Question Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 11:00 pm
17/f
okay yes im a virgin. only KISSED one guy before, thats alll
anyways whenever i get horny or just plain turned on, i get this feeling in my vagina.
it feels like it tenses up and it really hurts. i dont know what this is? and i get reallly reallly wet. does this happen to anyone else? what would the tense feeling be and WHEN IM READY to have sex, would this feeling interfere with anything? im inexperienced as you can tell in the "sexual area"
well thank you!!
If it hurts and it really wet and tense then it will probably not interfere with sex. Probably sex will make it feel better. I think this is what is called "aching for sex." Your body is ready, even if your mind is not, which is perfectly fine.
Granted, the first time generally sucks and sometimes the second one too, which is why you have to be with a guy you trust and care about who will go as slow and gentle as you need to. But after that, well, I'd say you're in for a good time.
Unless the pain is making you cry or nauseous or stings or is sharp. If any of those things are happening I'd go to a doctor. But if it's a tight tense throbbing feeling, I wouldn't worry. I think you're going to discover you're a sexual person because those are signals your body is looking for some sexual release. Try masturbation. [ Kendra_Berri's advice column | Ask Kendra_Berri A Question ]
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