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I have lived through the good times and the bad times. I am a very bright kid, and I know a lot of stuff that other kids may not know about because I've already experienced it. There are no DUMB questions....Only DUMB people for not asking!!
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I'm a 13/f. And I'm constantly masturbating. I'm getting to where I do it 3 times a day. That's not normal...and I've been doing this for 2 years. And it is messing me up in school, cause I'm always horny. What can I do to stop?
And please dont answer and say "just get a hobby, to take your mind off of it"...that doesnt work, i've already tryed it.
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i have the same problem. i'm 16/m and i love masturbating. it's completely normal and i don't think it's a problem. please don't rate me. I don't want to be rated.
Ok i asked the "Should I...." question and i just have one question what did you mean when you said make sure you use it right? meaning the condom and one more thing how do you known what size to get? thanx you helped me a lot!
Ok...so, there are two sizes, there are regular condoms (trojan, durex, lifestyle, etc.), all of which come in one general size. Then there are the "magnum" size condoms. Now this is funny, but, unless your bf is like HUGE, just stick with general condoms that you see at the store. I would stick with the lifestyle brand. This works the best for me (even though I hate wearing them. He will too :)) Now that you have your condoms picked out, use them correctly. There are directions inside the box. I know that in the heat of the moment, you don't want to be reading directions on the box, so here is my suggestion. You buy the condoms, read up on how to PROPERLY use them, then when you are fooling around with him before you have sex (i.e. oral), how about YOU put the condom on him. This will make it fun for him, and also, you can rest assured that you did it correctly. If this is not how you want to approach it, then make sure he pinches the tip, puts it over the head of his penis (not inside out), and rolls it down. You'll understand when you read the directions. Also, don't use oil based lubricant (vaseline) if you intend to, use water based lube (KY-jelly). If you have any other questions and are embarassed to post them here, just email me directly. I'll be happy to add you to my messenger then we can chat about your concerns. :) Have Fun!!
How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?
There is no recommended age. I was 13 when I lost my virginity. Some people wait until they are married to lose their virginity. It all depends on what your views and values are. If you don't have any moral issues, do it when you feel that you are ready. If you choose to wait until marriage, then do so. Again, I did it when I was 13, and I don't regret it in any way. Just be sure that when you do choose to have sex, that you are responsible, and ready for it. Good Luck!!
This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
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Ok, yes! guys usually get an erection (AKA: hard-on, boner, stiffy, woody) when they get aroused, but sometimes they get an erection for no reason at all. (I like to call that spontaneous wood). Truth of the matter is that he may or may not have had his erection because you turned him on or "aroused" him. Maybe he was picturing you naked in his mind, or maybe he had his "boner" before you even talked to him. Whatever the reason is, don't feel offended about his erection. If you turned him on, think of it as a complement. That you are sexy enough to get him "aroused". Unless he is putting you into a very uncomfortable situation, just ignore it. Understand that he is growing up also and his body is changing and "uncontrolable" things happen. His hard-on is not gross, it is part of human anatomy, when you get older, you'll appreciate it, trust me!! Have Fun!!
hey i'm on the pill and my docter never told me how long it would take until it was effictive.. so i was just wondering if any one could tell me how long until it is effictive and how effective it is???PLEASE HELP
Depending on what type (there are several types of birth control pills), the efficacy of the pill is 98%-99.9%. Usually, the doctor will recommend that you complete one to three full cycles before you can rely on the pill as your primary birth control. Now, what you have to understand is that the pill does not protect against any type of STD so be careful. Also, don't smoke if you are on the pill, as this will potentially lead to health problems. Various antibiotics will alter the effectiveness of the pill, so in this instance, if you are not sure, use a back-up method of birth control (condoms). If you refuse to use the condoms, find out from a source (planned parenthood, nurse, pharmacist, etc.) to see if the antibiotic that you are taking will have an interaction with your birth control pill.
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half this month and we have talked about having sex and i feel like im ready and i think he does to but i'm just kind of worried that something might happen and people act like i dont think about wat could happen but i do and i feel so emotionaly ready to have sex i mean a lot of people who respond to this will say i shouldnt because im to young and i should wait because im 14 but i mean if i feel comfortable and ready for it then dont you think i can. i mean no one can really stop me from doing it but i mean i dont kno i just need advice on wat i should excpect i kno its gunna hurt but like other stuff... and like wat are the most durable condoms? please answer.... thanx
Ok, I have experience in this subject. I lost my virginity when i was 13. I don't know if I was ready yet, and many people will say that I was way too young. Looking back,I don't regret any of it. I am actually glad that I did it at that age. Here are a few thing that I would like you to think about though. Are you really ready? Is he pressuring you, or do you really want to do this? If you think you are ready, then go ahead. There is nothing wrong with having sex. Just don't be irresponsible when you do so. USE PROTECTION. There are guys out there that don't want to use condoms. MAKE THEM!! I have to admit, condoms suck, and it feels like 100% better without one on, but the fact of the matter is that one night of pleasure does not outweigh years and years of missing parties and growing up, because you were too busy parenting. Use protection CORRECTLY, and there is nothing to worry about. Don't worry about what your friends have to say. They have their own opinions on sex. If you are ready, take the proper precautions, and do it. You'll soon find out what the hype is all about. Good Luck!!
I was just wondering how long it takes for your boobs to grow in after you get your period.Dose it happen right away?
i rate high. thanks :)
This all depends on how YOUR body develops. For some girls, they develop very quickly (like over the summer months). For others, it may take years, even well into their 20's. If you are expecting your boobs to grow overnight, you are in for a very disappointing morning. :) Some girls start their period early like at 10 years old and their boobs don't start developing until they are in High School. So, as you can see, there is no formula for determining how long it will take before your boobs start to grow. Why is this such a concern anyway? You should just take it slow and let your body take its course. Good Luck!!
ok well i feel that "down there" on me looks different from other people's for some reason it looks loose .? i've only be fingered twice and it looks like i have like 45078 times! im just afraid a guy will talk about me if they see it.
OK...listen up...I have been with my "fair share" of girls. They ALL look different. Don't try to compare yourself to someone else, because everyone is "built" differently. Also, whenever I am "down there" on a girl, I don't really care about what it looks like, I'm just stoked to be "down there"...:) So, take it from me, NO guy will talk about you when they see it. They'll just be glad that they got "down there". Now if they talk about getting a piece of it, thats a different story!! Don't worry about it. Good Luck!!
Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out?
Hell yeah she will freak out, unless she has either felt one or seen one before. The way to avoid this, is to either (1) position yourself in a way so that she doesn't feel it, and (2) communicate with her. I know its embarassing to talk about sex stuff, but if you both trust eachother, you can find out where she stands in the whole sex/erection world. Talking and communication are key in avoiding uncomfortable situations. Good Luck!!
im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please!
If you do tell him, its over. He'll leave you despite the fact that the two of you were in love. He'll be pissed at you for two reasons. (1) you cheated on him and (2) you slept with this other dude before you slept with him. Now, teenagers don't know how to deal with issues like this, and their initial reaction is to just blow up and not care. So, don't expect him to sit and talk with you. Even if you do work it out with him, do you always want to worry about him cheating on you now? because this is a possibility you know. My advice, and it may not be the "right" advice, but if you really do want to salvage the situation/relationship, you have to not have any association with the dude you slept with, and hide the secret at all costs. If there is any chance that he'll find out, then I'd just tell him and expect him to leave you. Good Luck!!
Im 17 and i know ill be losing my virginity this summer. But apart of me still thinks HE is too good for me. And that im not that beautiful and skinny enough to have sex. Has anyone ever felt this way? How should i get over these feelings?
It't not a matter of getting over these feelings. You just need to make sure that you are ready. Don't set a date...like this summer... just take it as "when it happens, it happens" :) If you are both ready, you won't worry about being beautiful or skinny or too good... it'll just happen....sex is awesome. I enjoy it on a regular basis...Just be sure that you are ready, and careful. Trust me, if this is his first time, he'll be too nervous to even care what you look like. Talk eachother through it.....its fun!! Good Luck!!
ok so my friend is 15 and her and her bf had sex but the condom broke. well she got this short period for march. it lasted a day and a half she said. shes been eating alot and peeing alot now too. does it sound like shes pregnant? im going with her to planned parenthood tomrrow..but what does it sound like to you guys??
How long ago did this happen? if its been over two weeks, she can save herself the trouble of going in to planned parenthood and just get herself an over the counter pregnancy test. I don't think she is pregnant although it may not be a bad idea to check. Its a good thing that you both are taking an active approach now because if she is pregnant, there are more options if you catch it in the earlier stages. In my opinion, maybe she's just more hungry than usual...and because she's eating, she's peeing (you don't only have to be drinking to go potty!!) Give her the support she needs.....tell her to not worry.
Good Luck!
Ok well I have tried to use a tampon like a million times but everytime I try to put in, It doesn't go in all the way even though it looks like it!! When I walk, it's realllyyy uncomfertable..What am I doing wrong???
First of all, are you reading the directions carefully or did someone just explain to you how to use one? You'd be surprised at how many girls "think" they know how to use a tampon. Be sure to read the directions carefully. If needed, use some lubricant to ease the tampon up into your vagina. Don't feel embarassed to explore your body. Try several times with several types of tampons. You'll get it. Good Luck!!
Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE!
If you didn't fool around or have sex in anyway. Then it is very very very very unlikely that you are pregnant. A missed period could be the cause of a change in diet, exercise, stress, etc. There are a number of reasons why you've missed your period. Now listen though. If you have been fooling around, then there is a possibility that there could have been semen on his fingers or something before he touched you. If you are 100% sure that you didn't do any sexual activities, then don't worry about it. Sperm can't live that long outside the body anyway....even in the toilet..... Are you athletic? Maybe it is a result of increased exercise...do you do gymnastics? Also, when you worry about it, this causes added stress to you mind and body....This may delay your period also. Don't worry...your chance of being pregnant is one in a million. Give it a couple of weeks.... if you still didn't get it by then and you need some ease of mind, then there are numerous pregnancy tests at the drug store...just pick one up at a store that you regularly don't go to and let the results reassure you. Good luck!!
13/f well i just found out the other night that my boyfriend (also 13) had sex a couple months ago at a party with a girl thats 15. we wernt together then but we were a couple months before that. i really love him and i know that i always will because we have such a good friendship but should i except this? so far i convinced myself that im okay with it but im not sure if i really am. i think that since hes already done it then hell try to pressure me into having sex. well what i want to know is should i except it and how?
Look, you should expect sex and sex pressure from all guys. Guys are like that, and the more you get to know them, the more you will realize that they are like that. Ok now there are two ways to handle this situation. I know its hard for you to accept the fact that he has had sex with someone else.....but if you didn't have sex with him, and you didn't want to, believe me, he would find it elsewhere. At least now you know instead of him cheating on you and getting some "action" behind your back. Secondly, whatever is good for the goose is good for the gander (remember this saying) :) This is your chance to go and fool around with someone else. Maybe you should seek some sexual attention elsewhere. Whatever you do though, don't expect him to get jealous. He might, he might not, but whatever his reaction, don't try to use this as a "get even". Sex is a huge part of growing up. If you are ready to experiment then go ahead but be careful. If you want to get back with him, you have to understand that maybe he may not be exclusive with you...meaning he may still get some action elsewhere. My gut feeling tells me that you should forget about any type of relationship with him (just be friends)and seek all of your physical attention elsewhere. Good Luck!!