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Whats up Ya'll, my name is Sara and what else can I say except the obviouse..Im here to help you! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Daniel for about 2 and 1/2 years now...and my GOODNESS have we been throught it ALL, anything you can think of, trust issues, love, hurt, fights, happiness, anniversary planning, trips, breaking up and making up...and not to mention he is my best friend and my partner in crime for LIFE!! So if you want a guys perspective, were the duo. I play the guitar, the flute and I love to sing, I even have a C.D. and I am a passionate painter. So yeah...Im always bored cuz I live in a little cow town for college right now, so Ill get to your questions FAST. No worries...Ive heard it all, and seen it all and my friends and I have been through everything too...so ya'll just FIRE AWAY!!!

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we did it like 2 weeks ago and she been feeling nasuaes and stomich cramps,i'm not sure wat to do i'm 17 and shes 15

Well, the best advice I can give you is to take a pregnancy test, alot of times it can just be her nerves...you know when your nervouse about something how your stomache can freak out on ya?? I know mine does...maybe just the thought of being pregnant is freaking her out. But, like I said, there is really only one sure fire way to know whats going on with that tummy or not, and that is to take the pregnancy test. If she's not, you guys lucked out! Just use more precausions next time, although the only way to actually completely prevent this is by not having sex. My best friend has been pregnant twice, one she used a condom, and the other she used the pill....But she STILL got pregnant. Now she has the most beautiful baby girl I have EVER seen and couldnt be happier. Its hard at first, Im not gonna lie, but if she is pregnant, congratulations, life is so precious. Just remember that abortion isnt always the right answer, my friend doesnt have two little ones because she chose not to have the first one...and it has haunted her ever since. Not to mention the physical and mental risks that are involved. but if you find you cant take care of a new life, I believe in adoption...But what the heck, you dont even know for sure yet!! : ) Sorry I rambled!! Im bad at that, and I really hope that things do work out for you two.... Please let me know how it goes!! And thanks for asking me, hope that I helped.

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hi,my penis is not streight and its allways one side like left side,i dont know,what to do, is thier any excersice to make streight and is thier any cure for that,please help me and tell me is that thing can creat any consicounsess.is it bad,?tell me
thanx

Its normal to have a crooked guy...Im sorry but there isnt anything that you can do about it...they come in all shapes and sizes. BBut there is a very bright size to this...ALOT of woman actually PREFER a penis thats like yours rather than a straight one...during sex, you can hit places in side of her that most guys cant...so dont look at it as a burden, in the eyes of many MANY girls, your not so centered member is a blessing! (Besides, if you look at most dildos or vibrators now adays, they all have a little curve to them...so its gotta be doin' something!!) Good luck and feel better, I hope that I helped..if you have anymore questions just ask me!

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Really this is awkward for me. alot.
Like i dont even know hwo to word this, its just some thing ive wondered.
But Do you girls ever release discharge while being fingered. and doesnt the guy find that gross to the extreme. Why doesnt a guy find it gross to finger a girl just is a little... i dont know.. "gooey?". ANd how many of you girls release dischage? Is it alot? Does it effect your sexual relationships? ANd do guys ever finger a girl and think, EW MY FINGERS SMELL AWKWARD. Yes this is really embarrasing, and awkward, but i would really like anserws seriously.

Actually, you're functioning perfectly normal and healthy if this happens...its saposed to. Just like when a guy is sexually aroused his penis fills with blood and he gets and erection, the same sort of thing happens to a girl. When she is stimulated, blood also rushes down under..her lips become a deeper color of purple and the clitoris becomes larger (just a bit mind you) and protrudes. Also...You get WET! Look at it like this..the guy doesnt just get an erection for the hell of it...it happens because his body is getting him ready to have sex, and it would be a little hard if not impossible to insert a limp penis. It has to be hard to enter the vagina...your body is doing the same thing when you discharge when you become aroused...Its giving lubrication to the area that the penis will enter, so that it can do it less painfully and enter with more ease. (Its practically like rubber against rubber if your not wet..and let me say OUCH!!) Although I have NEVER talked to a guy who didnt become aroused by the idea of a girl getting wet..(I mean, they know they must be doing SOMETHING right if they get that bodily responce from you...and besides, what guy wouldnt be aroused by the idea that YOU'RE getting aroused) Im sure there are a couple out there that do freak out. But girls in general look at it different from a guy, cuz we deal with it every day...(you're not all that facinated with boobs are ya? We got 'em....so there not that big of a deal to us ) But yeah, no worries...most EVERY GUY IN THE WORLD thinks its a total turn on... I promise...sorry I wrote you a book here, I didnt mean to go on and on like this...I hope I helped you! let me know how I did and how things go with you!!!

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I have a boyfriend and hes awesome and everyhting and we KNOW we are SO gonna have sex VERY soon and ya any tips or advice 4 the first time over here :$ lol haha ya I'm 13 yrs old and my bf is 13 and we're both virgins

I don't want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah Please just some advice for a virgain

Okay, hun I dont even care if you give me a bad rating or give the other girls the same rating on here, but they are all right. 13, I cant even comprehend WHY you would want to have sex at such a young age.....it is such an important thing and is taken way to lightly now adays...that is one thing that discusts me about todays society. Im 19 and have had a boyfriend for almost 3 years and we havnt had sex. no lie! I have a little sister...and shes even older than you are, I cant even imagine her going on a date yet, let alone having sex....please understand that were not trying to pick on you or dissapoint you...the reason that me and the others before me say anything about this is because we care. Were older than you and have more life experience...and let me tell you now, you are going to regret this...I know you are probably going to rate us all bad and say "I told you not to answer unless you had good advise" but honey, this IS good advise...and you obviously know what the right thing to do is, seeing as you put in your actual question what you thought others would say (I dont want you to say you should wait you're making a mistake your too young blah blah blah...) Please, dont go do something to please some boy, or be cool....13..wow, I hadnt even had my first peck at that age...

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Hi, I have been trying for awhile to figure out how to make my vagina more attractive. When I shave I get razor bumps and the removal of hair doesn't seem to last very long. I haven't tried waxing but I'm a bit scared of the pain. And I would rather not go somewhere to get it done because that's kind of embarassing having someone go down their and fix the mess. Please help me find the answer to my problem, I am now willing to try ANYTHING. Thanks a lot.

I was terified to get a brazzilian wax...but hey, i did...so the verdict????Yep, pretty much hurt, but not as much as I expected....the pain was like a sharp pinch but it was over quikly after each strip was pulled. The hardest part was the thickist patch in the middle, oh my goodness....I actually yelled "MOTHER!" but once again it was over with quik..and the results were well worth it! as for shaving, I do prefer that, but to help get rid of bumps, they make special bikinni creams for that problem to eliminate ichiness and irritation, one is called "Bikinni Zone". Another tip I find helpful is when you first go to shave, go WITH the grain of your hair growth..in other words if it grows down, then shave downward untill you cant get anymore hair by shaving that direction...if you still feel stuble, THEN you shave LIGHTLY AGAINST the grain...this helps me alot and keeps me smooth...never dry shave, and a nice pretty style to keep in mind if you dont want to shave ALL your hair off is the landing strip, or racing stripe. Just shave everything except for a thin line of hair going down the middle. I hope that I helped...(I would go for the wax...but hey) And let me know if I helped at all!!!! Good luck!

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ok well my girlfriend and i were ina movie theatre she gave me a handjob and i cummed. then about 10 min later i went to the bathroom and washed my hands and the about 10 min after taht i fingered her im really worried she said her stomach hurts and her boobs are hard let me know guys

Good news hun, shes not pregnant...sperm doesnt last but a minute outside the human body, and even still, you washed your hands..no worries she's fine...if anything she ate bad popcorn or shes about to start her period...cramps happen, but when your pregnant, not untill WAAAYYY after youve conceived..like months...so have no fear guys, no babies on the way! I hope I helped, let me know how I did, and I hope you two have a good one!

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