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i had sex with my girl and sperm entered through the entrance of the vagina but the penis did not penetrate the hymen.can the girl be pregnant? (link)
First what you described was not sex ... Sex is actuall penetration but if sperm entered the vagina then there is a possibility of pregnancy


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when i masterbate i orgasum but then i have to stop and for some reason i cant go any further because my hands start to ache, but i wotn to keep going so that i cum any help ? :) (link)
Listen there is something called a water pick and it chandes the setting of your shower head and gives various pulsations try those out and find out what you like it cleans your body and give you a nut


I am 16 years old,I have been haveing sex for about a year now.But i want to get on birthcontrol.
How can i get on it without my mom finding out.She knows i lost it,But i don't want her to know i am on the pill.Just the way I feel.So how can i get on it? (link)
The best thing you can do is have someone over 18 that you can trust it can be a friend, sister, whoever and ask them to take you to a pland parenthood center and they can help you further.


How old were you when you lost your virginity? (link)
well i shouldnt answer this but i am anyway... im 19 and still a vergin... ibut i think id doesnt matter how old you are when you loose it as long as you are mature and responsible,


ever since i was 9 yrs old ive masturbated now
im almost 16 and i still masturbate, but instead
of doin it 2 or 3xs o day i now do it over
50xs A DAY!!!! is there somethin wrong with me?
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am i the only one? (link)
Wow dude that takes heart! But its fun! No but as long as you don't get caught or start to blow people off cause u wanna beat your (happy toy) then your cool. Have fun be careful and release the troop! Just kidding hope I helped and made you laugh.


I love my bf and I feel like we still have a major connection. We've been going out for about a year and we haven't really done anything. I want him to touch my boobs but I don't want it to go too much farther than that. What should i do? (link)
the thing about that is if you want to go further set a boundary. let him know that you want to go further and experiment but not go all the way.


okay i have a six inch penis and i am uncircumcised. i feel like am the only peson uncircumsied.is there anyway you could be circumcised at the age of 14.I NEED HELP FAST!!! (link)
just talk to your mom and tell her you want to get it done and go to the doctor and make an appointment


when you have sex is it really necessary to be on the pill and have the guy wear a condom? or is it safe enough to just have a condom (link)
well it is safer for both to be used but a condom is safe enough


Okay so ive been with this guy for about 6 months and well, we've been getting more physical as time goes on. Last night, as previous nights, he inserted his penis, not all the way however. well that's what he says anyway. I mean it hurt and everything but as I started to pull him into me he stopped me and said "no, don't put it in all the way." Does this mean we are still both virgins? Another thing is that he likes oral but im not too crazy about it. Ive told him before that im not too comfortable with it and he said he was fine with it, but when we're in the moment he starts to beg for me to give him oral. what do i do? (link)
hunny if a man puts his penis in your vagina then you are so not a virgin even if it is just the tip the question is if you blead or not if you did then you are so not a virgin


is it normal to be jealous when your boyfriend tells you that he looks at porn? should he be looking at it while he's in a relationship? does that mean that he's not satified with his girlfriend?
thanks xo (link)
well if you are giving him the good stuff then he might not look at it but then again it means nothing he needs to wack it alone sometimes


My dad doesn't let me have a boyfriend. But for the past (almost) year my mom has let my secretly go out with my boyfriend. Now I have been with my bofriend for almost a year. My mom doesn't know we've kissed (although she almost caught us once). Around the 5th month we did some sexual things that i'm not proud of and actually regret.
I told him and we've talked about it, and he is ok with it, and we haven't done anything like that ever since. Recently i have been feeling extremely guilty because i have always told my mom everything, except what my boyfriend and i have done. The thing is that if i tell my mom i will lose my boyrfriend adn her trust, and if i dont i will feel guilty. I feel so guilty that when i am at his house i get depressed, i want to leave and i feel as though i am alone. I don't know what to do. (link)
well just sit ur mom down and talk to her tell her what happened and that you wish it could have waited and let her know how you feel


i havnt gotten my period in like 6 months im soo sure im not pregnant cuz i took the test like 3 times and i dont feel like i am and stuff whats wrong with me?? (link)
dont worry go to the doctor and get a blood pregnacy test if that comes out negative than that means you might be changing cycles


Is there a way to tell when a guy has a boner in class? (link)
check if he has a lump in the pants duh


How do i get rid of them? Quickly? (link)
ok this is a spanish thing but take the top of a lipstick and twist the unopen part on it hard it will get ur skin red but it works!


Let me say first that I am not getting one im just curious. How do abortions work? (link)
abortions very bad for the body. first the doctor gives you a pill to bread up the embryo. it hurts like a bitch but then they take a vaccume like thingy and suck the remains that you didnt pass in the bath room and then they give you pain killers for the after pain. although i am a guy i have seen it done to people i luv. it just wasn't the right time for a baby.

they take out the baby right then and you cant get an abortion after the secong month of pregnancy cause then it is like murder. in the eyes of the law.


OK I'm 15/m and I have a bit of a problem. I've asked a similar question to this relating to sexual stamina so here it is: When me and my girlfriend have sex its really good. The only thing is that I dont feel enough. She's really tight and all but it just feels like I'm numb or something, I feel like there should be more. Is there any way I can increase feeling there? Is it normal to be like that? (link)
it happens well if you want to feel good there is this cock ring from trojen it vibrates by it


What is the average penis size for a 13 year old? (link)
there is no spacific size for any person but average size in general is 6 inches


Hey, im 16/f. Can someone tell me possibly from their personal experience how much it hurts the first time you have sex?? You can say on a scale from 1 to 10 or maybe a description would be good. And do girls always bleed the first time or do some not??? Thanks heaps.
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girls bleed the first time and it hurts about a 8


Im 13, and im a Chathlioc [sp?] Cristian. Well, in school, we went to Confessing. I told the preist all my sins, but one. I masturbate. I did'nt wanna just be flat out, I maturbate, because the priest is friends with my family. Is this wrong. As much as I love God and Jesus, I just can't say I maturbate. Is it a sin anyway? (link)
no but preist like to scare you but when you pray tell god that u do it and it should be just like telling the preist but skip the middle man


So i gave my boyfriend a handjob and i got cum on my fingers but i washed it off and about 40 mins. later i masterbated and i got my period 4 days later and i read that even if you get your period you could still b pregant? do you think i am? (link)
no!




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