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ok i need help ASAP. so i was trying to give a hj and it was hard to keep going up and down bc my hand would like get stuck?? what am i doing wrong?

wen it gets hard to go up and down just put it in ur mouth for a second or lick it up and down to make it more slippery and wen u do it make eye contact with the guy ..works well

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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough

is not a question of how long you guys have been together....but if you feel comfortable enough to be with him and have sex with him then yes its ok...just remmeber there are lots of consequences and to be safe.....and it will probably be different after you guys have sex....like your relationship will change...could go far the worst or best but good luck

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During ur period if u had sex would you be able to get pregnant???

yes u can get pregnant anytime just some times are greater than others

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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees.

i agree, i dont think being married is as important as just make sure u love him and he loves u back

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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE

i dont think ur pregnant but the more u stress over it the later it will come because stress can cause it to be late

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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

hmm first of all im gonna say something but its not the usual dont kill the baby its innocent and blah cuz i think thats gay i think if u dont feel u can give the baby the life and the love it should have and needs then u shouldnt have the baby born bcuz all babies deserve to be with both parents and stufflike that and thats hard wen ur so young so in some cases i believe itsok to get an abortion.... but abortion shouldnt be used as a birth control so try to more safe next time.... i think u should talk to ur parents about it tho cuz chances are theyll find out ne way..... if its been less than 2 hours since the baby was conceived u can get emregeny contraception to kill the baby at a local planned parent hood..... if its been longer u should find a local planned parent hood and do and talk to them aboutit especially if u dont wanna talk to ur parents aboutit......make sure this is what u wanna do and be totally postive before making any major decisions....planned parenthood is a good place to go and they can help n lead u in the right direction whether its an abortion or not but im not sure what state u live in i live in ny and right now u can get an abortion without ur parents knoing but theyre trying to change that but no matter what u do im sure ull have to pay.....personally i could never have an abortion im 16 and even tho im young i would love to have a baby right now but thats just me..... so neways good luck and im sure whatever decision u make is the right decision for the baby and yourself hope i helped ....rate me please!

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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?

welll i think ur right a lot of guys probably wont be a virgin but i think that the guy u will consider to be special will be because if thats what u want then ull probably wait for sum1 who is so dont worry about it

and i think that waiting for a special guy is a realli good thing to do cuz im 16 too and didnt wait i wasnt even goin out with the guy and it totally sucked and it was sucha disapointment .....so im sure the more the guy means to u the more amazing it will be so good luck

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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do?

i think this is a question u should answer on your own. if u feel ready and dont think ull regret it after and u really want to do it beacause u want to ant just because he wants to and u thinkhe might crack if u dont. im sure that he wont mind if u dont want to considering hes alreadi been with u for so long. he must be a great guy and u sohuldnt change your morals for anyone but if u really love him and thinks its the right decidion then go for it i guess ur not a lil kid like sum of these people who are 13 ....ur old enough to make this decision on ur own ...so do what your heart feels and not just what your mind feels. good luck

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I need help witht this riddle please try n figure it out fo me ok here it goes....... there is a ,man on trial and a man steps up to the stand and asks to speak, the judge says who are u the man says brother n sisters i have none but the father of this man is my fathers son, how is the man related to the criminal. $M$

hes either the dad or half brother.... because say tom is the man theyre talking bout on trial and joe is his dad and the guy speakings dad name is jim ......the father of tom is jims son therefore the guys is saying he is joe which would be toms(the man) dad.....or it could be saying he has a halfbrother and jim has 2 sons: Joe and the guys speaking.....and then tom would be joes son

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How old do u have to be to have sex?

u dont have to be a certaina ge but let me tell u this ............. im 16 i had sex and its not as great as people say it is so dont do it until u realli find the right guy becuase i du do ull be mad at yourself later

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