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oral
is oral too kinky? and how DO you do it lol? im so nervous to try it but i wanna i just dont wanna be bad at it...and do guys actually want to give oral?
17/f
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ha..na its not too kinky..
i honestly like to do it.
and yes guys actually love giving it also..
shocking i know :)
well, doing it is easy...
ill tell you how i do it.
grab it with your hand...
and like lick the tip.
and slide it in your mouth...
dont use your teeth lol
and while your going up and down with your mouth, use your hand at the same time.
its really not hard once you get going.
but do not feel pressured to do it.
do it on your own terms
:)
*BRI*
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Oral is a natural and normal sex act between couples. However, you shouldn't feel pressured to do it. It's an act of love and trust and you should wait until you feel comfortable. Otherwise you'll feel awkward and weird and you don't deserve that.
As for the guys doing it, frankly, I wouldn't recommend giving a male oral unless he was willing to give it first. Sex is not about pleasing men, it's about both people pleasing each other. And good men and good lovers not only like giving oral, they take pride in doing it well.
When he goes down on you, gently let him know if he needs to do something different and just relax. Guys love the smell and taste, so don't be concerned. Also don't worry if it takes awhile for you to finish. It can take up to 20 minutes.
When you give oral, it can feel like it's taking a long time too, so fair is fair. It's hard to be bad at giving oral. In fact, I personally find it ridiculous when women claim to be good at it. It's not that difficult. Just don't use your teeth, don't go so deep you feel uncomfortable (no matter what) and alternate what you're doing if you get tired, using your hand or going slow or fast or using suction or whatever. Seriously, males are easy to please.
You'll know when it's the right time because you'll be in love, you'll know he loves you and wants to make you happy and a genuine moment will come where you don't feel strange about it. Moreover, you'll know you're ready because you're not doing it to make him like you, you're doing it because he already does and you want to make him as happy as he makes you.
If that time is not now, then it's not now. I know a lot of girls your age talk about oral sex, but it's very, very normal to feel nervous like you are feeling.
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