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About Me: Hello & welcome to my advice column! My name is Jennifer and I'm 19 years old. I'm married to my high school sweetheart, Eric, as of 06.09.07! ♥ He is in the United States Navy, and right now we are stationed in Virginia Beach. Eric is my best friend, and my hero..I love my sailor! I also love helping people and giving advice on all kinds of things- I'm a very good listener. I'm in my sophomore year of college, majoring in psychology, and will eventually be going to med school to be a psychiatrist. Feel free to leave anything in my inbox. I'm always looking to meet new people and give advice!!

My interests: my fiance, music, eating, sleeping, gymnastics, dancing, partying, going to the beach, shopping, taking pictures, & there is so much more to me than all this! ;)

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how long into pregnancy does spotting occur?

Hey! I found this for you on conception.lifetips.com...

"Implantation spotting may occur if pregnancy has been achieved. This happens about 4 to 12 days after ovulation. This is a result of the egg implanting into the uterine lining which may cause a little bleeding. This does not necessarily happen with every pregnancy."

Hope that helped you! ♥Jenn

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is it like.. unhealthy to not have sex for your entire life,
i want kids, and i want alot, but i want to adopt. its not a spiritual thing..i just.. am weirded out by the idea of sex...
please help..
i rate high on good advice

Are you gay? If the idea of sex wierds you out, maybe you are. I mean.. if you don't ever wana have sex but you want kids- maybe you really are gay? There's nothing wrong with that.. just a thought.
♥Jennifer

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im 17 and recently started having sex with my bf
and it hurts a lot his penis gets quite big
and we have to stop cos it hurts what can we do about this?

Yikes. Well.. this may sound wierd. But if he has big fingers- have him finger you alot and loosen you up. Then it will hopefully not hurt as bad. If that still doesnt work, you may want to look into getting some type of vibrator (a good sized one) to also stretch you out. Good luck, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave another message in my inbox!
♥Jennifer

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what time of the month in relation to your peroid are you least fertile? (if i were to have sex without a condom becuase it is against my boyfriends relgion what would be the safest time of the month to do it?)

Honestly, I'm not 100% POSITIVE what time in the month is the time when you are least fertile, so I don't want to give you a wrong answer. Try looking up the question online on an informational sex website. Usually you can find answers to questions like that on sex advice websites. My advice, don't have sex without a condom. It's really not worth it hun, and you have a much bigger risk of getting pregnant- or if he has been with other girls even a std! Always use some form of protection whether it is birth control pills/patches, or condoms. If you do choose to have sex without a condom- make sure he at least pulls out. If you are positive you re ready to not use a condom- make sure you are ready and responsible to pay the consequences if you become pregnant. You can get pregnant ANY time. Even when you are the least fertile. So be careful, and use protection. It's really not worth it to go without.
♥Jennifer

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My boyfriend has a really nice sports car. its a camaro! I was wondering what I could get him for a gift for his car that he'd like. any ideas?

Sweet car! It really depends because I don't know what kinda things he already has. Chrome exhaust tips, or neons..anything like that would be sweet. If you don't know what kinda stuff he already has, get him a gift certificate to auto zone or a car store so he can pick out what he wants! I hope I helped- and feel free to leave anything else in my inbox!
♥Jennifer

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why cnt i stop mastubating?? Everytime i finish an cum i always feel bad about myself but during its great! what rong wid me?

Honestly- there is nothing wrong with you. It's perfectly normal for girls especially to feel gulity about it. Just so you know though- there is nothing wrong with what you are doing and no reason to feel gulity. It's a prefectly normal way to pleasure yourself without having sex and putting yourself at risk of pregnancy and/or std's. Hope I helped!
-Jennifer

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hey, any tips on how to make my man cum really quickly?

Talk to him and ask him what kind of things he likes. While you are doing stuff with him- ask him what feels best, and how you can make it better for him. Communication really is the key to good sexual advances. ;)
-Jennifer

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In your opinion, what is the best kind of condoms to use? Which have worked the best for you? Thanks!

Trojan are a good brand. Those, and LifeStyles are both pretty dependable, or so I've heard. =)
-Jennifer

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Is it okay to have sex on your period?

Well, yeah. It's okay to have sex on your period, but I wouldn't recommend it. That would probably be very messy and gross.
-Jennifer

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ok well ive been going out with this guy for a while..(im 15 and hes 17). weve talked about sex and we both really want to do it. any advice on how to prepare or anything else? thank you!

Awh thats cute! Just make sure you're both ready, because that's what matters..and use protection! Good luck hun!
-Jennifer

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Have you ever had sex? If so, what was it like having sex for the first time?

This is something that's very personal- so if you want to talk to me about it or if you need advice- IM me on AIM. *SmoothiesFknRock*
-Jennifer

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i had sex for the first time today...and well my b/f new i was a virgin and everything...it hurt so bad...and i started bleeding really bad...im guessing it was my cherry...but from everyone i have talked to...there isnt that much blood...there was blood all over the condom all over my legs...and everywhere...it was soo nasty...was it just my cherry...or was it sumthin else??

Like everyone else has been saying, it was probably just the cherry popping. Every girl bleeds a different amount. If it keeps happening tho- then something isn't right and you should get help.

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is masterbating unhealthy??

Not at all. Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Most people do masturbate even if they won't admit it. Masturbation is a way for people to be sexual without actually having sex. It's perfectly safe and a perfectly normal thing for people to do. =] No worries and have fun!

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17-F i went over this boys house today his name is Dan. well he wanted to do stuff with me like give him head, hand jobs stuff like that and I said no but the next thing I know he's on top of me like humping. We have all our clothes on. and he's going faster and faster by the second. so my question is that sex or dry humping??

Dry sex and Sex (Intercourse) are two very different things. During actual sex, the penis actually goes INSIDE the woman's vagina. Dry sex is where there are no fluids exchanged between the people. It's like you said, alot of humping and even riding eachother, but with clothes or even just underware on. So no, you and him did not have sex. Hope I helped you out!

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iv had sex but it hurt at the begging then it felt good...is it posible for me to rip a little?if so what do i do?

Yes, you might have ripped a little but don't worry it will heal up in time. It only gets better too- so don't worry about it hurting every time. You probably just needed to stretch out a little the first time. Things should be better from here on out. Just remember to be safe and use protection. *hehe*

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im so toatally straight but is it ok for me to get horny by lookin at naked women on porn sites?

Yeah, lots of girls do that even tho they won't admit that they do. It's perfectly normal.

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