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Hey...Im sabrina.
Im 18, I may be young, but i have been through many things i thought would never in a lifetime happen to me! I try to give the best advice i can, so feel free to ask me anything!
*Bri*

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Okay. I've been with my boyfriend for over two years. Well my last period was 11/9. Well its now 12/9. So its only two days late, but I'm still kinda worried. I mean, mine are late bc I'm not on BC or anything. But I just I'm kinda freaked out. He said we used something everytime. I'm trying not to worry bc I know that can make it late too. I looked up signs and symptoms and everyone I have, (sour breast, tiredness, and late period)it says that other reasons are stress and your about to start. I have only 3 out of 25 signs, so I'm thinking things are on my side. Which stress is true, because its basketball season and I always stress about it, haha. And I also could be starting. I think I'm having cramps but idk.


any help maybe?

Hey,
i honestly dont think you need to worry!
Really! your just stressing yourself out by thinking about it all the time...its happened to me, i was 3 weeks late because i stressed sooo much, and finally when i calmed down and stopped thinking about it my period came. so just take a deep breath and stop worrying i really really dont think you habe anything to worry about!
:)
*Bri*

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Hi, I'm 14 and me and my girl have been dating for about a month and a half and I want to know if girls are comfortable with being eatin out or felt up or should I just stick to kissing?? Thanks, justin

I really think you are too young to try that sexual of things.
your young and your girlfriend is prob the same age, and i may be wrong but she probably would be uncomfortable with that, so i would stick to kissing, making out.
Hope this helped
*Bri*

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If you have se at 15 can the boy get arrested even if he was 15 also? Im not having sex but people say they can go to jail for 20 years and stuff.....

IF you are both 15 than no.
If he were 18 than yes.

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So two weeks after school started my brother, who's a sophmore tells me that the senior boys are going after the prettiest freshmen girls this year(PS- I never told my friends)....like sex.... well 2 of the freshmens have already done it with 2 of the seniors.... i have family friend who is a senior boy and he is majorly cute...and fit...and well i have a little crush on him......well all of a sudden he starts hanging around me.... he sits by me at lunch.... and recently he gave me a candy cane gram and it said "I like you a lot. Your different then most girls. Your beautiful." And then I started liking him a lot more.. Like boyfriend more. But my friends know the rumor and they don't trust him......i told them he's been a family friend for a long time. They told me he'd have sex with me then dump me. And now I barely talk. He will start a conversation and ill try to end it quickly. Then he keeps asking me why!!Im so confused on what to do....i feel if i tell him about the rumor, he'll think i wont trust or i thought hes been lying this hole time and never talk to me. and i also feel if i dont do anything my friends will be pissed at me..or not want to hang around me!HElp?!?

ps. 14/f
sorry its long

First of all, seniors dont hate freshman!
most of them are just annoying and immature.
anyways i do think you should tell him about the rumor to see what he has to say..
but honestly, you are only 14 and he's what 17, maybe 18...that equals a bad situation.

I dont think you should focus on someone so much older and just concentrate on your friends and people your age. :)
*Bri*

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hi i gave my boyfriend head about 3 months ago and my throat still hurts i went to the doctor about two months ago and she told me i had a sinus infection and gave me medicine i took all except one because i dropped it on the floor so i threw it away but i was wondering if i got an std from my boyfriend or if im still sick thank you love madison:)

It could be possible you contracted an STD but the only real way of knowing is to get tested.
you could very well just be sick also...
but i would see your doc. again just to be on the safe side...
*Bri*

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dont hate me for asking this, but if a girl were having sex with a guy, and it was really physical, and she sucked his penis, what would it taste like?

It does'nt taste like anything.
honestly...
And its not gross either...
plus most of the time your so caught up in the moment that it does'nt really matter and you just go for it lol
but you dont have anything to worry about.
just make sure your completely ready :)
*Bri*

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so... my boyfriend and i are probably going to have sex pretty soon, and i don't know if i'm supposed to be shaving or waxing or anything down there.. i heard somewhere that you can just leave it but i don't know what most people do. i don't want him to be grossed out or anything if i just leave it how it is. please help, thanks

well do you have any hints as to what he likes down there??
Most older guys just like girls to be cleaned up.
but honestly i think you should just talk to him, or hint around the subject to see if you can get the answer your looking for.
I shave, completely, just because its so much cleaner, and easier but just do what your comfortable with, and if he really loves you, he wont really care.
:)
Hope i helped
*Bri*

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Ok. I know everyone is going to say that I am to young for this. Well I am a 14/f and I had sex for the very first time. I am not on the pill and I think I might be pregnant. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and i thought i was ready. We used a condom but he put it on inside out. It has been 2 weeks after we had sex and i am feeling uncomfortable. I have not had my period yet and i have been feeling sick everyday. I do not know if i am pregnant and i do not know how to tell my boyfriend please help!

Honestly, its probably just the stress getting to you.
the more you think about it, and stress over the situation you will miss your period.
its happened to me.
so just take a deep breath...and try not to think about it. im sure you will be ok.
but if you are that stressed wait another week, and take a pregnancy test...
just relax.
hope everything turns out ok!
*Bri*

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17/f
what are you suppose to do while having sex? like where do you put your hands on the guy, i just think it would be really awkward! im still a virgin but i have a boyfriend of a year and a half, and im ready then ever. i just want it to be perfect. anything else i need to know? thank you!!

well missy..
its really hot when a guy is on top and you put your hands on his shoulder blades/back...

ha i thought it was going to be awkward to..
but once you get going, things just come natural.

be sure your completely ready and comfortable
:)
*Bri*

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I hav eonly had sex once and it was 2 years ago...well me and my boyfriend plan on having sex now and I am scared its gonna be like the first time any suggestions?

If your last time was 2 years ago, then yes it is going to be like the first...
it is still going to hurt.
but if your comfortable with it
do girl on top...
because you can control how fast
and deep he goes in you.
:)
do some foreplay before.
to get ya going...

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is oral too kinky? and how DO you do it lol? im so nervous to try it but i wanna i just dont wanna be bad at it...and do guys actually want to give oral?

17/f

ha..na its not too kinky..
i honestly like to do it.

and yes guys actually love giving it also..
shocking i know :)

well, doing it is easy...
ill tell you how i do it.
grab it with your hand...
and like lick the tip.
and slide it in your mouth...
dont use your teeth lol
and while your going up and down with your mouth, use your hand at the same time.

its really not hard once you get going.

but do not feel pressured to do it.
do it on your own terms
:)
*BRI*

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This is awkward and if you answer you dont have to go into detail but my boyfriend wants to have sex with me on top and idk how to.

Dont send me urls or stuff to google i just need tips so i can have a bit of an idea of what im doing.

thanks

well missy...
i was so nervous
to try this to, cause i did'nt know how either...
but its really good because you can control how fast and deep he goes in you.
but you can do it with him lying down, or sitting up...
but basically you just get on top of him and you put his penis in you, and rock or slide back and forth, kind of arch your back and use your hips...
and when your on top he can also help bt thrusting underneath...
:)
dont be nervous...hope i helped
*Bri*

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17/m
which do women or teenagers find most attractive
a circumsised or uncircumsised penis
i am deciding wether or not to be circumsised so i wantto know

CIRCUMSIZED all the way :)

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when people ask me to play 20 questions sex version, i can't really think of anything good.
i'm a girl. guys ask me. just to get that out there.
and stuff more than, have you jacked off, watched porn, came.
you know.
i'm just not good at this game. but i have a very sick mind, so i don't know why i can't think of anything good.

ask stuff like favorit sex positions..
craziest place they've had sex...
worst experience...
funniext experience....
:)

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18 years old female
i would like to know if you think he is joking or not, please dont judge me or tell me what or what not to do.

here's a little background, you must know.
i have a best friend. he is 17. we've known each other for about 3 years. he has a girlfriend of two years. i've always liked him, and im sure he knows that. this was his first girlfriend. they do everything together and i mean EVERYTHING (if you know what i mean) well im still a virgin, never done anything except madeout with two guys. me and my best friend drifted after he started going out with his girlfriend, and it really depressed me. we didnt talk or see each other for two months straight. i know im in love with this kid, and well tonight i got a text from him saying "wanna fuck" and he never randomly texts me saying that so i was like who is this! and he was like wow really, this is nick! and i was like no it's not. we havent talked for two months and you randomly text me saying that? and so i found out it really was him, i think he was kidding. but then we got on the subject of boys and i was like "i never get any action, or i havent gotten any in awhile" and he was like ha because i havent been giving any to you. and i was like i know nick why cant you give it to me and he was like i asked if you wanted to fuck and i was like hell yeah i want to fuck you. and he was like ok lets do it and i was like you wouldnt be able to handle me and he was like yeah right why not. and i was like i have a side to me you have never seen ;) and i was like im NOTHING like your girlfriend. and he was like why cant i see this side of you then and i was like oh you will, and i was like i will be better than your girlfriend ever will be and he was like ha ok!!! and then i was like ahhh i love you best friend and he was like love you tooo! and then that was it.

keep in mind that he tried fingering me and getting down my pants a few months ago but i just couldnt let him do that, because i KNOW he is not a player. but the bad thing is i have a really reallly strong feeling he isnt joking about the sex thing, and im not either. i would do it with him if he was being serious. i know its wrong, he has a girlfriend. but seriously ive waited for two years, im fed up. he is the ONLY guy i can ever see myself doing anything with.

what do you guys think?

This is tough, but i dont think you should go for it...i know its not what you want to hear. but if you know he is a player, and that he is doing this behind his girlfriends back...isnt the best idea.
The fact that he has a girlfriend, and is like this towards you, makes me think he would'nt hesitate to turn around and do it to you...
i know you really like him, so its truly up to you, but i honestly think he just wants to have sex with you..thats it...
im sorry...
hope i helped at all
*Bri*

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okay so heres the deal. I have this bestfriend whose been my bestfriend for a few years. He's 19 im 17/f. Well he just got out of a relationship a while ago and has been joking around about having sex. He did this before when he had a girlfriend. Well today he asked me and he's like im serious. And he's been so persistent all day. Hes been asking where and when and everything. And i think i may like him a lot, i dont know if i love him seeing as ive never been in love. But ive wanted this for a long time. Do you think he's just doing this because he's trying to get over his past relationship? I dont know im so confused. He wants me to sneak out with him tonight, hes staying at my house so idk. Any advice or comments would be nice

I know how your feeling, and you probably dont want to hear this, but he probably is just using you for sex, i mean it would'nt be like a hit it and quit it situation because you are such good friends...but just think, do you think something will come of it if you do have sex? like a relationship...or is it just a night of sex...?
its truly up to you...but just think about it a lil...
:)
*bri*

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im planning on having sex for the first time in a couple weeks, of course with my boyfriend of a year who i love very much. anyways i have my bellybutton pierced and i was just wondering if i should take it out while having sex? like could it interfere with anything, get caught on something? is there also anything else i should know other than it's going to hurt!! :|

I have my bellybutton pierced, and when i had sex with my ring (a dangly one), it was perfectly fine...and my guy thought it was really hot...
i say keep it in :)

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I want to do a little more with my bf of 5 months, but I don't want to actually have sex, right now all we do is make out and kiss and stuff. But I want to do more sexual stuff but I don't know how to initiate it or anything because I am kinda shy... any advice?

well..
when you guys are making out, and getting really into it, like rub his inner thigh, or put your hands in his shirt and rub his back...and lead it to like a hand job, or fingering...
maybe?
hope it helps.

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how soon can you take a pregnancy test. im really getting scared now. i had sex last week friday. i had my boyfriend put it in without a condom for about 5 strokes and i just read this thing about "precum"??
anyway is it too soon to tel????
thanx

theres a slight chance that your boyfriend even pre-cummed, but even if he did theres only a small chance you could get pregnant...and if you stress about it you'll miss your period.
which will make you stress more, so dont think about it too much or stress about it and you should be fine, but if you really want to take one wait until your about a week late...

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okay so on august 20th me and my boyfriend almost had unprotected sex, my first time. i was about to stick it in, and it kinda just got the tip in. then i took it out because we had no protection. it was not in the whole way, and was hardly in at all, like maybe 1/4 of the tip was in. i'm 9 days late for my period and i'm so scared i'm pregnant. i'm 14 years old and i can't have a baby right now. my period is usually late but has never been this late before. it wasn't sex, and he's not even sure if he pre cumed or not. i read online that if you masturbated and then pee'd there is little sperm in your pre cum. he masturbated that morning and peed before it happened. what is the possibility that i can be pregnant. i haven't had morning sickness or anything, i feel normal exept for my breasts hurt but they always do before i'm getting my period. could i have an infection or something? on October 5th i lost my virginity but we used protection and it only lasted like 30 seconds because it hurt so bad, and he didn't finish, and the condom didn't break. is it usual that my periods this late? help me i really need advice and answers!
thank you so much!

You most likely are not pregnant.
your just stressing!
and this ia causeing you to be late, its happened to me to, but i was 3 weeks late.
the only thing to really do is try not to think about it...
:)

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