Hello! Umm...let's see. What would people want to know about me? I'm a Capricorn (lol). I love the word uber, dislike the word moist, and dancing silly in my room lip-synching the lines to the song 'Rock Lobster' into a hairbrush is a pretty cool pass-time in my eyes. :)
I like helping out giving advice. It distracts me from my owm problems ( Ha! Ha! jk)
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E-mail: bee_pee_tee421@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: origionally from Missouri, but right now im living in Maryland
Occupation: i babysit occassionally. When it comes to taking care of kids, I put Mary Poppins to shame.
Age: 17
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Every year just seems to get worse and worse, ever since 7th grade. That's when I started having problems with procrastination. Before that, it took me longer than normal to do work, too. I'd spend hours doing homework that would take others less than an hour. Now I'm 16 in 11th grade and this is the worst year yet. I am failing 6 out of 8 classes.. and I have so much make up work to do that I'm not even sure my teachers will accept but I have to do it anyways.. I don't know how I got myself in this situation. I had summer reading, but I put it off til last minute. My teacher said that only me and 1 other person in all of her classes didn't hand in a summer reading project. In 10th grade I had major issues like that until I moved to this new school, but now I'm just repeating those problems but at a worse scale. I feel mad at myself everyday cause I can only blame myself.. but I just wish people would take notice and try to help somehow.. thats the only thing that frustrates me though its pretty selfish I guess. my older sister has depression so my parents focus most of their time with her and im just afraid to tell people my problems because nobody really helps.. my parents and gudiance counselor just scold me and I just feel worse. I want to go to a good college and get a great job I know I can get because other than my laziness Im a very good student when I try. Its a bad combination, but I'm also a huge perfectionist. I guess its part of the reason it takes me so long to do homework. but when i really apply myself I get a lot of 100s. but the key to getting As is HARD WORK not BRAINS. and i dont feel very smart when im getting myself in this situation. every day its just worse and worse and i dont want to go to school but ive already skipped school 5 times this marking period trying to finish my work (which i could never focus to do on those days) and i cant miss anymore days of the semester unexcused or my parents could get in trouble. my parents were really pissed about it too. but each day i just get more hw added to the neverending pile of work. i have work from the beginning of the 1st marking period in most classes, thats how bad it is. why am i just letting this happen? because of this it really pissed off and let down my volleyball coaches, teachers, parents, etc. ive become really reserved and etc and thats not how i was last year when i first came to the school and got high As in everything. i just dont have any confidence when im doing so bad in school. like today in english class i couldnt even think of how to respond to a topic.. we had to write a personal narrative about how a secret has impacted our life. i spent over 1 hour trying to think of something.. but I just couldnt come up with anything. I asked my teacher for extra time at the end to finish, but he said he wont accept it because I wrote nothing, and he knows my previous record of not doing work. i went to the next class in tears. and i cant really get mad at him because im the one whos messing up, not him. dammit this is my junior year why cant i get a hold of myself? when i come home its almost impossible to not go on sites like yahooanswers, youtube, and forums to try and get rid of the pressure i felt from school. but then i end up going online for several hours and then im too tired for work and then the cycle of not getting work done just continues. the last time i actually completed homework at home was about 2 weeks ago. thats how bad my situation is. i was dropped down from 2 college classes and ugh everything is just horrible. im saying this here because i dont have anyone to talk to. ive never really had close friends in my life... the whole friendship thing is really foreign to me.. god it sounds so lame but its true. almost all the friends ive had in life have just been " school friends". and id be nice to them and try to invite people to things rarely (because the idea of inviting people for things seems awkward.. im not used to being a host at all) but i'd almost never get invited by them for stuff either. i didnt do halloween this year not because i didnt want to dress up and stuff, but because i had no one to hang out with or anything. I just feel so lonely.. and I dont get how everyone else seems to have even a few friends that are close to them. i dont know what ive done so wrong to not get friends cause im not ugly, super weird, or mean or anything. i dont need to be popular, i just want to feel close to someone you know? if i cant even get best friends then i guess it will be ages before i get a boyfriend too. not that i even feel ready for one.. because again, i dont feel confident w/ my failing grades (link)
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Hey there,
Wow...you sound alot like me. I move around quite a bit because my father is in the military, so we have to go where ever the government need him. I started slacking off in middle school when I finally began to hate having to make brand new friends every other year. School didn't matter to me. The only fun part of school was gone (friends)and I din't want to put in the effort to start fresh.
Needless to say, my grades slipped and my mother became extremely concerned. She was certain that it was the teacher or something since I had never done poorly in anything ever before.
It was hard to get on top of things, but as soon as I made friends again, I was motivated. Homework sucked the most. Even now I despise the thought of working at school for about 8 hours only to bring work back to my house just so that I can work for another couple hours.
I found out that listening to music was a great way for me to focus, because I have a short attention span and if I'm not entertained in some way, I'll get off track. I just had to make sure it wasn't too loud or I started to get too into it :) Also, if I chew on something like gum or a snack, it's easier for me to concentrate on the task at hand.
I have to admit that I'm still pretty lazy though and if I know I'll pass a class even if I don't do the assignment, I tend not to do it :)
Hope this helped atleast a little :p
-bpt
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Well thanks for the adivce it really helped. Well about the whole positions thing, well i dont really know wat positions i could do. cause i normaly masterbate at night when my family is asleep and i do it in my bedroom. i lay down and pretty much just like lift my legs up so they are bent sitting on the bed while i lay down. wat are some other positions that would help me achieve better and more intense orgasms? And should i try going in my vagina and doing a g-spot orgasm? Now, idk if i get wet easily or wat, but i think it might just be vaginal discharge and its not much, does that show how wet i am? and should i try to make myself very wet or at least try to before i masterbate, would that make my orgasm "pulse" as you say? thank you so much, i really appreicate your time! (link)
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Okay, so you usually masterbate on your back so why don't you try laying on your stomach and grinding onto something? You know like pillow or a stuffed animal or something. Also, you can use certain objects to penetrate yourself. My best friend uses a vibrating razor that she doesnt use for shaving anymore. Just be sure its safe. No sharp edges! :)
Hope this helps!
-bpt
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Ok so im 17 years old female. I masterbate and iv heard that when you orgasm you are suppose to "cum" or "squirt". I do not do this and dont know why. Is this because i only do clit and not g-spot. my orgasms are ok, they arent intense like i heard they are suppose to be? How do i make them really good, and most of all, how do i make myself cum or squirt? Sometimes its hard to really get into it and like halfway through i want to give up. is this because im not turned on enough or am just harder to make orgasm. When i do it doesnt take me that long but its a ok orgasm. I dont think i have ever had an intense one, and dont know if thats cause i havent done a g-spot one. I need help on this alot! Thank you very much!! (link)
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I have never "squirted", as you put it, but Ive heard some girls do. A good way to know how turned on you are is how wet you are down there. The more wet you are, the more turned on you are. Also, you might feel a more intense pulse going through your vagina. Now, about how good your orgasms are, have you tried positioning yourself differently?
Hope this helps! If you have any more questions, feel free to ask. I'll try to make myself useful ;)
-bpt
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Hi all :) I'll make this as short and simple as I can to conserve your time and patience.
I have never had sex and don't intend to engage in doing so for a good while. In the meantime, my boyfriend has fingered me many many times, not to be rude or anything. By this time, my hymen is already broken, no big deal. Yet I still bleed, kind of excessively. And it's really annoying.
Now I'm not sure, and I apologize if I sound ignorant, but I think I might have a hunch at why this is happening? I thought perhaps because the uterine lining is built with blood to nest a baby or shed during menstruation, that's he's possibly irratating the lining and causing a large amount of blood from the lining to end up on his fingers and in my underwear? Not too sure.
If you know anything about why I keep bleeding, please inform me.
P.S.: even if his nails are short, this keeps happening and I can't think of anything else of why this would keep occurring.
Thank you so much (link)
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I'm not sure why you are bleeding exactly, but I can tell you that it is not him irritating the uterine lining. The uterine lining is furthur in your body. See, there is the area where the penis (or finger, in your case)is inserted, then at the very end there is a tiny opening. Inside there is where the lining is and the egg preparing to be fertilized. I will do some research, but for now atleast you can cross that off your list.
Okay, so I've done some research. How long has it been since he broke your hymen? Because the bleeding can continue for 1-7 days (even more in some cases). It all depends on the person's body. As for it happening during the act, your vagina secretes a thicker whitish liquid ( its supposed to help when it comes to lubrication for things to be inserted more easily). I'm guessing that when your body start to let that out, some blood from the same area is coming with it. Hope this helps!
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i am a 16 year old female. he is a 16 year old male. okay so on sunday night my boyfriends mom made all these new rules and stuff and i couldn't handle it so i broke up with him. (i regret it and i did not mean it. i said it bc i was pissed.) he went insane that night and i found out the next morning he spent the night in the hospital because he threatened to commit suicide. we hung out that day for 2 hours to talk bout the break up. he said he did not mean it when he said he wanted to commit suicide. he asked his mother if we could hang out longer and she said no. he went insane again and went back to the hospital. i havent heard from his since. i called his cell 3 times yesterday and on the third call, his mom answered. this is our convo.
Me: hey is ****** there?
her: no he is at the hospital, you can't visit him
me: okay well can u have him call me back when he gets out:
her: no, you guys aren't allowed to talk anymore or see each other.
me: ok.
there was a little bit more. but yeah. so now we are not alllowed to see each other or talk ever again. it's hard because he completes me. i am not sure if this is a test to see if our love is really this strong. but i am scared that he is gonna come back and not have any feelings for me anymore. so i don't know what to do at this point. She is controlling him and has the whole relationship. I have talked to a lot of people and all i can do is blame the mother. She makes him uncomfortable which makes me get uncomfortable which then makes him freak out. i really dont know what to do.. please help. i need imput and advice (link)
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1st off, let me just say that that really sux. I'm sorry things aren't going too well. You might want to look at this story from some one else's shoes, like the mother's for instance. I'm not sure what her new rules were, but I'm sure she meant the best when she began to enforce them. And when you broke up with him because of her actions I'm sure she took it as badly as a slap in the face. Now that things are over between you and him, she probably wants to protect him from the events that occurred after the break-up. She's just trying to keep her child's safety in mind, although it seems to me like she's making things worse in the process. I think your best chance of making a happy ending for this story is trying to reason with his mom. Try to be as nice as possible, or else she may not waste her time talking to you. There may be alot of restrictions and even more new rules if she lets you see him, but you might not want to compain this time around...
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if i gave my boyfriend a hand job and he got sperm on his hand and then fingered me could i get pregnant? (link)
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yes, it's possible and not as unlikely as you might think. Sperm can live up to an hour outside the body and about six hours inside your vagina. So, you might want to check it out.
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