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Im Nikki, 15 student at LHS. I love music and helping people with their problems. Im a good listener. I love the band Taking Back Sunday(read the sn) and Letter Kills. Im a Cheerleader but not the sterio typical one (believe me!) if you have anymore questions about me e-mail me or Instant Message me.

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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?

hey, i think you should let him do it, if he wants to then ket him, if you dont want to give him oral then dont, if he cant accept that then hes an ass but you have to understand his perspective. Oral will feel REALLY good, you just have to direct him into how YOU want it and just guide him, its an amazing feeling to get oral sex so i would let him, you'll hav a whole new veiw on oral sex when you get it..believe me..

~Nikki~

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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me

you can get it when u have your period or when u dont, you can preg. ANY TIME!

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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



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thats just really slutty and only if u want to be known as a slut do it but i prefer u not to i think thats the worst way to get noticed..

~nikki~

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Does sex always hurt the first time? My friends say it does... but are there any ways for it to not hurt at all?

Yes, sex does hurt the 1st time but you can finger yourself or do something to stretch out your vagina more, but dont be scared of a little pain..

~nikki~

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if i am going to have sex with a girl that it is her first time how do i go about it with out hurting her? should i just go slow?

well, you should ask her how she wants it, usually it doesnt hurt when i go hard the first time u stick it in, then do it slowly that first hard hit u do should break the berrior of pain and pleasure...

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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$

it is the criminal

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me n this girl did it n i think i might like her n idk what to do because i dont really wanna girlfriend

well u dont have to date her, im sure she would be fine with the fact of u guys just having sex, i have casual sex and its better then dating and having sex!

~Nikki~

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i just want to know if i am normal

do you masterbate?
if not answer these questions to how you think most people who do would please =)
How often?
Since when?
Where?
How?

Thank you this will help so much.

yea i masturbate, and yes i am proud of it :) it doesnt matter how often u do it, its normal VERY normal, i usually masturbate in my room i guess lol and how well, i have a vagina and a vibrator so i use my vibrator in my clitorus in a circulour motion..

~Nikki~

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Heya there. Okay, well, I just lost my virginity, yesterday (I'm the one with the problem below called birth control) and now that I know for sure that there is a risk of be getting pregnant, I want to know what kind of test I should get. I'm 16, and I should know this because so many of my friends have gone through it, and I know I have to wait a couple of weeks, but I was wondering, what is the best brand of pregnancy tests and how much do they usually cost?

i honestly dont know the prices and everything but i went to the hospital to get one early inthe morning (you should do it in the morning cuz thats when your pregnancy hormones are most fertile) and i just peed in a cup and they took it to a lab and did it i wish i could have helped more!

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hey, i tried the birth control pill and it made me have really bad heart problemz from it..and well, my heart is getting better now after about a year from those damn thingz!!!!

but my question is...do any of yuz kno any good birth control methods like the patch, or anything lyk that that is healthy and that you can use if you smoke cigarettes??

none are healthy if you smoke, but if your over 38 then its worse but now i dont think its THAT harmful for any birth control if you smoke.

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I am a 13 female and recently I just found out I am pregnant. I have no one for the baby except for my boyfriend who is the father. He is 16. My parents and me never keep in touch anymore so I live with my sister who is 18. She is never home and won't get mad if she found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend knows and is really happy. He is glad I am pregnant. But I'm not. I mean I am going to have the baby and keep it and i will love it but I am too young. But I do not know what I should do with my boyfriend. Can anyone give me advice? Please help.

Hey, im really sorry your pregnant but if you are before 7 weeks pregnant and if you have any type of youth pregnancy center around go there and they will give u a shot and a few pills to take and thats your abortion or if you DO want to keep it tell your parents deff. but refuse to move in w/ them or anything, trhat will make matters worse and if they offer there help and support, take it. Make sure you GET A JOB!!! and make sure he has one!! and get as much support as possible, thats all i can say or an abortion you can get an abortion w/o your parents knowing..

~Nikki~

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