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My name is Meghan. I am a junior and I like to hear people's problems and try to help them. I'm going to college to be a pyschologist so i'm thinking this will be good practice. You can ask anything.
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Ive got a problem ive had since i was about 9 years old. My mom has always had me do chores around the house and it was never a problem until i turned 9. What happened when i turned 9 was i was able to get erections. When ever i pick up a bottle of cleaning solutions or a feather duster, i get enormous erections that will not go away for a couple hours. I am really embarrased about this problem and i like helping my mother clean but i dont enjoy having erections for a couple of hours. How do i tell my mom about this problem?
you are either messing with me or you do really have this problem. you are wierd!
Ive been with my girlfriend for about 7 months
and weve talked about sex my worry is my penis
is not real big im a bit worried about it
does size matter that much?
I think if you're gf loves you enough to have sex with you, then she won't be worried about how big or small you are. Especially if she is as virgin. Size would matter on that part because the bigger you are, the more it would hurt her unless she's been fingered a lot. Don't worry about it. Good luck!
okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to
Well, i myself am doing exactly what you are. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 yrs and we have done nothing but kiss. I'm glad to hear that you are waiting this long and i'm glad you want to be extra safe. i have been on birth control for over 2yrs now and i started mine because i had irregular periods. You can call planned parenthood and they will give you birth control without your parents knowing. But if you have irregular periods, they straighten them out by going on the pill. Good Luck and if you have any more questions you can just ask.
i am growing hair in very wierd places and i dont know what to should i shave it all off or what please help me
well josh...you should know why you have that problem by now...u r a senior...and its up to you to shave it off or not...lol
meghan i love you and want sex VERY VERY bad and i want to kiss you all ova and ova and again i want to suck on your yummies and i want you to lick my rock hard wee wee and ryan said he want to have a threesome with you and he told me you have a afro .............
hahahahahaha.....yeah ok josh....i love you too.....
I am a guy. This question deals with masturbation. When a girl is "rubbing the deodorant" or jerking you off are you supposed to tell her when your about to climax or are you just supposed to let it go all over her hands?!???
Well, it would be nice to tell her that. So that way she isn't unprepared. It depends on how you feel abotu it. Maybe you should ask her. Hope that helped. Good luck.
i need someone with expirence! what do you do when u get to second base and how do u do it, same with third! when they like "finger" you (ive never masturbated) what do you do? do you just lay down and they stick their hand down there? isnt that gross and do they expect all the hair to be shaved off?? is it sposta be dry or wet or what, please inform me of the process. =) i really need help and advice and how you do it nd stuff, thanks!
Well, when you are fingered, you can do lots of things. be laying there the first time and just feeling it would be the best way since you haven't been fingered before i take it. It's not gross, it might feel wierd the first timebut it's not gross. And being wet is better because if you are dry it may hurt a little.
Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :(
I have been taking birth control for 2 years now. Once you've been taking it for a while, it is already in your system. But you should schedule a doctor appointment just to be on the safe side. And even though you are on birth control, it isn't completely safe. You should still use a condom.
My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?
HOnestly the only thing you can do is say that if he really loves you then he would respect your opinion on it. I think a good number of guys want to have a three some. But they are guys. I think talking to him more about how you feel will help him realize that he could make a mistake by doing this. If you feel uncomfortable about it, you shouldn't do this at all. Even if he wants to.
i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do???
Youi need to tell your friend how you feel about her sexuality. Tell her that you are fine with her being that way, but it makes you feel a little uncomfortable going to her house. And you shouldn't listen to what people say. That is how rumors are spread. Just sit down with her and explain how you feel. I'm sure she'll understand if she is your friend.
I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle-
Well to be honest I use pads still and a lot of my friends do. I've tried tampons and in my opinion they're not taht great. They don't hurt, just the first time it feels uncomfortable. I think no matter what you use during your period, it's going to be messy. You shouldn't use tampons just because you've heard that they are better or it's the "cool" thing to do. I have a friend who was afriad to use tampons too so she asked me to come into the bathroom with her. So she tried but was afraid. If you're uncomfortable before even trying to use one, then you shouldn't attempt to use them. You won't be looked at as weird either.