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My name is Chrissie.im seventeen. I'm a sophmore at keystone oaks. i'm going to a trade school for cosmetology, its what im super into, so i know alot about that if you need it.(: i get screwed over by boys aloot.. and i change my mind often which is never a good thing. i went through alot of stuff, stuff you wouldnt even believe, and im not gonna sit here and complain i have a bad life, cause i dont. everything got so much better and i just wanna try to help people with stuff i got through so they can get better too. (=
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Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. Me and my gay bestfriend hungout the other day and got drunk together alone. Me and my gay bestfriend had sex. For like 1 minute then I stopped and said I cant do this. We were both really drunk and didnt know what we were doing. And I really love my boyfriend and if I tell him he will dump me and beat my bestfriends ass and I dont want that too happen. But I cant have sex with my boyfriend now not thinking about what I did with my gay bestfriend. What should I do?
okay so by now i hope you know that your boyfriend has to know about this. If he finds out about this from someone eles its going to be so much worse. He has gonna know this was a mistake casue if your bestfriend is gay then obviously it wasnt spost to happen. you have been together for a long time im sure hes going to understand, but he will be mad, and you should understand hes not going to let you get drunk alone with anyone anymore. its gonna take awhile for him to trust you again casue hes just gonna be scared its gonna happen again. but you should get him alone and tell him everything your thinking, have a talk and just work it out. good luck.
me and my boyfriend (both 16) have tried having sex quite a few times with a few problems
first it didnt go in because we thought i was too tight
but now it doesnt seem to go in because it like bends?
i asked him if he wasnt hard enough and he just said idk kind of embarrassed so i didn't push the conversation
anyone have any ideas?
okay ive had this problem before its really embarrising, its probably soft casue hes nervs. buttt umm you have to turn him on more, like do more forplay and stuff. im gonna tell you some things that drive my boyfriend crazzzzzzyy when i do them.
okay so, i think this might sound weird all my friends think it wouldnt work but my boyfriend always tells me how much it works, lol, bit his ear. lol like nibble on it and breath softly in it. its amazing! and then go from his ear to his neck, like behind his neck and down his collarbone and just kiss him. you can also like tease him, like rub his hipbone before going down his pants and just like lightly run your fingertips around that area. it will work dont worry. (=
Okay, well I'm a virgin. But i like to try and get as much pleasure as i can from my guy. And we were together tonight, and he fingered me reallyyy hard. and gave me oral. And we do it all the time, and everythings okay. But when i got home, i was really uncomortable. and i went to the bathroom and looked down. and my left vagina lip was sooo swollen. I'd say like three times bigger than normal. This never happened to me before, I don't know what it could be? And it burns when i go to the bathroom, its really uncomfortable, and rubs up against my leg and really hurts. Its gross, and embarassing. Can anyone tell me what it is? thank you!
well i honestly dont know what it is, but i had that exact thing happen to me like a year ago. i went to the doctors for it and they didnt help at all. they didnt tell me what it was they just said it would go away. so if you try to ignore it just for a little im pretty sure it will go away on its own like it did for me. I think its from like.. friction, like it was to hard and it irratated you. But if it doesnt go away on its own, go to a doctor and see if they can help you. my doctor might have just been retarded. (:
hope i helped.
okay last night i had "sex" for the first time.? but im not sure if you would call it sex. the head of his penis was in, but thats it cause the rest wouldnt fit. could you tell me if thats sex and what is actually considered sex? like, is it when the whole thing is in or what?
thanks!
What i have heard is that sex is when the penis is fully inside of the vagina and he pops your cherry. Its not considered sex untill the cherry is actually popped. When you Do what your doing it basicly preperation. Alot of girls have to do this before they are ready for sex. casue vagina is just not ready to expand so quick haha. Some girls have to do this more than once. SO basicly im answering your question no. its not sex yet.
hope this helps. IF you need anything eles please ask!!
okay to start off,
1. im a virgin
2. my cherry is not yet popped.
me and my boyfriend were fooling around and i was giving him a lapdance in panties while he was wearing boxers. we were just doing that but then he said he was starting to get wet so we should stop because precum could leak through so we stopped. My stomach has hurt crampwise really bad the past 3 days like i'm about to get my period but its not happening. usualy after i get cramps for a day i get my period the next. i'm not sure of the exact date im supposed to get my period but its sometime around this time. whats going on with this? i'm so confused.
There is a Really small chance your Pregnant from that. cum has to get into the vagina to get you pregnant. and if it was going through two layers of cloths. and it was only free cum. i doubt that your pregnant.
How long ago did you do this.
and i am so sure You dont get symptoms that quick.
Your proably just paranoid. i know it seems that way i went through the same think you did =]
Just wait a while and im sure you will get it.
But if it takes a while.
You should get a home pregnancy test.
But when i went through this. i took it to soon. and wasted my money for nothing.
But i would say you have nothign to worry about. =]
Alright, so I'm 15/F, my boyfriend is almost 17/M. We've talked about losing our virginities to each other alot over the past month, and he wants me to wait until I'm perfectly ready. He said he wanted my first time [he doesnt really care about losing his] to be as special as ever and that if I wanted to plan it or whatever, for me to take as long as I need.
The thing is.. I don't care about my virginity now, but I don't want to regret it later. I love this boy, and I want to invest alot of my life on him, even if we aren't "together forever".
How can I make my first time special? It'll be at his house, most likely, when no one's home.
Also, I'd really appreciate it if you could tell me the story of your first time, and how that went.
Thanks.
OKAY..=]
well im 15 too. and i lost mine last year. with a boy im still with.. he was exactly like yours is. saying i want it to be special and i want you to be happy all of that =]
the fact was.. it waset special.. we ment for it to be but by the time i said yes. we were into it to much and i was like go for it.. his parents were down stairs. but he was sweet and put on nice music and turned of the lights and if your both going to be virgins.. go slow casue it will be quick ahah..
its going to proably hurt. and he will cum fast.
but thats how it is the first time. mine wasent really secial but i wouldnt trade it for the world
=D
some ideas to make it Special are hard to say.. aha.. there is not much you can do.. go to dinner that day.. at a niceish place.. make sure everything just in a happy mood. not much you can do but a nice surprize he should do would be like just as you walk in the door.. dont turn on the lights. close your eyes and have him lead you upstairs. have love song ons.. you know the sad songs that just make you wanna cry.. dont rip your cloths of just take thm off of eachother slowley.when your the mood touching eachother is more sensitive.. so lightly brush your fingers over eachother before. trust me it feels amazing.. maybe he can even give you a message =] if he is good at those. and just go slow.. were a condom!! and make sure its like wet.. lubed..
casue you will be tight and it will be easer to go it. and after just lay in eahothers arms.. fall asleep.. and wake up..and feed eachother a sweet cake lol =D i always loved that..
kay hope thats good for you. =]
How long should I wait after sex to get an accurate result for a pregnancy test?
Uh i guess you should wait Till after your missed Period. Thats the best time. =]
is it possible to get pregnant having buttsex
Yes it is. I don't know how but i know you can. If he Cums RIGHT into you you can
im a m/15 when i masterbate i only get pre cum so how long should i keep doing it before i get actual cum to come out?
uh. If you don't come maybe you don't like it. Maybe you should try somthing new to help you come faster. A new tecqnic. =] But you should't just stop before you come. Its Unhealty. Try using some lubercant and do it untill you " explode" =]
Planning to have sex for the first time this weekend.
Im just a little nervous.
Mostly about what if the condom comes off or breaks and i end up getting pregnant.
Any advice or tips about Sex for the first time.
Make sure you really want to do it before you acually want to. Make sure its what you always wanted and its special.. If you don't you'll regret it. When i fist had sex with my boyfriend(who i'm still with[for a long time now]) i never regreted it was with him. Becasue i love him and i know he loves me. And i;m sure your boyfriend loves you. But i always regreted that it wasn't what i wanted. It was in his room with his mom downstiars and cloths on. Not the perfect dream i always dreamed of. And if your carefull it really wont come off. If your worried about getting pregnate you might want to buy some "spermiside"