Hello every one my name is Alyssa. I can help with basically any question. But I really like it when people give feedback. I am really into horses and I do barrel racing, wetern pleasure, showmanship, polebending, and more. I also do gymanstics and soccer. I have also tryed about every sport out their too. I have 5 people in my family my mom my dad my sister and my brother. I have 3 dogs 1 cat 2 rabbits i have 3 horses that are my show horses then the whole family we have a total of 11. You can always ask me any question. Even if I don't know what to say I will try to help. Or I will dig up some info on it to answer your question. So feel free to drop one in the inbox or email or what ever any time. Good luck in the future to every body.
E-mail: barreldreamer101@aim.com
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When having sex, do all girls give blowjobs? I think thats horribly disgusting just swallowing cum like that. Do guys expect it? (link)
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Some guy's do some don't. Some girls do some don't. Hope this helps!
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16/f
Hey, I know this will probably be a really silly question.. i just need some reassurance..
I was kind of messing around with my boyfriend and his precum sorta seeped through his shorts (he was wearing thin shorts) and underwear and i was wearing only my underwear at the time. Is there any way I couldve possibly gotten pregnant from that, or is the chance so small its nonexistant? I thought it was pretty impossble but then i started reading artcles online and I got a little worried..
even re-reading this now, it seems kind of ridiculous. i just need to hear it from someone else.
trust me, im never going to do this again after this. i really cant risk getting pregnant now.
thanks! (link)
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It is pretty much impossible! Hope this helps. Good luck in the future
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will you know when you break your hymen? or will it just kinda happen? Im not sexually active so I wanted to know in advance. (link)
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Well when it breakes it usually bleeds a little. But you don't have to be sexually active to breake it. You can breake it if you use tampons, gymnastics, riding horses, and other highly active things. So hope this helps, Good Luck in the future!
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okay me and my boyfriend was messing around on teh 16th and we kinda was like naked.. on out lower have.. and he was fingering me and i was touching his penis..and
when i loooked down my shirt was wet.
he says it was mine.. because i was really wet
and im like no i wrapped you penis in my shirt
and hes like well you can get pregnate frmo PRECUM or somthing is that true?
and my period doesnt come until next month
i dont feel sick or anything.
im just worried
i dont want to be pregnate
and we broke up because we thought our relationship was going too fast.
im scared
yea i know SPREM DOESNT DIE WHEN IT HITS THE AIR!
and.. i dont know
we didnt have sex. we were kinda dry humping naked on the lower half (link)
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You are most likely not pregnant but there still is the possibility that you are but not very high of one! Hope this helps. good Luck in the future
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I was looking at my feedback but I forgot which question I answered so I went back and checked. As I was looking I noticed someones answer and I didn't know if it was true.
I don't want to embarass anybody so i'll just describe the situation. One girl stated that she hasn't had her period in 4 months and was wondering what she should do. Then this one girl answered:
If you have oral sex then there might be a chance of pregnancy, but if not, then it is probably just still irregular. It takes up to two years for a period to regulate, and if you have had your period for over two years, then you should tell your mom or a doctor.
Is it true you can get pregnat from oral sex?
&&thanks (link)
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This is gonna be a short one nope nope and nope! That girl said below me that said it the tucjing stuff not true at all! The sperm has to get into the vagina and it has to be out of the penus all in the same time and yada yada yada! So no way is it true! Hope this helps good luck in the future
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okay well im only 14 but me and my boyfriend have been talking about having sex and i have him ova when my parents rnt home and i need birth control i dont wanna get pregnant and i know about planned parenthood but i dont know how im going to get it without my parents knowin plz help me (link)
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Ok if you are only 14 i would suggest you wait. Not very many people are actually in a serious relationship at that age. But if you are so set on it that you won't think twice on not doing it, buy condoms. There is no age linit on them. But as the birth control I don't know how you will get that without telling your parents or an adult at that age. You can always say mom can I go to the doctor because my periods are really long and painfull because most the time if they have things like that they will put people on a pill to stop them and it is birth control. or come up with a way to get them on your own. Hope this helps. Good Luck in the future.
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I'm a 17 year old virgin. I haven't engaged in any sexual activity. I've been with my amazing boyfriend for almost a year and we have had conversations about sex. He's told me he likes when a girl shaves down there. I've never done that! How do I go about doing this before we do anything sexual? I don't want it to get irritated and not look right. How do I make sure it's smooth and what steps should I take? (link)
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Hello, Make sure you put lots of shaving cream on before you shave. After put lotion on like some one else said and if it gets itchy put more on. Or you can get it waxed. You can buy kits at wal-mart and places like that. Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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First off im 15 and my boyfriend is 16.I havnt had my period since end of April. I took a pregnancy test early this morning. It showed up positive. I asked my father to make me a doctor apt. and i have one tomarrow morning. (he knows it was positive) My boyfriend and i no the kind of responsibility it is going to take. We also know we are going to have to work hard for money. My family and his family both knows. Im looking for more advice. Please Help and Thank You (link)
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Well if you have a good supported family about the issue, then hopefully they can help you with some of the doctor appoitments and things like that. But you do also need to bring in some of the money. If you are set on keeping the baby then you need to get a job. I learned a long time ago the price of things for a baby in the first year adds up to the price of a average priced new car. So yes it does take alot of money. My fiend was 15 when she got pregnant and she was big into horses and showing and things like that she gave it up and sold everything she had so she could keep the baby. She got no money from her parent except they did help out a little with doctor bills. But if you are into a hobby ar have stuff you can sell, sell it that can bring in more money than you can expect. And with a new baby you are going to have to make some tuff desisions on some of your hobby's and things like that. Go to your local librarry and check out some books or movies on becomming a parent and also here are some websites that might help. Or may be just some fun for you LOL.
http://www.reachout.com.au/default.asp?ti=287
http://www.sxetc.org/index.php?topic=FAQ&sub_topic=Teen+Parenting
http://www.ivillage.com/
I hope this helps. Good Luck in the Future.
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i have only had sex once in my life and my bf came over yesterday and he fingered me and i woke up with this bump on my vagina what dose this mean. (link)
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If it dosent go away in a week. TELL an adult. And go to the doctor or a gyno maybe your best bet you probally havent been to one yet but it may be somthing good to get checked out if it isnnt gone in without a week.
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I'm a 13/f. And I'm constantly masturbating. I'm getting to where I do it 3 times a day. That's not normal...and I've been doing this for 2 years. And it is messing me up in school, cause I'm always horny. What can I do to stop?
And please dont answer and say "just get a hobby, to take your mind off of it"...that doesnt work, i've already tryed it.
♥please♥ (link)
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I do have to agree with the person below me. Just go have safe sex. If you don't want to do that then masturbate before and after school and at night. Your hormones have alot to do with it too! This may sound wrong but I know one of my friends did this, Go to one of your bff's thats in about the same stage of developing and tell her your feelings and ask her if she (make sure its a she) is having the same things happen. If she is you 2 might wanna get to gether and express your feelings together if you know what I mean. I have never done it but my friend says it is also very relaxing and you kniow you can't get pregnant. Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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so this gorgeous guy i talk to on myspace all the time and we went to school together but never really saw eachother and he said i was pretty and blablabla
then he came over today because hes my brothers freinds freind and he sat really close to me
and folowed me and grabbed my hand and stuff lol awe
and he said i was really hot and im like your so cute you look like zac efron lol
then we went in my bed together and he kept touching me and stuff
but then i was like..
i dont want a whore i want a boyfreind.
and hes like come on im not a slut..
blablabla
then he had to leave and we locked my door
and i think he wanted me to kiss him.
but then i didnt..
i should have
then he left
he just left..
with well.
i got to go
cya
and walked out the door..
so...
my question is..
does he like me?
and how do i get him to be my boyfreind..
i really felt something
please help
thank you so much
i rate 5s for tryers..
thank you all (link)
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Well it may be hard to tell. He may be there to have what is in his eyes a "hott" girl. Or he may be serious. But just ask him... do ou think we could become more than friends or somthing along that track. But meet in public places first or you may end up in a position with him that you dont want to be in. Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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heya i got fingered a couple of weeks ago and he pused in really hard. it hurt odviosuly becase it was my first time i went b to my m8ts house and started bleeding and somerthin came out like skin *cringe* is it my hymen? have i lost my virginty? plzzz tell me
xoxoxoxo (link)
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Ok well most likely it was your hymen. And no your not a virgin anymore hate to breake it to you as soon as a penius goes up you you ar eno longer a vergin!
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I am not sure but i think it might be possible that i could have genital warts.. there is only one spot but the thing is that there is no way i could have been infected from someone else because its been there since before i have been at all sexually active. i have done some research but i am not sure is it possible that the disease is hereditary and i could have gotten it from a parent or do i have nothing to worry about... please help, its been making me really nervous around my girlfriend and i have been avoiding going too far because of it (link)
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Well if your a teen then you need to go to a trusted adult/parent if they dont already know and second go to a doctor. There may be somthing that they can do about them and on the subject of an std if you have never had sex than its not it!
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My boyfriend & I have been together for almost a year. We haven't had any kind of sex, but it's getting to the point where that's the only place to go. I'm not ready and there's a few reasons still. I don't love him yet and I'm very self-concious. When we're in the mood and getting passionate, I really want to but I stop myself and feel like I'm teasing him. Should I really wait or give in to my temptations? (link)
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Well if you have that feeling you always go with your gut and your heart and especially if you dont LOVE him yet! Tell him everything except the fact that you may not love him yet that could ruin the relationship! But you do need to tell him how you feel! Hope I helped Good luck
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Hello..
My husband and I have been married for 6 months. We both are vigins and we are in our early 20's.
We have tried to have sex but everytime we try I experience severe pain and we stop. We tried lubricant but that didn't help either.
Please help! Is there any methods? (link)
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Well it may just hurt cuz it hurts everybody but if it hurts extreamly bad then i would say you need to go to the doctor and get checked out! I hope I helped.
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Ok so i am in a huge band and i am one of the dancers. When i came to the band everyone warned me about this certain guy and i dunno how it happend but he pulled me in. I totally feel for him, i dotn even know how, i knew that is i did he would want sex, and the day it happend i knew it was going to happen. But i dont understand how i let it happen. Since when i went over to his house i knew what was going to happen i lied to him and told him i was on drugs. Cause he is a huge drug addict, which is bad since i have got into drugs laitly and i am trying to quit.
anyways to the point he kept asking me and asking me finally i got mad anough and i just said ok, we used a condom and everything then we had sex. it hurt so much and i cnat believe i did it. After that i went on the pill just to be safe. But he didn't talk to me for 2 months after
it broke my heart.
now we han gout again and stuff and we talk and everyting what is srsly wrong wiht me|?
why would i even speak to him after all that.? (link)
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Well you may have made a mistake but when the erge comes it comes and you cant help it. But also you can still be friends with him and just not get to close and dont get drawn in again and as far as the whole drug thing that is somthing to get out of and fast before it becomes an addiction! I hope I helped. Good Luck in the future!
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Ok, so I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have together for a good solid 7 months. We're sexually active, but trust me when I say that our relationship is about more than just sex. We respect eachother and this is the first relationship I've had that really means something to me. I'm not positive if I'm 'in love' but it sure comes close.
So, we've had sex maybe 8 or 10 times since we lost our virginity to each other a couple months ago. At first, I was totally "I'm ALWAYS going to use protection!" but we've gone a few times without (but we've made SURE to pull out). I know that that there are still SO many risks but I thought we were being careful. Well the more I've been thinking about it (and it's been increasing lately) the more I think I might be pregnant! The thought alone totally freaks me out!! I'm adopted and my birthmother had her first child at age 13 and me at 15 and I've always promised to myself not to follow in her footsteps. I've been researching everything online and I havn't had any of the 'earliest signs of pregnancy' EXCEPT for my missed period which was supposed to come yesterday but I've had missed/late periods before. Apart from that I havn't been bloated or tender anywhere and I don't know if it's just paranoia, but my stomache's been looking a little "poochy" lately. The last time we had unprotected sex was maybe 2-3 weeks ago but again, he pulled out wayy before he came.
I'M FREAKING OUT, PLEASE HELP!!
-kbabe (link)
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Ok well if you think you have the slitist chance of being pregnant then you need to go to the store and buy a pregnancy test and if it is positive tell your adopted mom its very important you get to a doctor. I have done the same thing had un protected sex and I have been luck enough to have never had a skiped period or anything but yeah i know whats its like to have someone close to you have had a baby at the age of 13 because my bf's mom got pregnant with him at that age! And if you do need to tell someone if they dont know your sexually active then you maybe a little in trouble but they will love the baby as much as posible evan if they are simi ashamed! Good Luck I hope I helped!
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Thanks SO much to everybody who answered my last question! Now that I feel a little more confident about this whole thing, I've got yet another problem:
Should I tell my boyfriend about this? I mean I love him so much; he means way too much to me and the last thing I want to do to him is freak him out. Everytime we joke about or do that "What if..." thing, and the idea of kids come up, he always says that he never wants them. I'm guessing the whole idea of pregnancy would get him all, i don't know...wierd. I on the other hand would LOVE to have them (but NOT UNTIL IM WAY OLDER, please don't think that I'm like that!) but regardless, I don't want to send him running. But on the other hand, if something's going on shouldn't he know? Everytime we fool around now, I get this whole wave of guilt but I still want him so badly. I don't want to make this into a big deal if it's just a false alarm. I also know that this would be a lesson to the both of us about birth control and responsibility (my mom's a nurse =] ) and that "if he really loves me too, he won't freak out but guys are unpredictable. I still don't want to risk anything between us. Any advice will be greatly appreciated, thanks
kbabe
ps. I'm sorry for writing the great american novel as my questions...I tend to talk alot too =] (link)
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Hunny im sorry to tell you but you have to tell him. In a cuple months he will notice then he will feel betrayed yeah if he does go running say he wasnt worth it! And after all he is your babies father. I didnt know that my real dad i have never met (which i still havent) I would love to meet him but he ran when he found out my mom got pregnant. I have lived for 13 yrs and he has never come in contact with me and it does kill to the heart so yeah he needs to know and if he is a really good guy then he would stay. My real dad moved to the clear end of the contry.
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I think I've caught something nasty - where do I go to get it checked out? (link)
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Well if you are a teen you need to tell a parent or a trusted adult and also to go to a doctor either go to the family doctor or go to your gyno if your sexually active! I hope I helped good Luck
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19/f
I had sex with my best friend (a guy) a little while ago. We both admited feelings for each other & have been a couple before, but things still aren't going anywhere even though it's what we both want. Help! (link)
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You cant make each other love one another if that makes any scence like you may have feeling and so on and so forth but you cant force anything and i hope when you had sex you used pretection and even if you did then you still might want to watch for your period and things like that! Hope I helped
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