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best friend, or something more?
18 years old female
i would like to know if you think he is joking or not, please dont judge me or tell me what or what not to do.
here's a little background, you must know.
i have a best friend. he is 17. we've known each other for about 3 years. he has a girlfriend of two years. i've always liked him, and im sure he knows that. this was his first girlfriend. they do everything together and i mean EVERYTHING (if you know what i mean) well im still a virgin, never done anything except madeout with two guys. me and my best friend drifted after he started going out with his girlfriend, and it really depressed me. we didnt talk or see each other for two months straight. i know im in love with this kid, and well tonight i got a text from him saying "wanna fuck" and he never randomly texts me saying that so i was like who is this! and he was like wow really, this is nick! and i was like no it's not. we havent talked for two months and you randomly text me saying that? and so i found out it really was him, i think he was kidding. but then we got on the subject of boys and i was like "i never get any action, or i havent gotten any in awhile" and he was like ha because i havent been giving any to you. and i was like i know nick why cant you give it to me and he was like i asked if you wanted to fuck and i was like hell yeah i want to fuck you. and he was like ok lets do it and i was like you wouldnt be able to handle me and he was like yeah right why not. and i was like i have a side to me you have never seen ;) and i was like im NOTHING like your girlfriend. and he was like why cant i see this side of you then and i was like oh you will, and i was like i will be better than your girlfriend ever will be and he was like ha ok!!! and then i was like ahhh i love you best friend and he was like love you tooo! and then that was it.
keep in mind that he tried fingering me and getting down my pants a few months ago but i just couldnt let him do that, because i KNOW he is not a player. but the bad thing is i have a really reallly strong feeling he isnt joking about the sex thing, and im not either. i would do it with him if he was being serious. i know its wrong, he has a girlfriend. but seriously ive waited for two years, im fed up. he is the ONLY guy i can ever see myself doing anything with.
what do you guys think?
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This is tough, but i dont think you should go for it...i know its not what you want to hear. but if you know he is a player, and that he is doing this behind his girlfriends back...isnt the best idea.
The fact that he has a girlfriend, and is like this towards you, makes me think he would'nt hesitate to turn around and do it to you...
i know you really like him, so its truly up to you, but i honestly think he just wants to have sex with you..thats it...
im sorry...
hope i helped at all
*Bri*
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if you think hes not joking then hang out with him alone and see what happens and if it does then so be it and if not then he probably isnt right for youu.
hope i helppedd(:
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Well he doesn't sound like a player. And if he's your best friend, why don't you talk to him. Ask him if he is serious, etc. sorry if that didn't help much. Just don't give up yet.
xoxChels
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I don't think he is playing i think you hould tell him to go with you to the movies or something or to your house and then there we go
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