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i am 15 years old, i am a virgin but i have done every thing else, i have a few questions 1. i have dis charge i know that is normal and it is always clear but some times it smells like right after my period is there somthing wrong?
2. when im not on my period i stick a lil bit of toilet paper there.. will that hurt me?
3. is sperm dead when air contacts it? idunno random quetsion but my friend said that but i wasnt sure
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yeah its normal to get that.. and you should get this stuff ( i have it ) called Summers Eve.. you use it in the shower.. and its a lot better then soup cause it wont burn or anything..
insted of using toliet paper.. you should use a light panty liner.. and if you wear thongs.. use the ones for thongs.. there actually really cheap..
and i looked up the 3rd question for you and once spearm dries up.. like for instince its on your pillow case.. and it dries.. it is dead.. and it dries verry quickly
http://www.mainefamilyplanning.org/docs/ask_counselor/questions_14.php
go to that site if you have any more questions about that 3rd question if i didnt answer it in that much detail.. its like in the first section topic..
hope i helped
linds
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ok umm...this is kinda weird...but is it like totaly wrong to think that my cousin is like INCREDIBLY hott? like...he came to vsit for christmas and iwas practicallly druling over him and like...is it bad that i would totaly want to go out with him if i was older and not his cousin?
sorry its kinda akward
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i dont think that is wrong to think your cousin is hott.and you said.. if you werent his cousin you would go out with him.. why would that be wrong? ahha
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When i shave uh "down there" why does it get really itchy and bumpy. it sometimes hurts really bad, is there something that i am doing wrong? (link)
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yeah .. you should get nair.. but dont put it inside your thing.. cause that will hurt realllyyyyy bad.. just put it where theres hair.. or stubbles.. leave it on for 5-7 minutes and then go in the shower and shave it off..
the reason why its itchy might be beacause you had a lot of hair there.. so if you get some of it off with the nair.. then its a lot easier and smoother..
yeah i didnt explain that well how to do it.. leave the nair on and after the 7 or whatever minutes are up.. (while the nair is on) shave it off..
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sometimes it depends what kind of razor you have..
venus razors work really good because they dont cut you as easliy as others..
hope i helpeddd
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what is a booty call? (link)
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nothing good.. its when either a guy or a girl calls another guy or a girl just to have sex..
haha yeah..
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hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
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wow.. sounds so much like me =[ i was just raped july 1st.. over the summer.. it was soo horrible.. im surprised you want to have sex.. you should be careful with guys since it happened 2wice.. you should tell your boyfriend..but yeah i lost my virginity to gettin raped to.. it happend to me when i was 13.. and 14 and both times i was high on weed.. and then i got a date rape drug.. i ahvent had a boyfriend since.. cause both times.. i didnt no the guy and its so scary.. and luckly i dont have anything..t hank god.. but really.. you should be careful.. you should talk about what happened with you to a counsuler.. cause with me.. i sometimes cry out of nowhere.. and im scared about seeing guys.. and honeslty.. i usd to be a big slut cause i used to like attention from guys.. which is stupid..
ok.. so back to your question cause i got off topic.. i think you should tell your boyfriend that you got raped.. but you want to have sex with him.. mayvbe he wants to have sex with you too but hes too shy.. communication is everything..
hope i helped =]
linds
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hi. umm i am 13f and i havent started my period yet.. which is fine. but umm i am completely am totally flat. im not one of those girls with small boobs who just says shes flat. i really am quite literally FLAT. and i hate it. all of my friends (again, not exagerating) have boobs. how come i dont? will they ever come? because i do see adults sometimes that are flat. i really dont want to be like that. i have never had a boyfriend. my friends have. guys like girls with boobs. and dont say its not true. sorry huns, but uuh it is. guys used to like me in 5th grade and below because i am pretty, and then, nobody had boobs. but now that they do, im just a "little girl" compared to all of my friends. i really hate being flat. i dont know what i can do. obviously i cant magically make them appear.. but aah i hate it. i dont want to wear a padded bra because if someone bumps into me it will be obvious. what is a water bra? and wtf do i do????????
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you should get the natural bra.. size A.. you can get them at mandees or look online if its really bothering you... i never really had a problem cause i got my period wen i was 10 .. and also maybe your family jsut doesnt have boobs.. look at your mom.. but yeah get the natural bra.. and then wear your normal bra over it .. it feels real and everything..
and actually NORMAL guys dont like girls for there booobs.. thats just shallow and dumb.. guys should like you for your personality .. guys who like you for your body and your face just want to fuck you cause.. it happened to me.. so be careful.. and guys arent that great.. truthfully most of them suck haha..
hope i helped
linds
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I recently had sex with my boyfriend, and I thought my cherry popped but it could have just been my period. it lasted for like more than 4 days..but its bothering me because i thought my cherry poppped... and i wanna know ...
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THIS IS ANNOYING ME. lol can anyone help? (link)
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actually.. there is no such thing as a cherry.. cause my gyno. doctor told me haha.. its actually just a flap of skin.. but it doesnt pop nothing pops.. the only reason why a girl would bleed.. would be because its stretchin out.. but somegirls dont bleed because its already stretched out from either gettin fingurerd.. or idk whatever some girls do haha.. so yeah maybe you dont have to worry abuot it anymore.. cause there is nothing that pops lol..
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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it? (link)
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nah.. porn is good for you if your not doing anything..
even if your parents told you to stop.. dont cause thats weird if you dont..
haha k
linds
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Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..
This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this?? (link)
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haha.. i smoke weed everyday! my doctors all no by blood tests stuff. and no they cant tell your mom.. there not police men there doctors.. you should feel comfortable around your gyno. doctor.. and yeah you shoudl tell the truth cause they stick this thing i forgot what its called up your thing.. and they will no.. they will prob. take a pee test to see if you have anything.. but wen they look in your vagina.. and if they see something weird.. they will prob take blood tests and then your mom might have to no.. so dont lie..
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One of my best friends that I've known all of my life asked me a really weird question the other day. He asked me if I would give him head and I thought he was kidding so I started to laugh. And then he said "I'm serious." So I kind of looked at him with a blank stare. And I told him I don't know and he was like begging me to and I said I'd think about it. I just think it's kind of weird that he would ask ME to do that. What should I do? I know he doesn't like me as a girlfriend so I don't know why he asked me.
Another question I have is does oral and anal sex count as your "first time"? Or is it just regular? Because if it does count then I don't really want to because I'd like to lose my virginity to someone mor special.
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i dont think you should do it with your best friend.. cause then it will feel rreally weird and it wont be as fun..nd then you guys prob. wont talk anymore.. and really.. penis' are grose looking.. it doesnt matter whose it is.. haha
losin your virginity is only when a guy STICKS his penis in your vagina..
i think you should tell your best friend to have a girlfriend do it.. not a best friend..
hope i helped =]
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Ok, both me and my boyfriend prefer..having it shaved "down there". The only thing whe I try to shave i still have littel studs that don't totally go away. I want it to be completley smooth there. Can I use nair down then? Or what can I use beside waxing it..thnx (link)
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pshh.. i use nair.. it works great.. it doesnt burn just dnt put it in your thing cause that will burn sooo bad.. leave it on for 7 minutes.. and then jump in the shower and shave it off.. with the nair on it .. trust me it works sooo gooddd.. yeah but you should always shave it there.. it feels so much better and it looks cleaner..
hope this helped =]
linds
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Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex? (link)
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i no im younger then you... but a lot of stuff has happened to me with guys.. over the summer.. i got raped.. bc i was stupid.. i hung out with the wrong ppl.. and i got a date rape drug in my drink and it was the most horrible-ist thing in the worldd.. but if your bf is sayin that.. he prob. just wants to have sex with you and then go to another girl.. if you wait at least 7 mnts.. but dnt tell him that cause then like he'll do what ever he can to fuck u, but just say nah.. im good i dnt wanna do that im waitin till im married.. and then he'll prob say *i love you* and like yeah its hard to say no but dnt do it.. i think you should break up with him cause guys are assholes! haha..
but if you really do like him then you should do other stuff besides sex..
hope it helped
linds
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okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea. (link)
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haha it feells soooooooooo good.. it doesnt hurt at allll.. =]
linds
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I was wondering
if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?
i was always wondering
and does sex hurt for the first time??
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yeah it hurts the first time.. but it depends if the guys dick is big cause if hes like little.. then it doesnt haha.. you should wait till your married.. cause now theres so many desieses (i cnt spell ) and its not worth it.. or just do it with a long time boyfriend..
and also.. wen you love the person it doesnst really hurt as much..
hope this helps ..
linds
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hey peeps i was just wondering what you think... should a girl tell her b/f if she is taking pregnancy pills?? xoxo i'll rate good for good answers! thanx (link)
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if you guys are having sex then you should tell him.. but use a condom too cause sometime pills dont work all the time.. and that would suck..=]
linds
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Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :) (link)
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yeah it is.. cause when you get *horny* white stuff comes out of your thing.. haha .. so if you get dreams about sex a lot that might b why.. but if your gettin it in school its prob. just discharge.. usally you get your period like a week after..
linds
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