young to be doing the things you're doing. I'm sure you're not a raging alcoholic. Kids drink, it's a natural and common thing. Get over it dude haha.
I understand how you feel. I had been with this one guy for about 1 year and a half and then I had to switch to kissing another boy. I felt weird because I didn't know if we kissed a "different" way or whatever. Basically, you can't be a bad kisser. Well, if you really fuck up you can be, but I doubt you will.
Just make sure you're comfortable in the situation. If you're not, it will be a bad kiss for the both of you. Stay calm and cool, and if you really want to kiss him, you'll do it right. Don't start with too much tongue, that's sometimes a turn off. Start pecking him, then hold for longer kisses. Suck on his bottom lip a little bit, and if he starts sucking on your lips then he probably wants to start getting more intense. Then try slipping the tongue in.
He will like your body. If he wants to do stuff with you, then he already has an interest. Let him touch you, just don't let him get too far if you don't want him to.
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Just a few things here. First you shouldn't be drinking. One, it's illegal at your age and two it makes you loose your inhibitions and judgment and are more prone for guys to take advantage of you. Lay off the booze and don't worry how guys might look at you. We are a bunch of creeps looking for one thing only. Save yourself for someone who really will except you for you and loves you no matter what you look like or how much you weigh etc etc...
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