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Hi, OKay I skipped my period for 3 months and then started again. But I am really heavy compared to my normal. Is that normal?

Skipping your period for three months isn't normal. If this continues you might need to tell your mom so she can take you to the gynocologist to make your cycle healthy.

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okay im not fator anything..im only 105 BUT like my stomach is so weird looking like its thin and tight then like rigt under my belly button theres this huge buldge..i hate it..how do i get rid of this? cuz like it looks so nasty its like all skinny then BAM this buldge/roll thing under my belly button..HELP!

Situps and crunches will work, but first try running or swimming. Something active to burn that "fat" you have there. Then, try to motivate yourself to do some crunches and situps everynight or every other night. Have fun :]

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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?

If it's a guy... confront him and tell him that you're not ready. If he really likes you, he would respect you. Dump him, if he doesn't. If it's friends that are pressuring you... don't listen to them. Do want YOU want to do. Sex is a big thing. You shouldn't have to feel pressured into it. Tell whoever that person is; that you're simply not ready. Good luck :]

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Im a wild girl, but when it comes to makin the 'first moves' i get kinda shy. My boyfriend isnt that experienced so he's not really into making the first move either. So heres the problem: How can we get stuff one if were both like that bc its not like i dont want to make the first move its just more so that i dont want to get rejected or anything. Like im sure that he wouldnt or anything but still. Plus i HATE it when girls throw themselves on guys and that is how i would feel if i did that. So i guess that i just dont want to come off as that kinda person. Please give me advice!

Hmm... start off by holding hands. Flirt a lot. He's your boyfriend, you should be comfortable with him. So, don't be shy. Just simply kiss him. Ya'll will like it, I'm sure. lol. And he's your boyfriend; you can kiss your own boyfriend without feeling you are "throwing yourself" all over him. It's okay, you can dooo itttt!!!! :D Good luck, babe.

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my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?

Haha. You have no idea how many times I've had that happen to me. You can either tell your mom how revolting it was, but don't be extremely serious about it. Or you can just keep it to yourself and forget about it. I've always just laughed it off and forgot about it. Lol. Good luck babe.

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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

Oh gosh. You're so young. I think that people should have sex when they think they are prepared enough to support a child. ANYTHING can happen. Not only that, you should ask yourself are you physically, mentally, emotionally, and stable enough to have a child? I think not, sweetie. I can tell by your age. Just because you both think you're "ready and comfortable" doesn't mean you should have sex with him. Honestly, you shouldn't even be THINKING about having sex with another boy. I say no.

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